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Hardest time of year to find a new lover?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.
When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?
Now in the run up to Christmas?
The summer when they are on their holidays?
Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?
January which is classed as the worst month of the year?
April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?
When is the best time? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "
Dam. I better make more of an effort. |
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By *eliWoman 48 weeks ago
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"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "
Yep. Summer is great if you're abroad/on holiday. Otherwise, nope. Get your roster ready in Spring PW.
I'm loving Autumn/Winter time for ermmm... lovin'. |
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"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.
When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?
Now in the run up to Christmas?
The summer when they are on their holidays?
Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?
January which is classed as the worst month of the year?
April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?
When is the best time?"
Feels like people hide out for the entirety of winter in this country. |
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"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men. "
And yes. Cuffing season. Sounds much sexier than it is |
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"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.
When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?
Now in the run up to Christmas?
The summer when they are on their holidays?
Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?
January which is classed as the worst month of the year?
April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?
When is the best time?
Feels like people hide out for the entirety of winter in this country. "
Certainly for me it's the "greyness" of winters here. I've been in wetter places and colder places in winter...and as long as the "light" isn't grey they don't have anywhere near the same effect.
The gwey is not my fwiend. |
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This time of year is a nightmare. I'm too busy, they are too busy. So much shit going on.
The "boring" months tend to be the best, around my birthday especially seems to work. Those are the months people have little pockets of downtime to have to do what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Winter is cuffing season babe. It’s so easy to find dates in winter. In summer when everyone already has their roster sorted? That’s what separates the boys from the men.
And yes. Cuffing season. Sounds much sexier than it is "
Can’t relate  |
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To be fair I've always found the run up parties (work, social groups, clubs etc) a great opportunity. Especially those works Christmas party's held at venues where multiple different work places/companies are attending the same do. In my experience all the singles tend to throw caution to the wind this time of year. As a single in my youth this was prime time for me and I've hooked up and/or started something new a few time this times in this run up period.
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"This time of year is a nightmare. I'm too busy, they are too busy. So much shit going on.
The "boring" months tend to be the best, around my birthday especially seems to work. Those are the months people have little pockets of downtime to have to do what they want. "
In addition to this! I should say even the lazy quiet months are not 3xactoy 100% win rate, it's more like a 0.08% increase |
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There's always a surfeit of newbies on the dating scene straight after Christmas.family life can be too much for many people.
Add to that the ones who have fallen out after getting caught misusing mistletoe on New Year's Eve.
The trick is not to date much in the run up to Christmas. the payroll can be a major expense.
But, don't get too serious before 14th February or that could turn out expensive or complicated for players. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.
When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?
Now in the run up to Christmas?
The summer when they are on their holidays?
Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?
January which is classed as the worst month of the year?
April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?
When is the best time?"
January is good. A clear run without any awkward Christmas present buying  |
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"I never know which term to use, lover playmate, FB, Fwb. Pick whichever one suits you.
When do you think the hardest time of year is for finding someone to bump uglies with?
Now in the run up to Christmas?
The summer when they are on their holidays?
Winter when it's dark and cold early and everyone's vitamin D is a bit fucked?
January which is classed as the worst month of the year?
April, tax year end/start and bills increase or need paying up?
When is the best time?"
surely the best time is when you find someone your attracted to and they fancy you back |
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