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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Do you have any in your life? If so how do they make you feel.

I had to block someone on Facebook today as I was sick of her negative posts. Put all her life on there.

I felt like sending her a message to tell her she was draing but I didnt

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

draining

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try to avoid drains that don't have plugs!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. I can't. It's good energy vampirism.

T.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

No...

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By *agerMorganMan  over a year ago

Canvey Island

I have a few! Including one who advised me that I shouldn’t be spending money on nice things and that I should be living in poverty whilst saving money.

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

I move away from negative people until I’m far enough away not to hear them.

Life’s pretty challenging. I want to focus on the bright side

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By *inger_SnapWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I just "hide" people like that. It's exhausting when all they do is moan/wallow/look on the dark side. Sure we all have problems, but there's always some positives in life!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like telling negative people how shit they are at everything

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you have any in your life? If so how do they make you feel.

I had to block someone on Facebook today as I was sick of her negative posts. Put all her life on there.

I felt like sending her a message to tell her she was draing but I didnt"

Could you have just unfollowed her feed...

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By *ros40Man  over a year ago

Bedford

There seems to be more negative people than ever that I come across

It's hard to be around because all I want to do is laugh and take the piss

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

I like to balance it all out. Bring people back down to neutral.

Too much positivity is sickening and more often than not forced and overcompensation. It's also far more damaging than negativity in a lot of ways.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

I'm the negative person in my life.

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By *orthern StarsCouple  over a year ago

Durham

Yes I work opposite one. He moans all day about everything and it really is draining, as you say.

He's 29 going on 90!

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By *idnight RamblerMan  over a year ago

Pershore

Some people emit negative energy. They try to project their negativity and problems onto others. Don't let it happen. Keep detached and emotionally independent. Don't own other people's problems.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you have any in your life? If so how do they make you feel.

I had to block someone on Facebook today as I was sick of her negative posts. Put all her life on there.

I felt like sending her a message to tell her she was draing but I didnt"

And you still log into the fab forums???

This place is filled with negativity the sadsacks!!!

Yes #theyknowwho

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By *melie LALWoman  over a year ago

Peterborough


"There seems to be more negative people than ever that I come across

It's hard to be around because all I want to do is laugh and take the piss "

Pretend to be a woman and play scammers (not quite) at their own game

There was this poor guy who only wanted $500 dollars for a kindle for his special needs son. His kindle got broken by a bully.... Diddums .

I told the guy that if his American bank account was suspended he should sell his wedding ring. It's what his dead wife would have wanted

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By *ife NinjaMan  over a year ago

Dunfermline

Some of the local updates on here soak the life out of the site

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By *oneybee1001Woman  over a year ago

Around and about


"Some people emit negative energy. They try to project their negativity and problems onto others. Don't let it happen. Keep detached and emotionally independent. Don't own other people's problems."

Exactly this

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By *exycarlashane181Couple  over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Emotional vampires I call then.. Suck all the emotion and fun outta life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don’t. But I definitely wouldn’t message them to tell them they’re draining. That feels mean.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

It was one of the many reasons I put myself forward for voluntary redundancy. I couldn't stand the negativity from the majority of my colleagues

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman  over a year ago

Essex

It’s kind of my job….

It’s circumstancial negativity. And in most cases justified. My job is to give people the tools to overcome & deal with it…

It can be draining. But rewarding.

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By *entleman JayMan  over a year ago

Wakefield

I’m surrounded by them at work. Worst part of my job.

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By *hunky ChefMan  over a year ago

Norwich

Being a bully and mean is quite negative.

It's not for all, but certain comments just...

I rather deal with some negative thoughts (mine or others) and try to help/turn things around, than being a horrible human being.

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By *andadbodMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

There’s a few around me and yes they do effect your own mental state, I try my best to avoid when possible, Ive got enough going on in my own life without having to put up with other peoples negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Several.... the worst is a guy in my band....

Is like every option has a problem, every hurdle is too high.

Learn to jump higher, you fecrkers!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a genuinely positive person I have no space for deliberate negative nellies. Everyone gets the odd down day here and there but being negative constantly is draining

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