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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"But would you prefer instead of waiting for permission they just asked?
i always saw it as polite "
There's polite and there's annoying.
They'll be the type of guy that asks if they can switch position during sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Ok go on ask away I am a open book op 
Sorry I couldn’t resist that one
Yes I hate when I get messages like that I normally reply back with you just did and no |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 48 weeks ago
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"Wuu2"
"what you looking for on here/what you into" (that's why I have a profile mate, so you already know what I'm looking for and don't have to ask this)
The same generic bollocks. |
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"But would you prefer instead of waiting for permission they just asked?
i always saw it as polite "
Yes! But then I wouldn't ask any questions as a first message. It should be more of an introduction |
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"But would you prefer instead of waiting for permission they just asked?
i always saw it as polite
There's polite and there's annoying.
They'll be the type of guy that asks if they can switch position during sex. "
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"I guess it's a polite way of seeing if there is any interest. Bit lazy I think but, I imagine it might be because they find you attractive xx I'd take it as a compliment x"
It's not a compliment when it's followed by a ridiculous sexual request...which it very often is |
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"And other annoying messages 
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childish"
maybe they are new and its their first message to you, they don't know you get a million messages all asking the same things, remember when you were new  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childishmaybe they are new and its their first message to you, they don't know you get a million messages all asking the same things, remember when you were new "
Are they new at life? Have they never spoken to a woman before? |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS 48 weeks ago
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"But would you prefer instead of waiting for permission they just asked?
i always saw it as polite "
Why don't they just ask it in one message instead of trying to spread it over 2 in an attempt to keep the recipient engaged for a what will most likely be another generic question that wasn't worth the wait? |
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childishmaybe they are new and its their first message to you, they don't know you get a million messages all asking the same things, remember when you were new "
They need to "stand out " to get my attention.. this just gets deleted. I won't converse with newbies anyhow.. I need assurances someone is real |
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childishmaybe they are new and its their first message to you, they don't know you get a million messages all asking the same things, remember when you were new
Are they new at life? Have they never spoken to a woman before?"
I said maybe they are new and whats attention getting for one woman may not be for another, i guess its all in the profile and pics as to whether he gets a reply obviously not from the Op shes had too many of that same question and maybe just comes to forums for a giggle i know i do |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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""Wuu2"
"what you looking for on here/what you into" (that's why I have a profile mate, so you already know what I'm looking for and don't have to ask this)
The same generic bollocks."
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childishmaybe they are new and its their first message to you, they don't know you get a million messages all asking the same things, remember when you were new
They need to "stand out " to get my attention.. this just gets deleted. I won't converse with newbies anyhow.. I need assurances someone is real "
well i know that but he didn't if he was new |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Do you women like any type of ice breakers? 
That's a good one Woody. No one could moan about that
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I might try this. Haha. And then tell them, that was my question. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Do you women like any type of ice breakers?
That's a good one Woody. No one could moan about that
I might try this. Haha. And then tell them, that was my question. "
Do it! Report back with the results. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"[Removed by poster at 10/12/23 08:07:57]"
When 99% of the time the 'question' is something really disgusting or stupid, people get pissed off.
Politeness disappears. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Do you women like any type of ice breakers?
That's a good one Woody. No one could moan about that
I might try this. Haha. And then tell them, that was my question.
Do it! Report back with the results. "
My research is ongoing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice. |
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"Lots of what we don’t want, very little what we do……."
Perhaps we don’t want to have to spend alol our time telling men how to do things properly? When men ask advice we generally tell them to be themselves, if they aren’t what we are looking for we don’t want them pretending to be something else just to get laid. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Lots of what we don’t want, very little what we do…….
Perhaps we don’t want to have to spend alol our time telling men how to do things properly? When men ask advice we generally tell them to be themselves, if they aren’t what we are looking for we don’t want them pretending to be something else just to get laid."
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice. "
We freeze in front of real women. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice.
We freeze in front of real women. "
I'm real and you didn't freeze |
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"[Removed by poster at 10/12/23 08:07:57]
When 99% of the time the 'question' is something really disgusting or stupid, people get pissed off.
Politeness disappears."
I deleted because I realised i'd misread the question and didn't take that it was 'messages' as opposed to face to face on board so my reply didn't stand.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice.
