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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

Prove me wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Abuse for saying a polite no /end thread

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

That would be effort.

Women don't do effort on here.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman 49 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

Is it 1 2 3 4??

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman 49 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

Is it 1 2 3 4??

how do you know?

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By *teven_BeithMan 49 weeks ago

Beith

wouldn't say easy - my pal Jean was on here, not anymore. she was getting upwards of 100 messages a day - as she said impossible to reply to all - and men are very persistant x

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"I agree

I did have a point to this. How many profiles are spoke about where a guy somewhere has pretended to be a woman…. And probably fooled someone for a certain length of time.

It must be that easy to imitate a woman on here.

Set up account.

Choose a sexy name.

Take a pic of my butt! * must shave my but 1st.

Add text “ask me”

And boom!!!!

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By *ora the explorerWoman 49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Probably. I think I just make it hard for myself.

That’s why I never moan about it

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Nope it isn’t easy it’s hard god damm work to be honest

First your expected to be sitting around free all day just waiting on them mailing you like some free working girl

Next up they expect you to reply to they vulger message

Then your expected to waste hundreds off pounds

On lingerie clothes make up perfume and waste hafe a day shaveing and such for a 5 minute splat and run

The truth is it’s god damm hard work

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

Is it 1 2 3 4??

how do you know?"

It was either that or your mums maiden name.

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By *ruceyyMan 49 weeks ago

London

"I agree

I did have a point to this. How many profiles are spoke about where a guy somewhere has pretended to be a woman…. And probably fooled someone for a certain length of time.

It must be that easy to imitate a woman on here.

Set up account.

Choose a sexy name.

Take a pic of my butt! * must shave my but 1st.

Add text “ask me”

And boom!!!! "

You've done this before haven't you?

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Totally. I can fuck absolutely anyone that catches my eye.

If only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"I agree

I did have a point to this. How many profiles are spoke about where a guy somewhere has pretended to be a woman…. And probably fooled someone for a certain length of time.

It must be that easy to imitate a woman on here.

Set up account.

Choose a sexy name.

Take a pic of my butt! * must shave my but 1st.

Add text “ask me”

And boom!!!!

You've done this before haven't you?

I’ve got the shaving rash to remind me not to do it again

*Mods* it’s a joke. I haven’t set up false accounts.

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By *GermanInLondonMan 49 weeks ago

London

Not sure if it's easy to get through a lot of messages and numerous dickpics or other disrespectful things? Probably quite time intensive and disheartening.

And then the complete opposite for males who face other frustrations.

Not sure but seems a huge contrast which I don't like. But I don't think it's easy for anyone and lots of negativity on here.

Good luck to all

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By *ruceyyMan 49 weeks ago

London

"I agree

I did have a point to this. How many profiles are spoke about where a guy somewhere has pretended to be a woman…. And probably fooled someone for a certain length of time.

It must be that easy to imitate a woman on here.

Set up account.

Choose a sexy name.

Take a pic of my butt! * must shave my but 1st.

Add text “ask me”

And boom!!!!

You've done this before haven't you?

I’ve got the shaving rash to remind me not to do it again

*Mods* it’s a joke. I haven’t set up false accounts.

*MODS* I definitely had a shaved butt that looked very similar to his in my inbox just saying....

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By *orny-DJMan 49 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

We so need a popcorn emoji

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By *andyfloss2000Woman 49 weeks ago

ashford

Much easier than it is for a man for sure! X

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By *inaTitzTV/TS 49 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Try fielding a hundred or so bad meet me now messages every day

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Abuse for saying a polite no /end thread"

Argh. Sorry, it was a bit of a lighthearted conversation.

I know lots of us get crappy abuse, and I don’t condone it or make light of that.

And kudos to you for trying to give a polite reply. Many of us would appreciate and respect that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Much easier than it is for a man for sure! X"

See!!!! And I have women in my corner now!!

Wait? You are a woman right?

