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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looking for a sub to domanat any subs around?    "
Your other thread earlier was asking to be trained on dominating...do you honestly think someone's gonna put themselves in the hands of a 'Dom' who hasn't got a clue.
It's these kind of Doms that can cause a great deal of damage  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to learn a little first. Get yourself on to the specialist sites and talk to people. It's quite a serious commitment to dominate someone
Good luck on your journey. |
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I'm not sure it's a skill (being a good Dom) that you pick up in five minutes, I should imagine that most submissive women would rather place themselves in the hands and trust of someone with a little experience in the matter. |
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"Is anyone else nervous at the possible outcome of this?   "
He is an adult...any sub worth her salt will steer well clear, she/he will know within a few exchanges hw inexperienced he is...he may find a mentor on that site who can steer him in the right direction..
Would put my money on it he's switch...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is anyone else nervous at the possible outcome of this?
He is an adult...any sub worth her salt will steer well clear, she/he will know within a few exchanges hw inexperienced he is...he may find a mentor on that site who can steer him in the right direction..
Would put my money on it he's switch...lol"
I hope so, we've all had to learn the 'ropes' as such...but I watched and dommed alongside an experienced Domme for a long time before going it alone.
I still have soooo much to learn. Any subs out there? |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else nervous at the possible outcome of this? "
few swingers who only mildly interested in BDSM will get into the real fetish sites:to scary for most LOL....but they learn about Munches in the area + thats a good start of point to get to know people from the scene + to see if it's something they REALY want to learn more about 
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How's the poor chap supposed to get experience when you lot are saying no experienced sub worth their salt will go near him and no virgin sub should trust him???
Everyone had to start somewhere don't they?
OP, I wouldn't rush into anything. Best to meet someone with an interest and build a friendship and trust with them before moving on to more.
Trust and communication are paramount in these things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How's the poor chap supposed to get experience when you lot are saying no experienced sub worth their salt will go near him and no virgin sub should trust him???
Everyone had to start somewhere don't they?
OP, I wouldn't rush into anything. Best to meet someone with an interest and build a friendship and trust with them before moving on to more.
Trust and communication are paramount in these things. "
Was about to say something similar my self. While I do think that some things can't be taught. He is asking for advice. And needs guidance rather than shitty comments
I have a few subs that I give guidance too and also two dominants. All at different levels. But it takes time and everyone was a novice sometime. |
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"How's the poor chap supposed to get experience when you lot are saying no experienced sub worth their salt will go near him and no virgin sub should trust him???
Everyone had to start somewhere don't they?
OP, I wouldn't rush into anything. Best to meet someone with an interest and build a friendship and trust with them before moving on to more.
Trust and communication are paramount in these things.
Was about to say something similar my self. While I do think that some things can't be taught. He is asking for advice. And needs guidance rather than shitty comments
I have a few subs that I give guidance too and also two dominants. All at different levels. But it takes time and everyone was a novice sometime."
I don't see any 'shitty' comments to be honest, just other members telling it as they see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks susie thanks eveshamgal I've just made my self a profile on fetlife I hope I can find some one to show me the ropes lol  "
Look for local munches and demonstrations. I'm quite experienced yet always learn something new at munches. |
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OK just so I cannot be accused of being a horrible meany
Google manchester munch or liverpool munch
monthly meetings of kinkster in your apparent area.
There will be flyers there for club nights and folks there will be able to advise you on which might be good for you.
The North West has a thriving kink scene although it does not have a regular fet fair, the nearest is the BBB in Birmingham.
As on here you will get a lot more credibility and support if you meet people face to face. If you want help to take control over another you should be able to muster the balls to go to a pub and chat to a load of strangers you have things in common with. Stay online and you'll be seen as a keyboard wannabe.
If you are interested in rope work then I would recommend googling
Manchester Rope Jam
Enjoy the journey |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
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"OK just so I cannot be accused of being a horrible meany
Google manchester munch or liverpool munch
monthly meetings of kinkster in your apparent area.
There will be flyers there for club nights and folks there will be able to advise you on which might be good for you.
The North West has a thriving kink scene although it does not have a regular fet fair, the nearest is the BBB in Birmingham.
As on here you will get a lot more credibility and support if you meet people face to face. If you want help to take control over another you should be able to muster the balls to go to a pub and chat to a load of strangers you have things in common with. Stay online and you'll be seen as a keyboard wannabe.
If you are interested in rope work then I would recommend googling
Manchester Rope Jam
Enjoy the journey"
as atendies of both the Manchester events I can recomend them both for a newbie . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How's the poor chap supposed to get experience when you lot are saying no experienced sub worth their salt will go near him and no virgin sub should trust him???
Everyone had to start somewhere don't they?
OP, I wouldn't rush into anything. Best to meet someone with an interest and build a friendship and trust with them before moving on to more.
Trust and communication are paramount in these things. "
I was trusted to try new things, and as said here trust and communication are most important. Now I can read my sexy lady, and that helps massively. |
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