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over a year ago
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If a woman cancels on you, or ghosts you or is late to a social/meet.
Do you treat them differently to a man who would have given the same reason/excuse??? |
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"If a woman cancels on you, or ghosts you or is late to a social/meet.
Do you treat them differently to a man who would have given the same reason/excuse??? "
Depends on the reason.
Did you speak to her on the phone before meeting.
For me, its a prerequisite otherwise it maybe a guy.
Good luck on future meets.
Liz. x  |
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Ailsa is very understanding about cancelling and being late, so long there is communication. She understands that shit happens - god knows her life is busy enough. But ghosting is different. While I will usually entertain reestablishing contact, if only to clear the air, Ailsa will not. Disrespect her once and that’s her done for life Xx |
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I only meet the opposite sex
If I've met them before they'd be given far more lattitude.
if its the first time meeting depends on many factors some you might call gut feel
If my instinct said "hmmmm really'" then nope move on.  |
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"Ailsa is very understanding about cancelling and being late, so long there is communication. She understands that shit happens - god knows her life is busy enough. But ghosting is different. While I will usually entertain reestablishing contact, if only to clear the air, Ailsa will not. Disrespect her once and that’s her done for life Xx"
I agree ghosting is one you do not come back from. |
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"If a woman cancels on you, or ghosts you or is late to a social/meet.
Do you treat them differently to a man who would have given the same reason/excuse??? "
Ghosting - learned the hard way on that one and I don't forgive it now. For anyone male or female.
Lateness - forgiveable
Cancelling - depends on the time of cancelling and the reason really. I would give at least one chance to rearrange though.
I don't think it changes depending on man or woman for me.
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That’s a compelling one actually - I really don’t know. It would depend on how much contact we had ahead of time and how her cancellation made me feel.
