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over a year ago
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this could get messy.
Put simply we think with our dicks far too often.
Im not trying to justify the behaviour but I have often regretted a decision made horny. As soon as you release you realise your error |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????"
some men cant
they just ask the same question different ways till they get they get the answer they want, apparently this works too   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't like to block its not my nature, but I've had to block as he jus wasn't giv in and ok a bit over zealous when I asked why men Can't take no as I have had some that send a MSG back sayin thank you,......... Just bit pissed with this one and needed somewhere to rant. There are really some nice genuine guys on here and yep most think woth their cock but not all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normal understanding men accept no is final. Desperate needy men get on their knees and beg with their tongues out. Dog impressions won't get you very far. |
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By *-BelleWoman
over a year ago
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I suspect there is an element of the thrill of the chase mixed in to this. It would explain those who go quiet when you agree to meet but then start chasing again when they realise you're not bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lets reword the OP as its meant
why cant the men who wont take no for answer not take no for an answer??
now thread is back in context without everyone taking it personally as an insult to every man.. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"It is not just men - it could be women and couples also
 been there!
Pllllleeeaaaasse, I'm begginnnnngggg!!
Will I be compensated for my time? (financially)"
I'm fresh out of pocket fluff so I suppose so.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's just us, but most men requests we turn down take it really well and are polite in their response. Sometimes they take the piss in the chat room assuming that if Tor is on her own they'd be able to get her to agree to a one on one meeting. When I reply saying no thanks they back off politely.
Not had one rude or obnoxious response (yet) |
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"It is not just men - it could be women and couples also
been there!
Pllllleeeaaaasse, I'm begginnnnngggg!!
Will I be compensated for my time? (financially)
I'm fresh out of pocket fluff so I suppose so. "
Congratulations you have passed the test. You have earned one free drill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is not just men - it could be women and couples also
been there!
Pllllleeeaaaasse, I'm begginnnnngggg!!
Will I be compensated for my time? (financially)"
You'll be allowed to live.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just us, but most men requests we turn down take it really well and are polite in their response. Sometimes they take the piss in the chat room assuming that if Tor is on her own they'd be able to get her to agree to a one on one meeting. When I reply saying no thanks they back off politely.
Not had one rude or obnoxious response (yet)"
Maybe cos of using cams these peeps aren't hiding behing there keyboards so well and don't turn into keyboard warriors |
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I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?"
I concur |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"It is not just men - it could be women and couples also
been there!
Pllllleeeaaaasse, I'm begginnnnngggg!!
Will I be compensated for my time? (financially)
I'm fresh out of pocket fluff so I suppose so.
Congratulations you have passed the test. You have earned one free drill. "
Yay! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?I concur "
lucky then..
or u dont see it  |
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?I concur "
Me three, although I've not been here as long as you two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE "
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answer |
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?I concur
lucky then..
or u dont see it "
Or....some people are always looking for something to moan about?
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answer"
which are in the minority |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?I concur
lucky then..
or u dont see it
Or....some people are always looking for something to moan about?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority"
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still stands |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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minority or not in ur experience.. the question still stands"
I really think that people (in general) who dont take no for an answer may... MAY have not learnt to accept other people's boundaries in life, that no actually means no. Perhaps this does go back to childhood, a message that it is ok to push and push...? |
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"I've been on here for nearly three years now and have had what must be thousands of messages in my inbox by now, but the men who can't take no or are offensive when turned down can probably be counted on the fingers of my two hands....
I'm either very lucky or the problem isn't as big as people are potraying?I concur
lucky then..
or u dont see it
Or....some people are always looking for something to moan about?
human nature "
No....habit |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still stands"
did i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string? |
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????"
well we are not generally programmed to be that way ,think of it like an encounter in a pub,a guy comes up with his best chat up lines, you do not go NO and then he walks away ,he comes up with another strategy to get around the NO .
Now this is not the pub and some guys have just not realized that yet ,it takes a bit of time to find that out.
A Persons right to say no must always stand no matter what,some women hit the block button with never a word replied.
which is the ultimate and most definite NO
I understand other people may think differently . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this could get messy.
Put simply we think with our dicks far too often.
Im not trying to justify the behaviour but I have often regretted a decision made horny. As soon as you release you realise your error"
so true!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????"
Because women are indecisive and if we took you at your first answer the human race would die out in one generation. |
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"this could get messy.
Put simply we think with our dicks far too often.
Im not trying to justify the behaviour but I have often regretted a decision made horny. As soon as you release you realise your error"
That's not just a male trait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?"
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer "
Simple answer ? Because i can. Same as you can moan about the ones that do, i can say there are ones that dont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer Simple answer ? Because i can. Same as you can moan about the ones that do, i can say there are ones that dont."
i havent moaned about the ones who do...
ill never understand why if your not going to answer the question asked in a thread.. why post..
oh cos u can.. nice  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
dirtybigbadsgirlville |
"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer Simple answer ? Because i can. Same as you can moan about the ones that do, i can say there are ones that dont.
i havent moaned about the ones who do...
ill never understand why if your not going to answer the question asked in a thread.. why post..
oh cos u can.. nice "
Just human nature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Because women are indecisive and if we took you at your first answer the human race would die out in one generation.
