Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz |
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"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz"
27 people in a year, think you should be giving the advice to us mate |
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By *hirleyMan 48 weeks ago
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"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz"
You won't get attention writing messages to women here. You need a 3 foot penis and even then you may struggle bud. |
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Your profile is good. Your photos are good, you’re very cute  and articulate. And you have lots of great veris, so don’t know what the problem is… do you want a different woman every day? 
Give us a shout next time you go to AbFab. I am a sucker for cute-faced Scotsmen …  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Besides some friends from club events i went to, which is easier to engage with,my online ability is in question "
So…….. you see people in person. What’s the problem?  you’d rather just chat online?
*woody offers to swap!  |
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Na its just when you dont go to clubs as offten due to life prioitorys with money (as single lads entrys to clubs is the price of a kidney hahah) ill tend to chat on here to see if anyone wants to have a social or any fun if they are just looking for that. But i seem to het no where at all |
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"Na its just when you dont go to clubs as offten due to life prioitorys with money (as single lads entrys to clubs is the price of a kidney hahah) ill tend to chat on here to see if anyone wants to have a social or any fun if they are just looking for that. But i seem to het no where at all"
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Only 2 women commented and 1 definitely likes you.
The other one messaged you as well.
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Thanks for the help and suggestions guys and gals
As a single lad and any of the lads who msg know its hard to be the one guy to stand out in a sea of single men whole on here
Im not bragging at all the verifications are very spread out over the last year and not consistant, those are the times i went to clubs |
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"27 people....can you teach me? 
That's more than me in the past 5 years! "
Thats 27 since 2018 though so i do get long very long lonley spells like every one else haha
Ur stunning though did you just not find anyone the grabbed your eye then? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"27 people....can you teach me?
That's more than me in the past 5 years!
Thats 27 since 2018 though so i do get long very long lonley spells like every one else haha
Ur stunning though did you just not find anyone the grabbed your eye then?"
I struggle to a bit. But I did also have a two year relationship with one guy and went couple only so that's accounts for part of it. |
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"27 people....can you teach me?
That's more than me in the past 5 years!
I think he needs to be more picky......lol "
If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha
I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha |
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"27 people....can you teach me?
That's more than me in the past 5 years!
I think he needs to be more picky......lol
If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha
I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha"
Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.
I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye.... |
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"27 people....can you teach me?
That's more than me in the past 5 years!
I think he needs to be more picky......lol
If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha
I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha
Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.
I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye...."
Aye thats alright everyone has the right to there thoughts, even if sarcastic or not right its how conversation continues and we progress as people right haha |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey. |
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"27 people....can you teach me?
That's more than me in the past 5 years!
I think he needs to be more picky......lol
If u read the veris you will see a fair few of them are from partys and clubs when i socialised is all.. dosnt mean i didnt play as well hahaha
I dont think i need to be more picky tbh im a single lad on a site that has thousands of sex hungry single lads on it and im under the age of 30 so the pool for people who will engage with me is reduced a fair bit haha
Sorry bud i was being sarcastic.
I think you're doing fine tho mate. Sorry for any offence i didn't mean it like that. Ye big stud ye....
Aye thats alright everyone has the right to there thoughts, even if sarcastic or not right its how conversation continues and we progress as people right haha"
Mate i stay in s/w Scotland, there's not many women around here. If you're being genuine and sticking to who you are even if you had 1 meet with a good veri then that's more satisfying to both you and whoever you met than trying to be someone your not.
I've met a few people but if I'm not feeling a connection that's as far as it goes.
Keep being you and you'll be fine bud. |
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"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey."
Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey.
Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here "
I think you're expecting a bit much. You've had a lot of success on here, and I would say you are having more luck than most men on the website. I would lower you expectations and try not to dwell on it. Women obviously like you and enjoy your company, so maybe if you've had more success in clubs try and get yourself to them as much as possible? |
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"I am struggling to feel sorry for you. I went to view your profile and first thing I see is you with two lingerie clad ladies. I think you're doing alright matey.
Well its a good thing i wasnt looking for sympathy but i get where your comming from, some photos can be miss leading with out context and this thread makes it out like im just fishing for responses but im being genuine, since i got back home up in scotland ive been struggling to connect with people on here
I think you're expecting a bit much. You've had a lot of success on here, and I would say you are having more luck than most men on the website. I would lower you expectations and try not to dwell on it. Women obviously like you and enjoy your company, so maybe if you've had more success in clubs try and get yourself to them as much as possible? "
Thats a fair and sound suggestion thank you i appreciate you advice, ill try to get back to the clubs when the money and time avaliable to do so haha |
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I'm going back to basics and trying to do more in the real world. I live in quite a nice town so I'm trying to be a 'man about town', become a familiar face in a few different places and see what happens.
If it fails then Plan B is to lay a trail of breadcrumbs up to my front door. chocolate ones. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Ive been struggling on here for a wee while, it seems that no matter what i do i can never grab a lasses attention. Though ill write a message that shows maturity when there bio asks or send msg being funny, cheeky but respectful... nothing seems to work dose anyone have suggestions plz
27 people in a year, think you should be giving the advice to us mate "
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