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By *weet and SpiceCouple 49 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

It's such a walk in the park. You should have a go OP (not sure how as clearly cannot condone fake profiles)

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Try fielding a hundred or so bad meet me now messages every day

"
m

I do try!!! I want that!!!!

*cries

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By *aitonelMan 49 weeks ago

Liverpool

So easy!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 49 weeks ago

South West London

Its easy for women to attract attention from almost everyone however its probably hard for them to get the right attention that they want

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

You are forgetting the old word of attraction. Just because you get hundreds of messages or maybe one message doesn’t mean you want to sleep with them (all)

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By *ealitybitesMan 49 weeks ago

Belfast

It's easy for them or they are easy?

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

Hi racey... Can you tell us how many messages you get per day ?

Are they smarmy, grovelly, abusive?

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By *oachman 9CoolMan 49 weeks ago

derby

"Not sure if it's easy to get through a lot of messages and numerous dickpics or other disrespectful things? Probably quite time intensive and disheartening.

And then the complete opposite for males who face other frustrations.

Not sure but seems a huge contrast which I don't like. But I don't think it's easy for anyone and lots of negativity on here.

Good luck to all

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"It's such a walk in the park. You should have a go OP (not sure how as clearly cannot condone fake profiles)

So i need a name. …,, hmmm. ??

FriskyFatale

*mods*. See above about this is all humour and a joke!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"It's easy for them or they are easy? "

I didn’t say this!!!! ^he did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

Remember playing the frigid game. Running hands up their legs to see how far they’d let you go?

…..

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By *os19Man 49 weeks ago

Edmonton

I wouldn’t say it’s easier for women just different.Women will get lots of messages that can be time consuming reading through them and frustrating if the guy hasn’t read the profile and is constantly sending messages.For us guys it can be disheartening and frustrating sending messages and getting no replies.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman 49 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

Is it 1 2 3 4??

how do you know?

It was either that or your mums maiden name.

get out of my head

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

Hi racey... Can you tell us how many messages you get per day ?

Are they smarmy, grovelly, abusive?

On an average day about 100, if I upload something a lot more. The breakdown is roughly;

40% - Hi

25% - In your area, wanna fuck?

15% - Pure smut

10% - Compliments

5% - Pure abusive

5% - Nice messages

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

Hi racey... Can you tell us how many messages you get per day ?

Are they smarmy, grovelly, abusive?

On an average day about 100, if I upload something a lot more. The breakdown is roughly;

40% - Hi

25% - In your area, wanna fuck?

15% - Pure smut

10% - Compliments

5% - Pure abusive

5% - Nice messages "

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

I seem to have been very lucky indeed and have only encountered the more pleasant part of fab. I do not get bombarded with hundreds of messages day after day or receive any obscene pictures.

You only get out what you put in I guess and profile pictures do go a long way.

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By *inky duo 100Couple 49 weeks ago

Lancaster

Suppose it depends what you're looking for if guys probably not but maybe if couples or other women I imagine easier .

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Totally agree, any woman not getting any is just frigid

Remember playing the frigid game. Running hands up their legs to see how far they’d let you go?

…..

Their hand wouldn't even get near my leg!

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By *ustBoWoman 49 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's a hell of a lot easier than being a man on here that's for sure. I think if I was a man on here I'd have given up long ago.

Anyone moaning about 100s of messages there are filters that can be used to stop them if it annoys you that much.

As a woman you don't have to put much effort into a profile and will still get messages.Even a blank profile will be told how stunning they are.

Yes it can be hard to find someone that you want to meet but at the same time if you send a first message there is a good chance you will get a reply.

Yes we can get crappy messages but they are easy to delete and ignore.

And don't forget the power of fannyblindness on here. You can rant and rave and be a complete twat and some men will still agree with you matter what

In saying that it isn't easy to find someone you have chemistry with and get on well with no matter what gender you are. But it's easier for women when they get a larger choice to pick from.

So nope OP sorry I for one can't change your mind because I agree with you

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By *aitonelMan 49 weeks ago

Liverpool

"It's a hell of a lot easier than being a man on here that's for sure. I think if I was a man on here I'd have given up long ago.