We freeze in front of real women.
I'm real and you didn't freeze "
The person being receptive helps.   |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"[Removed by poster at 10/12/23 08:07:57]
When 99% of the time the 'question' is something really disgusting or stupid, people get pissed off.
Politeness disappears.
I deleted because I realised i'd misread the question and didn't take that it was 'messages' as opposed to face to face on board so my reply didn't stand.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice.
We freeze in front of real women.
I'm real and you didn't freeze
The person being receptive helps. "
Hahah no shit |
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I’ve always taken the approach that as long as I fall inside the parameters of someone’s profile then it’s ok to message them - but asking if it’s ok to ask always seems a little like just
Looking for an “in”
We’re all on the site, so why not make an approach.
As long as it’s polite and respectful there should be no problem even if the response comes as a no thanks. |
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I asked a question on the forum about this a few years ago.
Why do so many guys ask the same question?
What I mean is: "can I ask you anything" isn't exactly a normal way to start a conversation and so many guys send the same message,so are they colluding with each other and discussing what questions they can ask women that are the most pointless and bland , annoying.
Coz they all do it seemingly independently of each other or is there a secret society meeting on a Tuesday night somewhere with a banal agenda? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I don't mind people asking me questions but it's usually just something sexually graphic it gets annoying. Talk to me like I'm a human being not a walking orifice.
We freeze in front of real women.
I'm real and you didn't freeze
The person being receptive helps.
Hahah no shit "
Correct. And, No Shit! |
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"I asked a question on the forum about this a few years ago.
Why do so many guys ask the same question?
What I mean is: "can I ask you anything" isn't exactly a normal way to start a conversation and so many guys send the same message,so are they colluding with each other and discussing what questions they can ask women that are the most pointless and bland , annoying.
Coz they all do it seemingly independently of each other or is there a secret society meeting on a Tuesday night somewhere with a banal agenda?"
Welcome to incel club, tonight’s topic is tedious questions and why women who say no are fat ugly bitches we didn’t want to fuck anyway.
Next week: why Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson are peak masculinity. |
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"I asked a question on the forum about this a few years ago.
Why do so many guys ask the same question?
What I mean is: "can I ask you anything" isn't exactly a normal way to start a conversation and so many guys send the same message,so are they colluding with each other and discussing what questions they can ask women that are the most pointless and bland , annoying.
Coz they all do it seemingly independently of each other or is there a secret society meeting on a Tuesday night somewhere with a banal agenda?
Welcome to incel club, tonight’s topic is tedious questions and why women who say no are fat ugly bitches we didn’t want to fuck anyway.
Next week: why Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson are peak masculinity."
That's quite a leap to make from the op "can I ask you a question?" |
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I see it as a matter of conversational versus written norms - in conversation it might be more normal to create the space and ask for permission, whereas in text it's superfluous and annoying.
What I did find when I got unsolicited messages was that many people who started with "can I ask you a question?" often proceeded to ask things that made me reach for the brain bleach. |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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To provide comedy* rant* material?
To show they are polite*? To show you they are considerate before they spell out the actual question usually related to their fantasy*?
*circle appropriate;)
Who knows!
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"Can I ask a question?
How can you tell a black hole made out of antimatter, from a black made out of matter?
Does it matter? "
It probably matters to someone concerned with matter and antimatter matters. |
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childish"
You mean you want to ask me another question, or the one you just asked??
I agree it's a very annoying thing to be asked. |
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"And other annoying messages
Why oh why do people do this? Just ask it?
I just reply "you just have!" Because I'm childish"
The reply should be could I give you and answer ? And when they say yes to your question tell them no never ask me anything |
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"My heart sinks when I hear that.
It’s usually a really shifty question too, like “do your farts smell of cabbage?”.
“No. They smell of Chanel No. 5 now sod off and leave me alone fella!!”
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You can fart around me anytime  |
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"My heart sinks when I hear that.
It’s usually a really shifty question too, like “do your farts smell of cabbage?”.
“No. They smell of Chanel No. 5 now sod off and leave me alone fella!!”
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When I've had the message, it's been stuff like "have you ever/ would you ever (stuff I can't write on the forum because it's beyond the rules or illegal or both)?" |
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