A wise man said this...^"
an unwise man would follow it lol.. cos if u read topics on this most of the females all say its not nice to not take no for an answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer Simple answer ? Because i can. Same as you can moan about the ones that do, i can say there are ones that dont.
i havent moaned about the ones who do...
ill never understand why if your not going to answer the question asked in a thread.. why post..
oh cos u can.. nice Just human nature."
disagree.. if i have nothign to say over the question asked.. i dont post |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????
Some of us can . I know this might suprise you but it is TRUE
no one has doubted that.. the question is about those who dont take no for an answerwhich are in the minority
minority or not in ur experience.. the question still standsdid i say it didnt? How long is a piece of string?
so why not just answer the question asked rather than go on about how many and who doesnt take no for an answer Simple answer ? Because i can. Same as you can moan about the ones that do, i can say there are ones that dont.
i havent moaned about the ones who do...
ill never understand why if your not going to answer the question asked in a thread.. why post..
oh cos u can.. nice Just human nature.
disagree.. if i have nothign to say over the question asked.. i dont post "
And just because you do that, you expect others to do the same. What right do you have to tell me what to post and how to post, i shall do as i like as long as its withing forum rules, but thank you for pointing out the error of my ways. I seem to recall a post from you the other day asking why a thread couldnt be taken to pm, that was not in answer to the thread or was warranted , people in glass houses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"lets reword the OP as its meant
why cant the men who wont take no for answer not take no for an answer??
now thread is back in context without everyone taking it personally as an insult to every man.. "
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why can't women just say yes?
Problem solved,
Next question.  We do.... sometimes. But you guys always hear "no" in anticipation
Happy days,get yer drawers off,
I'm in a hurry.  "
Gee with that kind of sensitivity in a man... I really have no choice. Overwhelmed by lust and desire....I am ! |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"Why can't women just say yes?
Problem solved,
Next question. We do.... sometimes. But you guys always hear "no" in anticipation
Happy days,get yer drawers off,
I'm in a hurry. Gee with that kind of sensitivity in a man... I really have no choice. Overwhelmed by lust and desire....I am ! "
I your not the first lady to succumb to my charms,after all your only human.
Although I'm noticing them drawers haven't hit the floor yet. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I would be interested in knowing how to say 'no' so that someone understands I mean 'no'. I've told one guy that we will not be meeting again. Even told him why. And he's still messaging me trying to change my mind. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why can't women just say yes?
Problem solved,
Next question. We do.... sometimes. But you guys always hear "no" in anticipation
Happy days,get yer drawers off,
I'm in a hurry. Gee with that kind of sensitivity in a man... I really have no choice. Overwhelmed by lust and desire....I am !
I your not the first lady to succumb to my charms,after all your only human.
Although I'm noticing them drawers haven't hit the floor yet. "
They are glued to the thighs in case they have to come up quickly - in case I heard a "yes" and you meant "no"
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I would be interested in knowing how to say 'no' so that someone understands I mean 'no'. I've told one guy that we will not be meeting again. Even told him why. And he's still messaging me trying to change my mind. "
I think in this case I would resort to a polite but firm "I have said no before, it remains a "no" and by trying to convince me otherwise you are alienating me and are likely to get blocked. Is this what you really want?" |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I would be interested in knowing how to say 'no' so that someone understands I mean 'no'. I've told one guy that we will not be meeting again. Even told him why. And he's still messaging me trying to change my mind. I think in this case I would resort to a polite but firm "I have said no before, it remains a "no" and by trying to convince me otherwise you are alienating me and are likely to get blocked. Is this what you really want?""
Its a shame because sometimes its nice to chat to people. He starts off well but then starts asking me to meet and wanting me to add him to friends. We met, it was good, but I don't want to meet again. |
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"I would be interested in knowing how to say 'no' so that someone understands I mean 'no'. I've told one guy that we will not be meeting again. Even told him why. And he's still messaging me trying to change my mind. I think in this case I would resort to a polite but firm "I have said no before, it remains a "no" and by trying to convince me otherwise you are alienating me and are likely to get blocked. Is this what you really want?"
Its a shame because sometimes its nice to chat to people. He starts off well but then starts asking me to meet and wanting me to add him to friends. We met, it was good, but I don't want to meet again. "
I understand what you are saying and I would agree some nice online friendships get wrecked in this way because parties have different expectations. Shame that is. |
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"I would be interested in knowing how to say 'no' so that someone understands I mean 'no'. I've told one guy that we will not be meeting again. Even told him why. And he's still messaging me trying to change my mind. I think in this case I would resort to a polite but firm "I have said no before, it remains a "no" and by trying to convince me otherwise you are alienating me and are likely to get blocked. Is this what you really want?"
Its a shame because sometimes its nice to chat to people. He starts off well but then starts asking me to meet and wanting me to add him to friends. We met, it was good, but I don't want to meet again. I understand what you are saying and I would agree some nice online friendships get wrecked in this way because parties have different expectations. Shame that is."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why can't men take no for an answer??????????"
In the main most PEOPLE can take no for an answer but there will always be some who don't. Admin in their infinite wisdom provided a button on profile pages and on messages entitled BLOCK. This wonderful button stops this problem, takes less time than reading and has miracle property. I personally struggle to see why people take 100 fold the effort to moan about people rather than use the miracle button provided by admin.
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