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By *lowhands7 OP Man 48 weeks ago
South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent |
The wink function on here seems to be a very marmite choice, you either like it or you don't. I personally like it, one person winks, another winks back to signify interest, then originator follows up with a message. Other views? |
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If people have read our profile and are genuinely interested in us then ok but we’ve found the majority of the time we get a wink….we respond saying “hi thanks for the wink let’s chat, swap pics etc etc”……the message gets read……then nothing. Just ignored.
So seems like people throwing out winks to loads of people then only when a response comes do they even look at the profile. This has happened so often now we just ignore winks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I wish more women and couples were board with the wink feature. Its a nice tool to break the ice with little effort.
I've read profiles, put a lot of effort into a message only for it to get deleted without even being read! Puts me off putting in that effort again. |
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By *lowhands7 OP Man 48 weeks ago
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"Yeah we like it too, it gives an opportunity to say 'here I am'. Mind you when we wink back a high percentage of people ignore it  "
Yes I agree, lots do ignore them. Many see them as a lazy way to make contact which is a shame. |
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By *lowhands7 OP Man 48 weeks ago
South Leicestershire / Burton on Trent |
"If people have read our profile and are genuinely interested in us then ok but we’ve found the majority of the time we get a wink….we respond saying “hi thanks for the wink let’s chat, swap pics etc etc”……the message gets read……then nothing. Just ignored.
So seems like people throwing out winks to loads of people then only when a response comes do they even look at the profile. This has happened so often now we just ignore winks. "
That's a shame that your response is simply ignored, I can understand why you have chosen not to bother since. I am totally understading why so many don't bother  |
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"If people have read our profile and are genuinely interested in us then ok but we’ve found the majority of the time we get a wink….we respond saying “hi thanks for the wink let’s chat, swap pics etc etc”……the message gets read……then nothing. Just ignored.
So seems like people throwing out winks to loads of people then only when a response comes do they even look at the profile. This has happened so often now we just ignore winks.
That's a shame that your response is simply ignored, I can understand why you have chosen not to bother since. I am totally understading why so many don't bother "
Even without this happening we do think it’s a lazy way to contact someone.
Think about it….your goal if you wanted to meet a couple is to have sex with them. From our perspective if you can’t even be bothered to send a few sentences of a message why would we interact with you?
It’s not much effort to put in considering what you are looking for in return is it?
We can’t speak for other couples but we will definitely consider guys way way more if they have made an effort. |
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"I like to wink on interesting people For me its like when someone wink me back im more open to send msg x "
We are the same and also await a message if someone winks us and we wink back (which doesn't always seem to happen!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"If you can't be arsed to message. Don't even bother with a wink.
Does a message come with a reply boob pic though? If not I'm out.
Mrs "
Only if they ask nicely. |
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"If you can't be arsed to message. Don't even bother with a wink.
Does a message come with a reply boob pic though? If not I'm out.
Mrs
Only if they ask nicely."
Fuck....ok....ERM.... thinking of niceties....be right back! 
Mrs |
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"If you can't be arsed to message. Don't even bother with a wink.
Does a message come with a reply boob pic though? If not I'm out.
Mrs
Only if they ask nicely.
Fuck....ok....ERM.... thinking of niceties....be right back!
Mrs "
niceties or nicetities? Not to distract the thought process obvs! |
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"If you can't be arsed to message. Don't even bother with a wink.
Does a message come with a reply boob pic though? If not I'm out.
Mrs
Only if they ask nicely.
Fuck....ok....ERM.... thinking of niceties....be right back!
Mrs
niceties or nicetities? Not to distract the thought process obvs! "
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I'm working on it
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I personally like the wink function. Absolutely not using it as a way of being lazy though, and I’ll always read the profile to make sure they haven’t mentioned their dislike on winking. For me it’s a sign of initial attraction and also hope that it would get noticed over a message. Most women on here need a PA for their message inbox, so wouldn’t want a message I’ve spent time on getting lost lol |
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"Like" has very little bearing or whatever penchant you may have for it. How useful they are is anyone's guess.
I personally find them pointless and superfluous. I rarely check my winks and I never send them. I suspect (and hope) they are more useful to couples to gauge an interest, but I wouldn't know...
How useful are they for single men? Probably as much use as tits on a fish. I've seen a few women's profiles where they've had 250+ winks languishing in their inbox, looking lost and forgotten like abandoned children in an orphanage. |
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