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Do people use sex sites because they can't get a fuck in real life?
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Oh no I'm hugely successful in real life. I only need to stand at the bus stop in my Nora Batty's and I'm inundated with offers. I only use the net because there's an asbo against me by the bus company. |
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I came on here initially for a quick lay and actually did manage to find it fairly quick.
Then I got fascinated by you weirdos here.
Most of the ones I would get naked with live in another country or near enough! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit  "
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact! |
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!"
I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick |
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!"
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"Fab is like ordering pizza. If I'm hungry I order a pizza, if I'm horny... I go on fab. No strings, no drama, I don't need to meet the family. It's a means to an end "
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick "
Thankyou!
And likewise.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up. "
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on. |
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By *reykiwi500Man 48 weeks ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on. "
I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas... |
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
I believe you. You’re a bit of a dick
Thankyou!
And likewise. "
You’re welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.
I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas..."
But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.
Any holes a goal!
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think? "
WRONG!
I’m actually a lot more successful IRL than on Fab. It’s just the pool of variety & opportunity is greater online.
Also I spent a good portion of my life inveigling women into bed. On Fab I can be open & honest with my wants & intentions. No more lies, no deception.
I’m too old fo’ dat shit |
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By *reykiwi500Man 48 weeks ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.
I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...
But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.
Any holes a goal!
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The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know). |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Yes totally.
A room mate helped me because I was getting really frustrated meeting no one and figured I’d hit the age of undesireability.
He explainedthe Worlds changed and people are more comfortable making connections online.
I resisted as I’m a dinosaur, don’t even have Facebook. But he was right and I’m happier for embracing it.
Ironically he married a woman he met at a party about 2 weeks after he told me all this. No internet involved. |
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.
I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...
But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.
Any holes a goal!
The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know)."
I’ve seen her face  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway
Over 50's aren't built for sex.
Not true. The walking frame comes in very handy "
Kinky  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think?
WRONG!
I’m actually a lot more successful IRL than on Fab. It’s just the pool of variety & opportunity is greater online.
Also I spent a good portion of my life inveigling women into bed. On Fab I can be open & honest with my wants & intentions. No more lies, no deception.
I’m too old fo’ dat shit "
Is inveigling a typo or a word I need to learn?
Agree about the open and honest... sometimes... |
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By *omeoplaysMan 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!"
I think that has more to do with the guys in Hull. Clearly there’s an eyesight issue with the guys up there. Because if you was anywhere near me I’d be hitting on you   |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think? "
online is easier, as a guy, you try plucking up the courage to approach a girl and not risk some kind of ‘me too’ moment.
*just my opinion- And I’ll defend that opponents |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"They shouldn’t
If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?
It's easier if you're female!"
Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game
If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled
But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable |
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At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.
You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.
Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward. |
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"They shouldn’t
If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?
It's easier if you're female!
Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game
If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled
But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable "
The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think?
online is easier, as a guy, you try plucking up the courage to approach a girl and not risk some kind of ‘me too’ moment.
*just my opinion- And I’ll defend that opponents "
That's a really good point that I've been discussing with male friends. How can they chat a woman up in person without risking being the 10th man that day saying something similar and her going nuclear..  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"They shouldn’t
If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?
It's easier if you're female!
Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game
If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled
But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable
The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc "
Absolutely, but again, if they can’t pull down the pub or on the dating apps, how do they think a club or fans will work?
The dating apps are almost comically easy if you’re at least ok. Start there guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.
You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.
Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward."
Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message. |
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"Fab is like ordering pizza. If I'm hungry I order a pizza, if I'm horny... I go on fab. No strings, no drama, I don't need to meet the family. It's a means to an end "
Well put we have a great sex life but enjoy some extra fun |
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"They shouldn’t
If you can’t pull in real life then how do you expect to pull on here where it’s 10x harder?
It's easier if you're female!
