So:
* People ask for more detailed messages. I do this, they say it's boring and long.
* I make them short, people say they are too short
* People ask for dick pics on profile
* People hate dick pics on profile
* People only look at winks
* People never look at winks
* People delete or block after a single message (fuckers!)
* People want more face pics
* People want less face pics
* People say they like tattoos
* People say they hate tattoos
Building a profile for myself and not worrying about anyone else is the best thing I've done |
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"You can’t appeal to everyone, and neither would you want to. Do fab how you want to do fab. "
Lesson learned.
When I was in a couple, we could put anything and we could get attention. Not so much as a single male. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"You can’t appeal to everyone, and neither would you want to. Do fab how you want to do fab. Lesson learned.
When I was in a couple, we could put anything and we could get attention. Not so much as a single male."
That’s why it’s a numbers game
There’d 1000 of you to every 1 of them. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Everyone's different  My issue was I that I was so damn horny, I was trying to appeal to everyone i.e. quantity over quality"
If you only look for quality in fabs you’ll end up with nothing
The best fishermen spread a wide net. |
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By *ORBCouple 48 weeks ago
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It's always said that a profile is your shop window.
The problem many people struggle with when it comes to dressing that window is what they are selling.
If the display is full of tat and a promise of something for everyone you'll attract the bargain basket hunters who are quite happy to tell you your products are Ratners knockoffs.
Want to stand out from the crowd?
Stop following them is always a good start.
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"It's always said that a profile is your shop window.
The problem many people struggle with when it comes to dressing that window is what they are selling.
If the display is full of tat and a promise of something for everyone you'll attract the bargain basket hunters who are quite happy to tell you your products are Ratners knockoffs.
Want to stand out from the crowd?
Stop following them is always a good start.
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This. All this.
Hopefully mine is decent enough now... time will tell. |
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Trying to ‘market’ yourself to what others might want is a fool’s errand.
Be yourself. Try to show who you actually are. That way anyone who’s looking for that - for you - has a chance of finding you. |
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"So:
* People ask for more detailed messages. I do this, they say it's boring and long.
* I make them short, people say they are too short
* People ask for dick pics on profile
* People hate dick pics on profile
* People only look at winks
* People never look at winks
* People delete or block after a single message (fuckers!)
* People want more face pics
* People want less face pics
* People say they like tattoos
* People say they hate tattoos
Building a profile for myself and not worrying about anyone else is the best thing I've done"
Exactly! You can’t please everyone. If they don’t like your profile they probably won’t like you so they are doing you a favour by avoiding you. And vice versa of course |
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Exactly! You can’t please everyone. If they don’t like your profile they probably won’t like you so they are doing you a favour by avoiding you. And vice versa of course "
Took me longer than I care to admit to realise that |
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