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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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When it comes to fancying someone... how do you know when it's more than flirty repartee?
Do you fancy people quite easily? Would you openly say or do you prefer to keep things closer to your chest?
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By *cott73Man
over a year ago
brighton |
These days, I find it harder to fancy people. I suspect it's years of experience with people that puts my guard up.
I very rarely fall for someone immediately and generally look for the red flags first. I should try to change that |
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Fancying people is tricky for me in all honesty.
There's people I think are hot but don't fancy them, I need a face, a personality, a voice before I can fancy them & even then I'm probably a little shy in saying yes I fancy you unless I'm sure they do do, maybe the fear of rejection I'm not too sure.
But yeah I don't fancy people easily and I don't let them know easily either  why am I even here!!
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I can appreciate someone’s aesthetic but I very rarely actually fancy anyone. I like lots of things about lots of people but it so rarely becomes anything more. Plus it has to be face to face, I need to see someone’s eyes to cross that line. I’m just a pain in the arse.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It starts with a phwoar!!! And after time, it turns into a ‘I like them!’ And then transcends into, damn, they are really my type.
It takes a while for me to really fancy someone, …..which is crap, because I’m impatient!!!
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By *cott73Man
over a year ago
brighton |
"I have no problems letting people I know I fancy them. That's when it goes from flirting to "get in my cellar, I'll deal with you later!"  "
Does your cellar have an extensive wine collection? I might not come out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle with finding guys I fancy. I was just thinking actually, I've deleted messages this morning from hot guys, guys that are physically my type, decent messages, and I'm just wondering what the hell is wrong with me!
When it does happen it's usually pretty instant though, it's a feeling down there when you see a photo, read a message.
I think the guys I like know  although I have been told I'm not very good at expressing this before.
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Depends on the kind of fancy you speak of? Sometimes something about someone catches my eye, and I quite fancy finding out more about them. Fancying them to a point of "I want to do debaucherous things with you" that initial fancy needs to be built upon. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"These days, I find it harder to fancy people. I suspect it's years of experience with people that puts my guard up.
I very rarely fall for someone immediately and generally look for the red flags first. I should try to change that "
Ah, walls up can definitely make you more... cautious to feelings of any kind. If it's not serving you, then trying to change it could be a good idea, x |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
I wouldn't say I fancy anyone here...until meeting in person you don't know. But even then it's a good question because here is hot flirting and then hopefully sex early on, it kind of skips that fawning thinking about them stage where I think you develop the 'fancy' |
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There are lots of people I think are physically attractive, but to find them sexy/fancy them I need to know and like a bit about them as a person too. Probably not explaining myself very well ,guess for me it’s about the person not just the looks  |
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Usually when they whack me over the head with a metaphorical (literal works too) "FAF?" sign  I'm horrendous at picking up on hints, and even think that graphic forum posts targetting me are just playful banter most of the time 
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Fancying people is tricky for me in all honesty.
There's people I think are hot but don't fancy them, I need a face, a personality, a voice before I can fancy them & even then I'm probably a little shy in saying yes I fancy you unless I'm sure they do do, maybe the fear of rejection I'm not too sure.
But yeah I don't fancy people easily and I don't let them know easily either why am I even here!!
Mrs "
Fuck knows.
No, I'm teasing you. I don't think you have to be actively horndogging to be on here. You can do things in your own way, at your own time. Maybe in 2024 you'll find someone you do fancy and want to tell them. I don't really like the word fancy, typed it too many times now. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Usually when they whack me over the head with a metaphorical (literal works too) "FAF?" sign I'm horrendous at picking up on hints, and even think that graphic forum posts targetting me are just playful banter most of the time
LvM"
Oh that's given me an idea! I've not done one in a bit so I'm going to write a smutty thread/post at some point today and see if they notice it. Thanks for the inspiration BlowieBoy.  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I don’t fancy many people so it’s a nice suprise when I do!
I try and flirt but I’m a bit rubbish at that. I think it comes across as cheek.
I never say. I’m old fashioned when it comes to that sort of thing. |
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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago
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"I struggle with finding guys I fancy. I was just thinking actually, I've deleted messages this morning from hot guys, guys that are physically my type, decent messages, and I'm just wondering what the hell is wrong with me!
When it does happen it's usually pretty instant though, it's a feeling down there when you see a photo, read a message.
I think the guys I like know although I have been told I'm not very good at expressing this before.
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Could you be the born again virgin Mary? Its close to Christmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I fancy someone I either avoid them like the plague or if forced to interact I say the most cringy stuff. Naturally I have no filter but that is turbo charged when faced with a fitty.
So, if you think we are getting on, the conversation is flowing naturally and out souls are aligning the chances are I don't fancy you. |
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I am absolutely terrible at reading signals that people give off. Even when i do think people might be showing an interest i convince myself I'm imagining it and they're just being polite. It really needs someone to outright tell me, which i struggle to do with others. |
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In real life I give the puppy eyes, flirting or openly checking them out.
Yes, I look into their eyes too.
Always give some sign, even if they are really out of my league.
I have so much more tools to get them compared to Fab. Scrape together all my confidence, because there's more to win than lose.
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Here is kind of like a twisted realty.
Most single guys like dogs chasing their tails.
I will put all my energy and confidence left to get women in real life.
Fab starting to feel like those scammer gambling sites, but lose more pride than money.
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I don't know. You just kind of know if you fancy someone or not so I wouldn't say I fancy people easily or more hesitantly, just if you are hot or have a sexy vibe to me I'll probably fancy you.
I like to think I make it quite obvious so hopefully they can tell. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Away for Christmas |
Fancy lots of people in different ways.
Not all of them I want to fuck though. In fact very few, though some are potential as time goes on. Some added or fall off.
I generally tell people if i fancy them. |
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"When it comes to fancying someone... how do you know when it's more than flirty repartee?
Do you fancy people quite easily? Would you openly say or do you prefer to keep things closer to your chest?
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It takes a lot for me to fancy someone. But if I do, I *really* fancy them and want it all the time when I’m with them. |
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