Put whatever you like.
It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.
But you do you OP.
Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back. |
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
exeter |
"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "
There's nothing wrong with stating it but there is something wrong in feeling entitled to or expecting a reply *because* you've stated it.
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"Put whatever you like.
It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.
But you do you OP.
Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back."
Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol
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"Put whatever you like.
It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.
But you do you OP.
Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back."
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"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts
There's nothing wrong with stating it but there is something wrong in feeling entitled to or expecting a reply *because* you've stated it.
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I don’t expect a reply of not interested at all |
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"Put whatever you like.
It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.
But you do you OP.
Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back.
Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol
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Lol - OP there is a happy medium in there somewhere for you. |
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"Put whatever you like.
It seems a touch negative to me to be in both the profile and an opening message.
But you do you OP.
Trying to remain as bland and inoffensive as possible isn't usually the best way to connect with people that would be interested in the parts of you that are kept back.
Fair comment , I wanted try something different from hey here’s my cock lol
Lol - OP there is a happy medium in there somewhere for you."
Ture lol |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Personally I don't like bland. My inbox is full of bland. As said above there is a balance between 17 dick pics and so out of your face that you become unoticable. I don't mind the "if I am not your cup of tea" messages...usually those guys don't verbally abuse or pester me when I delete or say no thanks. Just be true to yourself - don't do what you think other want. |
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OP, do not mention the cup of tea, for most women reserve that sentiment and beverage for far more pleasurable outcomes: Åfternoon Teå.
Not everyone drinks tea and so you might be compromising yourself by mentioning a beverage they utterly detest.
There is no right answer. The women on here are a smörgåsbord of svelte, goth, sultry, moody, fickleness. Don't send any messages. Indeed wait for them to message you...and then tell them they are not your cup of sweet nectar. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "
99.99 will ignore it as they wont care your either of interest or not its that blunt n simple it certainly wont get you any more replys than normal ...people just wont care if your offended as thats your problem not theirs |
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"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts
99.99 will ignore it as they wont care your either of interest or not its that blunt n simple it certainly wont get you any more replys than normal ...people just wont care if your offended as thats your problem not theirs "
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"So I’ve started to put in my messages “ if I’m not your cup of tea I won’t be offended “ is that ok or wrong ? Thoughts "
That sort of attitude annoys me. |
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