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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford

What if someone came in to your life who was your soulmate.would you like me

Want to spend every second of the rest your life with them.

Or do you not belive that meeting a soulmate is not possible on fab or anywhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought I had met my soulmate in 1987. But she was horrible.. and still wounded after all this time. Never again!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am a hopeless romantic to I believe in happy ever afters

So yes I believe in soul mates and all that

As for meeting them on fab or other places they can be meet anyway

As for me personally this is the sad part

I all ready meet that person and that person and when she didn’t want me she throw me away and left me in a million pieces

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I thought I had met my soulmate in 1987. But she was horrible.. and still wounded after all this time. Never again!

"

Fair enough

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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I don't believe in a singular soul mate, not in a romanticised, Hollywood version.

I do think that everyone will have a few people who they naturally are drawn to and click with on some deeper level but even then it can be platonic.

I think you can find your person/people anywhere. I'm not sure why Fab would be any different.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a hopeless romantic to I believe in happy ever afters

So yes I believe in soul mates and all that

As for meeting them on fab or other places they can be meet anyway

As for me personally this is the sad part

I all ready meet that person and that person and when she didn’t want me she throw me away and left me in a million pieces "

Is it worth the risk of being hurt?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

Soulmates were bullshit in my eyes until I met the mrs. I find it rather strange how compatible we are.

We’re so compatible that apart we are useless, but together we make one whole fully functioning human.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a hopeless romantic to I believe in happy ever afters

So yes I believe in soul mates and all that

As for meeting them on fab or other places they can be meet anyway

As for me personally this is the sad part

I all ready meet that person and that person and when she didn’t want me she throw me away and left me in a million pieces

Is it worth the risk of being hurt?"

No one can hurt me emotionally any more than I all ready am

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I think you can find your soulmate anywhere.

For me, personally, spending every moment with someone, soulmate or not, would not be healthy, independence within a strong relationship is where it’s at for me.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I am a hopeless romantic to I believe in happy ever afters

So yes I believe in soul mates and all that

As for meeting them on fab or other places they can be meet anyway

As for me personally this is the sad part

I all ready meet that person and that person and when she didn’t want me she throw me away and left me in a million pieces

Is it worth the risk of being hurt?"

We all go through life with many faulse hopes of love and happy ever after.but i believe live in the moment love in the moment .we never know how many moments we got left .I've always done best loves have come and gone. But soulmates something else

Cercumstance may change and my soulmate may then be gone . but I'll tell you this I won't be hurt by that I'll just be grateful for the time we had its a wonderouse thing.I'll love her forever.

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By *lynJMan  over a year ago

Morden

I met my soulmate. We had 18 years together until she passed away in May last year.

I don't think I'll find anyone like her again

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By *hrimper36Couple  over a year ago

Central France dept 36

Head heart cock heart cock head which one to follow Roy which one?????

Live your best life but be kind to Maya and best of luck.

T

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"Head heart cock heart cock head which one to follow Roy which one?????

Live your best life but be kind to Maya and best of luck.

T"

Maya safe and we are still together. I've not left her.my soulmate understands as I understand her other relationship.but even if we can't spend every second together the seconds we do spend are amaseing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. "

oh god lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol"

She's not met the right barista yet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol"

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'. "

if could settle down with my ssoulmate life would be bliss .but we other responsibilities .so perhaps in the next life .until then I'll cherish every second we hhave .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Master R, not seen you around for a while. I take it that you are still ecstatic and loved up with your little Fab friend.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

if could settle down with my ssoulmate life would be bliss .but we other responsibilities .so perhaps in the next life .until then I'll cherish every second we hhave ."

Then they aren't your soulmate.

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By *ussle SproutMan  over a year ago

the middle

I’ve met people I want to spend a lot of time with and we get on fantastically. Soulmate is a bit of a stretch for me though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'. "

I've done the math.

8.1 billion people on earth.

24,642,757 square miles of habitable land.

Your 1 in a million soulmate could be hiding anywhere in 3042.31567901 square miles.

UK has 94000 square miles.

There's about 31 soulmates here.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

if could settle down with my ssoulmate life would be bliss .but we other responsibilities .so perhaps in the next life .until then I'll cherish every second we hhave .

Then they aren't your soulmate."

Well give my long experience of life .I'm not wrong on this I believe .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

I've done the math.

8.1 billion people on earth.

24,642,757 square miles of habitable land.

