"Oh I'm not going there. That can of worms is not worth the effort.
Regardless of what is said there will be somebody getting defensive and we start another gender war in here."
Thay wpuld be some war 107+ sides all battling it out, no one really sure if there is a prize for the winner or what it could possibly be.
I am just gonna spectate. |
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I think be more engaged in interactions/messaging on here. Even if you're not interested, just say you're not interested. Makes it so much easier not to message again, cos I don't know where i'm at with people when I get ghosted. Would rather have people engage with me, just like I do with others I chat to and know where you are at with them. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Oh actually!
Realise that the majority (not all!) the stuff they complain and accuse men for doing, a fucking large number of women do that shit too.
You ain't some fucking special gender that is immune to being cunts too. |
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"Oh I'm not going there. That can of worms is not worth the effort.
Regardless of what is said there will be somebody getting defensive and we start another gender war in here."
Go there! I dare ya  |
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"Oh actually!
Realise that the majority (not all!) the stuff they complain and accuse men for doing, a fucking large number of women do that shit too.
You ain't some fucking special gender that is immune to being cunts too. "
Oh you went there  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Oh I'm not going there. That can of worms is not worth the effort.
Regardless of what is said there will be somebody getting defensive and we start another gender war in here.
Go there! I dare ya "
I did! |
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"Oh actually!
Realise that the majority (not all!) the stuff they complain and accuse men for doing, a fucking large number of women do that shit too.
You ain't some fucking special gender that is immune to being cunts too. "
I said I was sorry!
Em x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh actually!
Realise that the majority (not all!) the stuff they complain and accuse men for doing, a fucking large number of women do that shit too.
You ain't some fucking special gender that is immune to being cunts too. "
You say the nicest things  |
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"What's something you wish women did more of?
Replying to my messages, would be a great start.
Other than that, try see things from our persepctive at times. ( and men should try to do likewise) "
Agree 100% or more women making a bit more effort to message a man first they like rather then wink at them |
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Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention. |
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"What's something you wish women did more of?
Replying to my messages, would be a great start.
Other than that, try see things from our persepctive at times. ( and men should try to do likewise) "
replying is a great start for us lol |
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"Oh actually!
Realise that the majority (not all!) the stuff they complain and accuse men for doing, a fucking large number of women do that shit too.
You ain't some fucking special gender that is immune to being cunts too. "
Well someone hasn't heard of pussy power! |
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"Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention. "
100% this.
I get that some of it is out of fear but Jesus if the first woman a bloke tried it on told them to fuck off in no uncertain terms it would really cut down on it. |
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"Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention.
100% this.
I get that some of it is out of fear but Jesus if the first woman a bloke tried it on told them to fuck off in no uncertain terms it would really cut down on it."
Sorry to comment… o
Sadly I’m sure many of us have tried the direct approach once before, the few times I did, I’ve been assaulted, insulted and shouted at, the polite approach isn’t foolproof but I’ve never been punched in the face for polite rejection. |
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"Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention.
100% this.
I get that some of it is out of fear but Jesus if the first woman a bloke tried it on told them to fuck off in no uncertain terms it would really cut down on it.
Sorry to comment… o
Sadly I’m sure many of us have tried the direct approach once before, the few times I did, I’ve been assaulted, insulted and shouted at, the polite approach isn’t foolproof but I’ve never been punched in the face for polite rejection. "
Yeah, I guess men also need to stop letting this shit slide. |
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"Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention.
100% this.
I get that some of it is out of fear but Jesus if the first woman a bloke tried it on told them to fuck off in no uncertain terms it would really cut down on it.
Sorry to comment… o
Sadly I’m sure many of us have tried the direct approach once before, the few times I did, I’ve been assaulted, insulted and shouted at, the polite approach isn’t foolproof but I’ve never been punched in the face for polite rejection. "
That's fair.
Entirely unacceptable and the dude should leave the area with less teeth but I get it. |
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over a year ago
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Not assume that every man sees them, primarily, for their tits and bits.
