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Would probs build your sexual confidence?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Inspired by another's comment in the forums...

Interested to know people's thoughts.

Do you think introducing pegging can build a ladies confidence in a relationship. Xx

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Too many variables. Does she want to? Does it introduce or strengthen dynamics she's interested in? How does she feel about herself and how does the relationship as a whole hurt or help that? Might she feel that her partner needs an object rather than her to get what he wants sexually, and thus feel even worse?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

No I don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It might if she gets to peg him every time he fucks up and he learns not to fuck up.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman over a year ago

Somewhere else

Pegging is usually more about the man’s pleasure, I would think.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see pegging as something that is normal part of have sex, it doesn't boost my confidence as it's in any way.

The only thing that does boost my confidence is practice, when trying something new.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Pegging is usually more about the man’s pleasure, I would think."

Yeah, my first post is being pretty charitable. I'm trying to stretch my mind to work out a way it would work.

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By *ornycougaWoman over a year ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Not at all. I love pegging but boosting my confidence doesn't feature in my list of reasons why I enjoy it

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

No.

It can be an interesting dynamic to build on. It can be fun to get to grips with and build confidence in ability to perform that role.

But in general relationship terms, I don't see why it would affect confidence in a positive way there.

Personally I find pegging has next to no physical gratification for me. If it was something I was asked for constantly in a relationship then if anything it would wear down my faith in the other person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose if she was new to being in the dominant situation then yes. Or if she was new to pegging

Otherwise, it seems a bit out there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No.

It can be an interesting dynamic to build on. It can be fun to get to grips with and build confidence in ability to perform that role.

But in general relationship terms, I don't see why it would affect confidence in a positive way there.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

No it didn't increase my confidence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pegging is usually more about the man’s pleasure, I would think."

Shouldn't sex be about giving and taking, giving pleasure is very pleasurable as well as reversing it.

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