I need just a little.
It's not a negative thread.
Need to have a shave and cut my hair, but I'm not in the mood.
Don't want to look like Jesus anymore.
I'm not feeling down, but I didn't even leave the flat in almost for days, so need a push.
4 days off work wasted.
I'm in the "Whatever/IDGAF period I guess.
Eye of the storm maybe.
I don't need advice, because I deal with myself in my entire life, so I can always sort out my shit.
Just a little confidence boost please, so I will look like a man again when I go back to work tomorrow.
Really need to shave and cut my hair.
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2 questions...
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1. Would you have a coffee date with me, if you all wouldn't live 100-300 miles away?
2. Would you fuck my brain out, if I'd be the last man standing?
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Yes I'd have a coffee meet with you.
As for sex with you, well if you grow boobs and a fanny then quite possibly I would 
Try and find some confidence in yourself for who you are though, stand tall and be proud of you. |
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Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know. |
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I wouldn't either but that's not a reflection on you, I wouldn't with anyone off here.
But you shouldn't put your own worth in someone else's hands, fuck what other people think and like you for you.
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"Yes I'd have a coffee meet with you.
As for sex with you, well if you grow boobs and a fanny then quite possibly I would
Try and find some confidence in yourself for who you are though, stand tall and be proud of you."
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I have kind of man boobs and I can take a hard pegging.
Doesn't smell too mannish usually, but I have some body hair.
I have confidence, but without other tools I don't get anywhere here.
As I mentioned, it doesn't matter anymore .
Don't care and feel better.
No pressure.
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Honestly, no. Through our interactions, we have clearly established that we are deeply incompatible people, and that's okay. Doesn't mean I'm wrong or lesser. It doesn't mean you're wrong or lesser. There's just no point in us trying to connect.
Try not to let other people's opinions define your self worth or confidence. You are more than most people will ever see. And if someone isn't your people, it doesn't matter if you don't get along.
Just because we don't gel doesn't mean I don't hope you feel better soon. I overnegatived that to death and now can't tell if it's what I mean to say. But oh well. Hopefully, you get the gist of the word vomit. |
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"Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know."
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It was going to be a weird funny thread, but not too serious.
I guess I overdosed the weird part again.
Thanks anyway.
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"I wouldn't either but that's not a reflection on you, I wouldn't with anyone off here.
But you shouldn't put your own worth in someone else's hands, fuck what other people think and like you for you.
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Please tell me it's, because you're not a fan of people in general.
I would take it as positive as it gets.
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Roland Roland Roland
What ya doing tomorrow?
If your home, get a good sleep tonight. Tomorrow have a long hot bath or shower, do somewhere grooming if YOU want to, have a good meal and go for a walk, take in the air, breathe deep. How you feel about yourself in them moments...try to breathe out the negative |
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"Honestly, no. Through our interactions, we have clearly established that we are deeply incompatible people, and that's okay. Doesn't mean I'm wrong or lesser. It doesn't mean you're wrong or lesser. There's just no point in us trying to connect.
Try not to let other people's opinions define your self worth or confidence. You are more than most people will ever see. And if someone isn't your people, it doesn't matter if you don't get along.
Just because we don't gel doesn't mean I don't hope you feel better soon. I overnegatived that to death and now can't tell if it's what I mean to say. But oh well. Hopefully, you get the gist of the word vomit."
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It was more you than we, but you have a point there.
You are a bit too spicy.
Actually you are the only woman who I find interesting in many ways, but sometimes nicely(or not) intimidating.
It is exactly good how it is.
It is what it is with no labels.
Thanks for your another interesting comment.
Getting up to have a coffee right now.
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Honestly it's not a negative thread.
I started with explaining that straight away.
Put some funnyISH stuff in it as well.
I guess I explained a bit too long my slightly antisocial last for days.
I am reasonably confident and reasonably positive.
I honestly expected it to be just kind of making fun of my mysery.
I came across wrong again, sorry.
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OP you are a chef. If you ever decided to be a serial killer you have the means to dispose of the evidence and make money from it.
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"OP you are a chef. If you ever decided to be a serial killer you have the means to dispose of the evidence and make money from it.
Look to the positives in life "
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Again...
I didn't meant to give the vibe of feeling sorry for myself, or expecting anybody make me feel better.
It just went the wrong way.
It meant to be ironically funny.
Every single person misunderstood it, but obviously it's my fault.
Most were actually nice and thanks for that.
A couple of people literally just wanted to be evil.
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"Worst thing you can do is look for self validation through others. Back yourself, have confidence in what you bring to the table and the when you find the right people, you won't need to ask you'll just know."
Good advice. Thanks for sharing. |
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