Anyone moaning about 100s of messages there are filters that can be used to stop them if it annoys you that much.

As a woman you don't have to put much effort into a profile and will still get messages.Even a blank profile will be told how stunning they are.

Yes it can be hard to find someone that you want to meet but at the same time if you send a first message there is a good chance you will get a reply.

Yes we can get crappy messages but they are easy to delete and ignore.

And don't forget the power of fannyblindness on here. You can rant and rave and be a complete twat and some men will still agree with you matter what

In saying that it isn't easy to find someone you have chemistry with and get on well with no matter what gender you are. But it's easier for women when they get a larger choice to pick from.

So nope OP sorry I for one can't change your mind because I agree with you

She gets it!

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

No idea what this thread is about but I’m in. Probably.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 49 weeks ago

Portsmouth

For once... You are right. Could probably easily get the sex at least 3 times between now and tomorrow morning. Lucky me!

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By *hippy200Woman 49 weeks ago

leeds

"Nope it isn’t easy it’s hard god damm work to be honest

First your expected to be sitting around free all day just waiting on them mailing you like some free working girl

Next up they expect you to reply to they vulger message

Then your expected to waste hundreds off pounds

On lingerie clothes make up perfume and waste hafe a day shaveing and such for a 5 minute splat and run

The truth is it’s god damm hard work "

This!!

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By *hippy200Woman 49 weeks ago

leeds

I have the added bliss of threats, abuse and racism.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Totally agree - I think in 2 years I’ve only been approached twice by women. Must be an issue with my pics??

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"…..

So nope OP sorry I for one can't change your mind because I agree with you

I can’t believe I’m winning an argument I wasn’t quite serious with.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

I’ve checked and (apparently) it’s even easier to be a gay men pretending to be a straight man getting messaged by straight men who are bi men who want gay men who pretend to be straight men. About 7% easier as far as I can work out

Probably. I’ve been known to be ‘wrong’.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"No idea what this thread is about but I’m in. Probably. "

That’s my life in the forums in a nutshell.

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By *ealitybitesMan 49 weeks ago

Belfast

It's tough for women on here.

Apparently they aren't keen on queueing.

It's not my fault they all want to message in the same calendar year

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman 49 weeks ago

In the clouds

Erm I can't but trust me... there may be alot of men,but unfortunately, most are not what we want

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

My fab PA is billed per word. I can't help you Woody...

It's just too hard!

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By *aitonelMan 49 weeks ago

Liverpool

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site. "

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"I’ve checked and (apparently) it’s even easier to be a gay men pretending to be a straight man getting messaged by straight men who are bi men who want gay men who pretend to be straight men. About 7% easier as far as I can work out

Probably. I’ve been known to be ‘wrong’. "

Funny but true.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple 49 weeks ago

Coventry

I disagree. I'm not always easy to be with

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By *mf123Man 49 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Agreed next

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By *mf123Man 49 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Or more accuratley being a woman is easy

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it. "

I’m no expert on voting or statistics.

I just quote facts.

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics.

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By *aitonelMan 49 weeks ago

Liverpool

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it.

I’m no expert on voting or statistics.

I just quote facts.

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics. "

Majority of women don't want unsolicited dick pics. More often than not they don't mind when they purposely find them.

Without knowing as fact who actually fabbed which pics it can't be used to determine anything.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Erm I can't but trust me... there may be alot of men,but unfortunately, most are not what we want"

Quantity over quality.

When we men get the quantity, we will complain about quality.

The only one who knows we men exist is fab, because we men get “site supporter “ reminder s.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 49 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it.

I’m no expert on voting or statistics.

I just quote facts.

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics. "

Are they fabbed by other men though?

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it. "

I don't even look at "hot pics" I'm not here for wank fodder.

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By *ealitybitesMan 49 weeks ago

Belfast

"For comparison, I checked the latest hot photos of the day:

Woman - votes received in 12 hrs- 4530

Man - votes received in 12 this - 142

That’s the insane ratio of women to men users on this site.

