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How do you judge people?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes I'm stealing from your thread.
If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?
Bio?
Pictures?
Their posts?
Or is it actual one on one interaction?
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"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.
If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?
Bio?
Pictures?
Their posts?
Or is it actual one on one interaction?
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It can be any number of things. But most of the time I’m fairly indifferent. I either like someone or I don’t think about them.
It would take a special kind of a$$hole to make me feel like I really didn’t like someone I only know from a website / app / forum.
How do YOU decide? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of the things you listed.
I can tell from any of those things whether they’re my kinda person or not. Especially bios, forum posts and interactions. |
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I'm fairly indifferent, people aren't the same on a forum as they are in real life I think plus some comments could be taken the wrong way etc with no tone to even it out with.
Some people I wouldn't choose to spend time with, a few seem like they would be fun.
Mostly it doesn't matter as it is unlikely I will ever meet them.
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.
If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?
Bio?
Pictures?
Their posts?
Or is it actual one on one interaction?
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Bit of everything really  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I try not to too much unless I've spent actual time with them. I don't want to give people headspace rent free when there are far more interesting things to think about.
If they interact with me in a twatty way, I might think, yep, they're a bit of a twat for about twenty seconds and then I move on. Focus on something more worthwhile. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Only when I meet them.
I have a really bad memory by design on here, and often choose not to pay attention to who said what. I don’t see the point of liking or disliking people, you will never meet, based on what on the whole fake versions of themselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "
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You kind of get a feel for some people from interactions on here and there’s certain people I don’t react to or comment on their threads and there are certain people I quite enjoy reading their comments but generally FAB is used to find the people we’d enjoy hanging out with, so don’t get involved in drama.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since I only really use the forums for discussion, I try to pay little attention to who posts what specifically so I can discuss the point they’ve made without bias
I don’t want to judge an entire person based on a few posts on a sex site forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I form loose opinions of people from how I’ve interacted online with them. The same with people I read.
I don’t judge them specifically until we’ve met in person. |
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"Only when I meet them.
I have a really bad memory by design on here, and often choose not to pay attention to who said what. I don’t see the point of liking or disliking people, you will never meet, based on what on the whole fake versions of themselves.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You kind of get a feel for some people from interactions on here and there’s certain people I don’t react to or comment on their threads and there are certain people I quite enjoy reading their comments but generally FAB is used to find the people we’d enjoy hanging out with, so don’t get involved in drama.
K"
Actually, that’s about one of the top tips on Fab Forums.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm stealing from your thread.
If you decide you don't like someone on here, or you do like someone, what is that based off?
Bio?
Pictures?
Their posts?
Or is it actual one on one interaction?
It can be any number of things. But most of the time I’m fairly indifferent. I either like someone or I don’t think about them.
It would take a special kind of a$$hole to make me feel like I really didn’t like someone I only know from a website / app / forum.
How do YOU decide?"
Moi?
I'm very judgemental, it can just be one little comment and I'm deeming you to be a dick. Am I right? In my head, yes, in reality, probably not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I judge them, I can just usually tell the people who I won't match with. Sometimes it's their profile, otherwise a few messages in when talking. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I tend to get bored of people who start new threads every five minutes. It gets tedious when you see the same people starting the same kind of thing every day. "
Ah phew, luckily I make different threads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Observation over time this sums it up I never judge a book on its cover until I've read the book "
But if the cover or synopsis isn't appealing I don't want to read it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone that uses txt spk is a massive red flag. If they are that lazy they can’t be arsed to type properly then as sure as shit is sugar they’ll be lazy and impatient in the bedroom.  "
Was the irony intended here or....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone that uses txt spk is a massive red flag. If they are that lazy they can’t be arsed to type properly then as sure as shit is sugar they’ll be lazy and impatient in the bedroom. "
Haha. Used ‘txt’ for text !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll judge from all aspects but shitty forum posts or creepy status updates and I'm out.
Em x"
The curiosity had got the better of me. How am I fairing? |
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I've met people who were pleasant and polite for an hour but subsequently over time they have shown themselves to be anything but.
Some in the way they have used my friendship to further their fab journey by sharing my details to gain access to chatgroups and some in the way they treat others with distain in private while kissing their arse on the forums.
I judge people on the forums not on individual comments but on their history of shit stirring and trolling even when some of those are lauded by many others.
I've never judged anyone on their profile pics or bio but I definitely have based on their verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like most people and will often talk to most people on here or face to face at the socials.
The only ones I dislike has been for good reason : I.e. nasty comments (usually untrue) and bullying. Not something I'll listen too or change my mind on. |
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