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By *orny-DJMan 49 weeks ago
Leigh-on-Sea |
Having unrealistic expectations is where you're going wrong OP, simple as that.
What did you think this site was?
Jot down a couple of sentences, upload a couple of pics and then be fighting them off by lunch time?
I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.
Single men massively outnumber women and couples here.
Most single chaps don't get their first meet until they've been here around 6 months to a year. Some fair better, others less so. Some guys ave been here for years and still haven't cracked it.
There is no magic formula.
You need to get to know people and they need to get to know you.
Instashag this is not |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Grab some sweets & borrow a puppy…. Get photos of those… update your status that you’re willing to share both… maybe that could work?
No joking aside…. It’s not a quick fix… just interact on the forums…. Chat to people as you would face to face… and I have got a feeling a dick pic in the first message is a bad idea… but I’ll let others confirm that  |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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Lower half of face kinda looks like a disheveled Benedict Cumberbatch, so perhaps a shave would do?
Also the most annoying thing is the newline during the phrase "open minded". Actually perhaps the wink emoji. I'm not sure. Both of them are irritating. |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Been on here for 3 weeks and getting no bites what so ever some tips be good"
Change yourorientation to bi .. lots of nibbles then in a dark room a mouths a mouth  |
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By *oxesMan 49 weeks ago
Southend, Essex |
3 weeks is short c teeth for fab 1 year 2 years is long term. And it rushes since people that account of tube to have a meet (excluding socials, club, parties etc).
To give you an understanding I have been on here a long time nearly a decade. And I have only had 4 meets. Most fall through for what ever reason.
Keep your head in the game and enjoy the experience and seeing lifestyle when it happened it happens. |
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On a serious note. Just dig your shoes in an keep adjusting the approach. 
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