That's not accurate though, as it doesn't show who is gabbing the pics.

There is a chance that 4529 of those votes are other women. It doesn't factor in couples, or if the dabber is gayx or straight. Is the fabber just liking a good pic, or wanting to be noticed?

Women as a whole simply don't fab pics.

Yes men are the majority, but most fab pics is not an accurate way to determine it.

I’m no expert on voting or statistics.

I just quote facts.

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics.

Are they fabbed by other men though?

If I filter the hotpics to just the Irish ones the number one womens pic can have 200-300 fabs.

I have posted pics over the last few years that have been at the number one position for Irish men and I've never had more than 20 fabs. Most have been around the 12-15 mark and the majority of those have been from women.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

If easy is being the one doing the filtering and rejecting. Maybe it is. I'm not sure.

Others have mentioned it, and my main issue personally, is really how it frames my view of men as a whole. If 95% of the approaches I get are either boring, horny, offensive or desperate (or a terrible combination of those things), what I am left with is the feeling that most men are boring, horny, offensive and desperate. It makes it really hard for me to like men. Which makes it really hard for me to want to do the sexy times with any of them. And I really really want to like everyone, and I really want to believe most people are trying their best to be good. So it is soul crushing sometimes to witness the contents of my inbox as a sample of humanity.

And this applies across all dating apps IMO, it's not exclusive to fabs at all. I don't even think the proportion of lewd comments is any higher here than OKC, Hinge or Tinder etc. Only more dicks.

I think a similar thing is happening with women too, and how men perceive them.

And both sides are frustrated and misunderstood,and struggling, just in very different ways.

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By *viatrixWoman 49 weeks ago

Redhill

Cock on tap, innit

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 49 weeks ago

Central

It's only success if you meet and are satisfied. To achieve that requires a lot more than a Fab account and some messages

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple 49 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics.

Are they fabbed by other men though?

If I filter the hotpics to just the Irish ones the number one womens pic can have 200-300 fabs.

Were your photos dick pics though? I'll often fab men's photos but almost never cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

If easy is being the one doing the filtering and rejecting. Maybe it is. I'm not sure.

And this applies across all dating apps IMO, it's not exclusive to fabs at all. I don't even think the proportion of lewd comments is any higher here than OKC, Hinge or Tinder etc. Only more dicks.

I think a similar thing is happening with women too, and how men perceive them.

And both sides are frustrated and misunderstood,and struggling, just in very different ways."

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By *rHotNottsMan 49 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I don't envy women on here. Someone once said to me, men are dying off thirst in the desert, while women are dying of thirst in the ocean.

At least there’s a nice Oasis or two in the desert.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"I don't envy women on here. Someone once said to me, men are dying off thirst in the desert, while women are dying of thirst in the ocean.

At least there’s a nice Oasis or two in the desert."

Lol agree with this one

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By *ealitybitesMan 49 weeks ago

Belfast

Many women state in their profile, they don’t want dick pics. Senders will be blocked.

But all the voted top 10 men photos are dick pics.

Are they fabbed by other men though?

If I filter the hotpics to just the Irish ones the number one womens pic can have 200-300 fabs.

Were your photos dick pics though? I'll often fab men's photos but almost never cock pics.

Some were but not all

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Being anything on fab is easy as long as you don't expect anything.

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"I don't envy women on here. Someone once said to me, men are dying off thirst in the desert, while women are dying of thirst in the ocean.

At least there’s a nice Oasis or two in the desert."

Many, many islands in the ocean too.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman 49 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yep. Next

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Fab? Completed it mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Fab? Completed it mate

Did you do it on hard though?

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Terrible message after terrible mesaages. That's what women and also us couples, have to deal with on fab.

Most women on here can get pretty much any guy on here, but finding decent, respectful and their type in looks, is very very difficult.