Well my comment doesn’t apply to women. Different ball game
If your a woman and you exist, you’ve pulled
But guts on here with a 5 year dry spell thinking fabs will fix things are laughable
The last part is very true for many guys but the easiest optic for a single guy is get to a few clubs . Greedy girl nights etc
Absolutely, but again, if they can’t pull down the pub or on the dating apps, how do they think a club or fans will work?
The dating apps are almost comically easy if you’re at least ok. Start there guys "
Greedy girl gamgbsng club nights/days are the easiest , as it’s just well a gangbang. I mean might not be the most mentally stimulating of meets for them but if they just look to fuck and cum then it’s probably the path of least resistance |
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"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.
You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.
Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.
Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message. "
I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can't get an ugly guy never mind a hot guy in real life.
Fab is my last hope.
I call bullshit
But it isn't! No one ever believes you on this site.
There are reasons I'm single and there are reasons no one in real life EVER hits on me.
And that's fact!
Got the bits covered up and on show mixed up.
People avoid me even more if I walk around with a balaclava on.
I'd love to prove you wrong, but alas...
But alas I don't take guys seriously that say this stuff and have no clue what i actually look like.
Any holes a goal!
The "alas" was a reference that we don't live near each other and I'm outside your age range anyway. I'm most definitely not a "any hole's a goal" kind of guy. Have met several women who unfortunately think they are less attractive than they are (all subjective, I know)."
It's nothing to do with thinking I'm less attractive than I am. I know what I look like! It's called been honest which most people on here have a problem with.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Quality for me all the time
Same as in off here, I do not go yes, please because he was first to ask.
Lies and dishonesty run rife here and off here. I will never be a second best or playing fiddle.
Show me a real person, no lies no dishonesty first you might find that hard here and there and everywhere.
I remember when this issue of being real was not noticed as much. I fully get what single guys and us woman face, the real men not the players.
Be real.. No lies and no dishonesty. Will aid us all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.
You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.
Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.
Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message.
I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol"
Yeah sorry I was brushing my hair.  |
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By *reykiwi500Man 48 weeks ago
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"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway
Over 50's aren't built for sex.
Not true. The walking frame comes in very handy
Kinky "
Right up there with teeth in a jar beside the bed |
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"At least online people are pretty honest about what they want.
You meet somebody in a pub or club you have no idea what they are into, if they want fun and people can get easily offended very quickly if you misjudge their intentions.
Also if it’s a local bar you maybe have to meet them again if things went well is fine but if not can be awkward.
Although 'can I spunk in your hair then run it through my toes' is not a great first message.
I apologise for that but that’s just my kink can’t believe you have not even replied lol
Yeah sorry I was brushing my hair. "
Oh that’s getting me all worked up the thought of hair, a brush and some thick spunk |
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"Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie.
Does that cookie come with a fuck….? "
I’ll fuck anyone who wants me. Everyone knows that. I don’t even have to find them remotely attractive. So, sure. Let’s fuck.
Bend over. |
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Some people probably do. Guess it depends on both the sex site and the person. I'd assume that the most sought after members of any sex site are perfectly capable of going put and getting it in person on the whole though. |
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"Can't catch a break pretty much anywhere, but I'm over 55 so it's pretty much over anyway
Over 50's aren't built for sex. "
My mind hasn't deteriorated yet and the body is just about functioning |
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Communication online is more suited to my brain type. All this innuendo and hinting at shit and body language... just confuses me and when people flirt with me in real life I end up wondering why the fuck they're being weird (and work out wtf that was days later).
And most places where people find people I either strongly dislike (pubs and clubs are sensory overload and I can't hear myself think - I'm not amenable to much when I'm that on edge) or are what I call "category error" - work is for work and if you're thinking about me romantically or sexually in that context I'm going to have a problem with you. |
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I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways. |
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It's easier than going out to find sex.
More convenient might be a better word for it.
I don't have to dress up or chat to loads of men who can't accommodate or want things I don't want.
Online you can find all that out without leaving your chair. |
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"I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways. "
Oh and there's a common notion both online and offline that if you really want someone, you keep trying.