We are capable of enjoying their thoughts without needing more than friendship.
M |
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Be overwhelmed by my averageness and want me insatiably….to the point where I’m having to fight them off with all the attention for my mediocre attributes  |
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over a year ago
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I don’t want anyone I meet, chat to or work with to act anything other than exactly how they want to. People have their reasons for their actions and that applies to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Approach maybe. But if not site specific…be open about more of the nerdy or less cool/mainstream stuff you like
I promise we want to hear about your obsession with Percy Jackson books or the characters of hunger games lore lmao |
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"Make the first move! We keep getting told how awful we are, yet it’s still up to us to be creative and stand out"
I have to be honest and say i have been approached a few times and it feels great. I even had someone say they werent interested then a few wekes later message me saying, look i have been thinking and can we chat... it went great from there. |
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Reply to a message, after I've read and responded to every point in her profile, in a well written, personal to her message.
I appreciate that some messages are crass. But just a "not for me" will do |
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"Make the first move! We keep getting told how awful we are, yet it’s still up to us to be creative and stand out
I have to be honest and say i have been approached a few times and it feels great. I even had someone say they werent interested then a few wekes later message me saying, look i have been thinking and can we chat... it went great from there. "
You are a God amongst men Sir |
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"Make the first move! We keep getting told how awful we are, yet it’s still up to us to be creative and stand out
I have to be honest and say i have been approached a few times and it feels great. I even had someone say they werent interested then a few wekes later message me saying, look i have been thinking and can we chat... it went great from there.
You are a God amongst men Sir"
Haha. Thanks for the compliment, as far from the truth as it may be, i appreciate it. |
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"Make the first move! We keep getting told how awful we are, yet it’s still up to us to be creative and stand out
I have to be honest and say i have been approached a few times and it feels great. I even had someone say they werent interested then a few wekes later message me saying, look i have been thinking and can we chat... it went great from there. "
Lucky you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blimey, we've got a lot to work on.
We won't have time for any sex stuff 
Erm…excuse me who let you in here  
Someone left the door open "
I don’t blame you… an open door is an invitation right? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With some of these answers I’m surprised some of you guys are “straight” a woman reading some of these definitely won’t give you the time of day now lol "
I thought the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also women should stop ghosting the decent men that message them. I understand they may have to do it at times but ghost the dickheads and creepy men in here especially ones with dick pictures as their profile. |
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Took responsibility for full motorboating sound effects.
We poor men have to do all the slobber and head motion...is it really too much to ask that you women contribute the sound effects to lighten our workload??
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"Stop being polite to creeps.
I worked for years in pubs and restaurants and saw tons of women being polite to guys giving off creepy vibes and invading personal space because they don't want to offend him.
One thing I've taught to my daughters as they got older, you don't owe them your attention. "
Well said when my daughter started working in a bar first thing told her take no crap .
From fuckwits , |
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Ohh there are some shots fired in here lol.
From a recently newish single guy on here. Would be from my unique perspective to reply even with a not interested, but I don't feel its just a guy thing.
If there is no attraction fair enough this isn't a grantee being on here, with as many or as little veris or six packs or a foot long cock. There will be somone that wants you for your body but not a whole lot.
If you can actually communicate and not just throw words out your face hole u would get alot further I think.
I have seen it time and again on here 'funny gets fanny' and I think if you could make somone laugh from reading a though out engaging message showing that you have read there profile, you would get more of a reaction I think.
And for the ladies I get that there is probably about 300 messages in your inbox and you really do get to pick from the pack,but if somone writes a message more that 'Hay sexy wanna fuck' type messages then it would be only fair to reply with a 'not interested' if that's the case. In my head I compare it to blanking somone in the street type thing.
It would save people pining after what they can't have and multiple messaging.
Dident mean that to be a rant but it certainly looks like it. But people are wierd and keyboard worriers. So everyone is just looking out for there own safety. Do what you like just my 2 cents that nobody asked for lol |
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