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Can you find true love on here
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Depends if you believe true love even exists. But it's maybe a tad early for my doom and gloom.
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Right. Yes it does.
When I say, I love you to someone. It has nothing to do with me, it’s not because I want them or because I’m trying to purseade them to live me. I love what they are, what they do, how they try things, how they make me feel watching them. I’ve seen their kindness and their strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of them. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are, and how much I want all of that.
That’s how I love deep when I fall, some people believ in true love, and they won’t stop. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Depends if you believe true love even exists. But it's maybe a tad early for my doom and gloom.
Right. Yes it does.
When I say, I love you to someone. It has nothing to do with me, it’s not because I want them or because I’m trying to purseade them to live me. I love what they are, what they do, how they try things, how they make me feel watching them. I’ve seen their kindness and their strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of them. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are, and how much I want all of that.
That’s how I love deep when I fall, some people believ in true love, and they won’t stop. "
Right 
Ah woody, you can feel all that yes, but most people confuse lust with love. Most of the time it's just infatuation and it wears off.
Stop people don't believe and they won't start.  |
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"Just wondering in general if it's possible to find true love on here"
This site is no more than a tool for making introductions to like minded people, what happens from the initial moment of contact is completely down to the people involved.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Depends if you believe true love even exists. But it's maybe a tad early for my doom and gloom.
Right. Yes it does.
When I say, I love you to someone. It has nothing to do with me, it’s not because I want them or because I’m trying to purseade them to live me. I love what they are, what they do, how they try things, how they make me feel watching them. I’ve seen their kindness and their strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of them. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are, and how much I want all of that.
That’s how I love deep when I fall, some people believ in true love, and they won’t stop.
Right
Ah woody, you can feel all that yes, but most people confuse lust with love. Most of the time it's just infatuation and it wears off.
Stop people don't believe and they won't start. "
No you’re right. And the true love hits when it’s two people reciprocating. It’s a swinging site, nobody cares for this stuff.
Infatuation is nice. Lust is nice. But I know the differences, that’s where things start, it then can lead to someone thing deep like a love for them.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Depends if you believe true love even exists. But it's maybe a tad early for my doom and gloom.
Right. Yes it does.
When I say, I love you to someone. It has nothing to do with me, it’s not because I want them or because I’m trying to purseade them to live me. I love what they are, what they do, how they try things, how they make me feel watching them. I’ve seen their kindness and their strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of them. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are, and how much I want all of that.
That’s how I love deep when I fall, some people believ in true love, and they won’t stop.
Right
Ah woody, you can feel all that yes, but most people confuse lust with love. Most of the time it's just infatuation and it wears off.
Stop people don't believe and they won't start.
No you’re right. And the true love hits when it’s two people reciprocating. It’s a swinging site, nobody cares for this stuff.
Infatuation is nice. Lust is nice. But I know the differences, that’s where things start, it then can lead to someone thing deep like a love for them. "
But it's rarely love. That's my point. You think it is in the moment, but then months, years down the line you look back and realise it wasn't. And if it was true love those feelings would never fade. And they do. People just don't like to admit it.
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"Just wondering in general if it's possible to find true love on here"
I actually found the woman I’ve been looking for for yeeeaaars on this site.
Beautiful
Funny
Caring
Made me feel excited about life again...
The feelings were unrequited  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Depends if you believe true love even exists. But it's maybe a tad early for my doom and gloom.
Right. Yes it does.
When I say, I love you to someone. It has nothing to do with me, it’s not because I want them or because I’m trying to purseade them to live me. I love what they are, what they do, how they try things, how they make me feel watching them. I’ve seen their kindness and their strength. I’ve seen the best and the worst of them. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are, and how much I want all of that.
That’s how I love deep when I fall, some people believ in true love, and they won’t stop.
Right
Ah woody, you can feel all that yes, but most people confuse lust with love. Most of the time it's just infatuation and it wears off.
Stop people don't believe and they won't start.
No you’re right. And the true love hits when it’s two people reciprocating. It’s a swinging site, nobody cares for this stuff.
Infatuation is nice. Lust is nice. But I know the differences, that’s where things start, it then can lead to someone thing deep like a love for them.
But it's rarely love. That's my point. You think it is in the moment, but then months, years down the line you look back and realise it wasn't. And if it was true love those feelings would never fade. And they do. People just don't like to admit it.
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Love stays. The need for them and the desire to be with them fades over time maybe. Time heals and all that crap (Apparently).
And maybe that’s because you just accept they no longer want you, and there’s a little resentment, I dunno. Love is complicated.
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"Just wondering in general if it's possible to find true love on here
This site is no more than a tool for making introductions to like minded people, what happens from the initial moment of contact is completely down to the people involved.
Cal"
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"I’d say yes, as it’s as likely finding true love anywhere.
But if your looking for it you less likely to find it"
Is that really true ? If we want something badly we just need never to look for it ? |
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By *ee04Man 48 weeks ago
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"I’d say yes, as it’s as likely finding true love anywhere.
But if your looking for it you less likely to find it
Is that really true ? If we want something badly we just need never to look for it ?"
It’s a personal thing maybe. I’ve never gone looking for love but the odd time or two I’ve found it, it was not through looking. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Love is like kicking something so you walk around with a hurt toe all day, thinking wistful thoughts about how your toe hurts. Probably. I have been known to be ‘wrong’. |
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"I wish I’d come on here first before I got married and found the right understanding lady… if that makes any sense  . And I’m sure I’m going to be ridiculed for saying that last statement "
Why would anyone ridicule you? You think your sexual preferences are more important than your current partner and that can't be helped because you were happy enough with them when you found them.
No one can ridicule you for that |
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"I’d say yes, as it’s as likely finding true love anywhere.
But if your looking for it you less likely to find it
Is that really true ? If we want something badly we just need never to look for it ?
It’s a personal thing maybe. I’ve never gone looking for love but the odd time or two I’ve found it, it was not through looking. "
That's lovely that love came to you when you weren't looking. Maybe if you looked you'd have found it four times  |
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