Blocking is much easier than having to end your night/consider having to involve HR  |
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By *rispyDuckMan 48 weeks ago
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Getting laid on or off Fab is not the problem
Time is the issue for me!
On Fab we all know why we meeting  off Fab there is too much beating about the bush & all my previous vanilla FB started getting feelings wanting more. Going back to the ‘time issue’ I mentioned above, I don’t have time for relations or beating about the bush! Let’s beat inside your bush lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think? "
Or they can but they can't be arsed.
This is the matter of convenience in a sense of being able to log in and out when you get the desire. Not when the desire bumps into you. Although that has its own thrill. |
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By *ddie1966Man 48 weeks ago
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Yes...... and no...
Obviously there is an element of can't get a fuck . But, no, because many people on here like to socialise with others of the same mindset and personality that are open about their sexual preferences and kinks.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"Communication online is more suited to my brain type. All this innuendo and hinting at shit and body language... just confuses me and when people flirt with me in real life I end up wondering why the fuck they're being weird (and work out wtf that was days later).
And most places where people find people I either strongly dislike (pubs and clubs are sensory overload and I can't hear myself think - I'm not amenable to much when I'm that on edge) or are what I call "category error" - work is for work and if you're thinking about me romantically or sexually in that context I'm going to have a problem with you."
Good points.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Not for me. I prefer older men and don’t often come across men 40+ in my social life or at work so this is the best place to meet them, I’m also into kink, easier to tell someone before meeting rather than saying “Hi I like X” and scaring them off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"I'm guessing that the levels of cluelessness demonstrated by so many newish guys here, means that they probably don't get a lot off-site. Nor much here, until they learn to address some of the errors of their ways. "
Indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"If I wanted to find sex off here I’d have to socialise. Stuff that for a laugh!!
Fab is like the Kay’s Catalogue of sex. Easy to browse."
Grey Y fronts and socks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I can get a fuck on the outside, I just don't have time in my life to explain that's all I want them for. "
This
And when i ask them are they into sharing its a wtf moment
Or they say yh but are not
Id love to be with someone in to the swinging life threesomes cuckholding but its sooo hard to find
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I use fab when I'm not going for nights out and too busy. Though I can and prefer to pull in real life. Some people are swingers or have kinks they may not want to show everyone or can find in real life.
Yes though some people can't get laid in real life
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Absolutely. You found me out. You get a cookie.
Does that cookie come with a fuck….?
I’ll fuck anyone who wants me. Everyone knows that. I don’t even have to find them remotely attractive. So, sure. Let’s fuck.
Bend over."
Absolutely love your skinhead look, absolutely rocking it!
Regards real life I’ve not got super high self esteem to go up to someone on a night out or gig or anything, I’ll talk to people but in a friendly way that ain’t after anything, I feel awkward trying to hit on people, on here it’s more about getting the chance to strike up a convo though I know full well I’m not a catch and know I’ll get limited interest but I’ve come to terms with that and it is what it is! |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront."
Nightmare ain't it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"No. I can get it in real life. But, and here's the catch, it's always someone that's too close and most likely attached. That would be okay, but they often want more than a casual fuck. There's a whole load of people out there who are in relationships and dissatisfied with their partners. A work colleague, a friend of a friend typically, and once in the past a friend of my partner. I think that getting what people want aligned is much harder in real life. It's easier here, although it still requires people being clear upfront.
Nightmare ain't it."
Absolutely. At work it can screw your job and career. And do for your friendships because these things always come out and get whispered round, or the friendship links with that person and others can suddenly get cut. It can even come from simple flirting without sex, from people assuming that it's far more than it actually is. The anonymity of meeting a complete stranger on somewhere like Fab is brilliant. |
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"The evidence is pointing towards "yes".
What do you think? "
No but It’s just far easier on here and tinder. The types of ways I meet women in real life (through work, friends, hobbies etc) all create complexity which I’d rather avoid. |
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