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By *affron40Woman 49 weeks ago

manchester

It’s way easier to sift through messages and decide who to respond to than send messages and never get a response. So yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP 49 weeks ago

"Terrible message after terrible mesaages. That's what women and also us couples, have to deal with on fab.

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You think we get better messages? Interesting.

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By *imi_RougeWoman 49 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Totally agree - I think in 2 years I’ve only been approached twice by women. Must be an issue with my pics??"

You're not wrong

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By *imi_RougeWoman 49 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"Prove me wrong.

If easy is being the one doing the filtering and rejecting. Maybe it is. I'm not sure.

And this applies across all dating apps IMO, it's not exclusive to fabs at all. I don't even think the proportion of lewd comments is any higher here than OKC, Hinge or Tinder etc. Only more dicks.

I think a similar thing is happening with women too, and how men perceive them.

And both sides are frustrated and misunderstood,and struggling, just in very different ways."

Excellent response

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Fab? Completed it mate

Did you do it on hard though? "

Ffs.

*presses reset*

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

Are you saying women on here are easy ?

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

They receive more dick pics than any other group I suspect. And I’m pretty sure that’s a form of SA?

And also they have to trust that #NotAllMen

And I think women are probably more likely to have to deal with abuse after rejecting and the violent kind too.

I wasn’t sure if this was a serious thread so I’ll load up a jokey reply also

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

It’s hard being a woman on fab?

is it fuck

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

I'll give you password of my account

and you can tell me if it's easy or hard enough

I wouldn't say easy is the right word, as you have to do a lot of admin and shift through a lot of messages, deal with some abuse etc

But at least at the end of it you ultimately get what you want... you'll find a guy to licking and probably have good sex..

No such guarantee for guys.... unless you also like guys in which case you could probably get laid easy

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

On a serious note:

Full respect and admiration to single women meeting men or couples...

Stay safe !

P.S. this is a grovely virtue signalling white Knight macho - trying to look klevor free message to all of you single lasses

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"Prove me wrong.

If easy is being the one doing the filtering and rejecting. Maybe it is. I'm not sure.

And this applies across all dating apps IMO, it's not exclusive to fabs at all. I don't even think the proportion of lewd comments is any higher here than OKC, Hinge or Tinder etc. Only more dicks.

I think a similar thing is happening with women too, and how men perceive them.

And both sides are frustrated and misunderstood,and struggling, just in very different ways."

Well said.

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By *viatrixWoman 49 weeks ago

Redhill

Most women on here can get pretty much any guy on here, but finding decent, respectful and their type in looks, is very very difficult. "

Very true.

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By *reat me rightWoman 49 weeks ago

Rotherham

My profile clearly states I'll put up when I want a meet. If I haven't put a meet up - then I'm not meeting

You'd think that was easy to understand but nope. Only yesterday I received a message from someone I'd been chatting to for a couple of months (at no time during that time have I put a meet up). He asked if I'd meet in the New Year. I answered probably not - purely as I haven't met from this site in eons not because I had anything against him. He chucked his toys out of the pram and demanded I leave the site if I'm not going to meet as "it's not fair".

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

"My profile clearly states I'll put up when I want a meet. If I haven't put a meet up - then I'm not meeting

He chatted for months before asking for a meet. Terrible. Ask asap. Cut your losses asap.

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By *ad NannaWoman 49 weeks ago

East London

Imagine having to shave your legs and armpits to have sex.

Then imagine having a cock thrust down your throat when you weren't expecting it.

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By *all me missWoman 49 weeks ago

South Wales

"Prove me wrong.

Are you joking lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No.

I don't have to prove anything to someone else to know it's true. Especially if their opinion isn't relevant to my experience

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By *ruceyyMan 49 weeks ago

London

"Imagine having to shave your legs and armpits to have sex.

Then imagine having a cock thrust down your throat when you weren't expecting it.

This is it. As much as we men can be like look at them getting all the attention ...

You women have to do A LOT of shit and put up with a lot of shit in life generally that we don't.

So you can have this one ok!

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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago

Fannyblindbess lol