Your 1 in a million soulmate could be hiding anywhere in 3042.31567901 square miles.

UK has 94000 square miles.

There's about 31 soulmates here.

"

That's a lot of numbers.

But basically I'm right? Right?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS  over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

The whole reason I'm on this site is.. NOT... To meet a soulmate..

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple  over a year ago

Debauchery

I do. I did. In fact I am the proof it can happen.

Hades

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

I've done the math.

8.1 billion people on earth.

24,642,757 square miles of habitable land.

Your 1 in a million soulmate could be hiding anywhere in 3042.31567901 square miles.

UK has 94000 square miles.

There's about 31 soulmates here.

That's a lot of numbers.

But basically I'm right? Right?"

Basically you'd need to meet 2 million people to find that elusive soulmate.

I could never admit you're right, so I'll say you're not wrong.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"The whole reason I'm on this site is.. NOT... To meet a soulmate.. "

Lol funny you should say that neither of us were looking for soulmate either lol .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

I've done the math.

8.1 billion people on earth.

24,642,757 square miles of habitable land.

Your 1 in a million soulmate could be hiding anywhere in 3042.31567901 square miles.

UK has 94000 square miles.

There's about 31 soulmates here.

That's a lot of numbers.

But basically I'm right? Right?

Basically you'd need to meet 2 million people to find that elusive soulmate.

I could never admit you're right, so I'll say you're not wrong."

I'll take that

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I couldn’t spend every minute with them, no. They’d get on my tits (probably).

My ideal relationship these days would be them having their place, me having mine, and we see each other when we can.

As long as the love is there, the loyalty is there, the lust for each other is there, then a bit of space is healthy. They do their thing, I do mine and we look forward to seeing each other.

That said, I couldn’t do different Countries kind of space. I’d like to see someone more than once a year!!

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"I couldn’t spend every minute with them, no. They’d get on my tits (probably).

My ideal relationship these days would be them having their place, me having mine, and we see each other when we can.

As long as the love is there, the loyalty is there, the lust for each other is there, then a bit of space is healthy. They do their thing, I do mine and we look forward to seeing each other.

That said, I couldn’t do different Countries kind of space. I’d like to see someone more than once a year!!

"

Sadly we get plenty of time apart I'm talking about the seconds we do get together .

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I believe in this I guess because it’s happened to me twice in my life ! When you meet someone who makes you stop wanting others. It’s faith like, hard to imagine, until it happens.

Spending every waking waking minute with them? Fuck no ! That would just be suffocating

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan  over a year ago

Belfast

If I met my soul mate I would be happy to settle, that type of love doesn't come along every day. Am I looking though?, I am not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What if someone came in to your life who was your soulmate.would you like me

Want to spend every second of the rest your life with them.

Or do you not belive that meeting a soulmate is not possible on fab or anywhere else."

Gayest thing on fab. Ever!

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By *ellhungvweMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I don't believe in soulmates, it's a crock of shit.

It's just someone that's slightly less annoying than everyone else and you both can't be arsed looking elsewhere so you settle. oh god lol

Prove me wrong. Of all the people in the world, if soulmates did exist, the chances of you ever meeting them are pretty bloody slim.

People are designed to want to find the one and settle down, so they make the one they meet into their 'soulmate'.

I've done the math.

8.1 billion people on earth.

24,642,757 square miles of habitable land.

Your 1 in a million soulmate could be hiding anywhere in 3042.31567901 square miles.

UK has 94000 square miles.

There's about 31 soulmates here.

"

There are 67 million people in the UK - so for your 1 in a million soulmate you actually have 67 options here.

And to answer OPs question : I think spending every second of your life with someone is unhealthy.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"If I met my soul mate I would be happy to settle, that type of love doesn't come along every day. Am I looking though?, I am not "

Isn’t that the thing though they are so game changing because you never even looked for it., you didn’t want or need it. I was 23 and the last thing I wanted was a girlfriend/partner ! I’d 4 or 5 regular partners , loved being single and had everything I needed… or so I thought !

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan  over a year ago

Belfast


"If I met my soul mate I would be happy to settle, that type of love doesn't come along every day. Am I looking though?, I am not

Isn’t that the thing though they are so game changing because you never even looked for it., you didn’t want or need it. I was 23 and the last thing I wanted was a girlfriend/partner ! I’d 4 or 5 regular partners , loved being single and had everything I needed… or so I thought ! "

I agree. