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over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?"
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste. "
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.
. Results. "
Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?
What is your personal video topic, if I may ask? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.
. Results.
Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?
What is your personal video topic, if I may ask? "
I think the forum on Pornhub may be better suited to you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.
. Results.
Are there any “milf teach sex” videos out there?
What is your personal video topic, if I may ask?
I think the forum on Pornhub may be better suited to you"
Thanks for reply. Wasn’t aware of it, but now I am. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"54 is a bit old to be innocent  "
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way. "
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"By the way, not saying this is the same for the OP, just highlighting a different perspective. "
Thanks for reply. It’s always good to keep an open mind and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suppose it’s a bit like a puppy
Most people would love a puppy to come trained
Some prefer to train a puppy themselves so they know it’s trained how they like it
Experience is usually a good thing in guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way. "
Had a really good friend like that growing up. Getting into our late 20s and he didn’t hadn’t done anything, and he would try but just no success
He ended up seeing a bunch of prostitution to get some sexual experience and now he’s in a happy relationship, thankfully |
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "
What makes you think swinger sex is different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen. "
Be careful. Could be a man looking for wank chat. X |
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "
For me it doesn’t differ. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do ladies like or avoid shy inexperienced guys?
Willing to learn, but would a lady be interested?
Some ladies may be well interested. Some may find shy, inexperienced guys not to their taste.
One lady (part of a couple) is very keen.
Be careful. Could be a man looking for wank chat. X"
I am wary of profiles. Lots of single men with couple or female profiles. Easy to suss them out.
Anyway, I don’t cam and only club meet first. So they are fooling no one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you met someone who you really hit it off with and fancied the pants off would you really turn them away based on lack of experience?
I think it would depend on the dynamic and how well we got along is the honest answer.
I've shown people before what I like in the bedroom, and with my kinks. So as much as I'd say I prefer an experienced partner it's definitely a preference but I'm not completely rigid with it.
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Had a really good friend like that growing up. Getting into our late 20s and he didn’t hadn’t done anything, and he would try but just no success
He ended up seeing a bunch of prostitution to get some sexual experience and now he’s in a happy relationship, thankfully "
Yeah I’ve suggested that as a possible way to get over the mind block of it all and realise sex is just sex. I think I half offended him though. I’m glad your mate found his way  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla. "
no difference just supposedly more of it to be had here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you met someone who you really hit it off with and fancied the pants off would you really turn them away based on lack of experience?
I think it would depend on the dynamic and how well we got along is the honest answer.
I've shown people before what I like in the bedroom, and with my kinks. So as much as I'd say I prefer an experienced partner it's definitely a preference but I'm not completely rigid with it.
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Thanks for reply. A custom built lover rather than one off-the-shelf. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla.
For me it doesn’t differ. "
Yep same for me. There may be more people in the room for swinger sex but the acts and props are the same as 'vanilla' sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d avoid as I like to be taken in hand myself. Not through shyness or inexperience. I just like a guy who mostly takes the lead. "
Thanks for sharing. You two make a good couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"54 is a bit old to be innocent
I know someone in my personal life who is in his 30s, is a lovey and great guy, but he’s somewhat socially awkward and now withdrawn himself a bit from trying. He’s never even kissed a woman or been in a relationship. Unless he address the things holding him back, he will probabbly be in his 40s and in the same situation.
I feel sorry for him because I don’t know how realistic it is that he’ll find someone who has patience to let him find his way.
Swinger sex is different from regular sex.
Vanilla versus non-vanilla.
For me it doesn’t differ.
Yep same for me. There may be more people in the room for swinger sex but the acts and props are the same as 'vanilla' sex"
Thanks for reply. Another perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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From discussions here, a few don’t mind an inexperienced guy. So best to be frank upfront rather than let the team down.
From discussions read on other topics, majority of ladies seek chemistry and compatibility.
Even though it’s swinging, many still have the same selection criteria as regular dating. Just no long term commitments.
Guys views are generally along the lines of “whatever you want to hear, we will say” and many ladies stated that they are aware of that. So ladies use other methods to filter the guys.
So overall, not as bad as I thought the scene would be.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't actively avoid anyone shy but it would be a mismatch of energies on the point of contact, so I believe it naturally wouldn't go too far.
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Thanks for reply.
Just learnt that OP’s need to thank ALL posters or none. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....
But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....
Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise
I also associate shyness with quite people too....& What do they say....watch the quite ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs |
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"I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....
But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....
Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise
I also associate shyness with quiet people too....& What do they say....watch the quiet ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs"
I’m right here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer extrovert Men....who are confident out going & not shy ....
But OP I do know some like the shy type too....I don't know why I associate shy with submissive though....
Cos for some shy people once they get to know someone....they can be quite a surprise
I also associate shyness with quiet people too....& What do they say....watch the quiet ones they're the worst ha....in a good way obvs
I’m right here lol "
Awh....are you a Shy Boy....really....that's kinda cute 
"He used to be a Shy Boy....Till He was My Boy"....ear worm I have now ha....
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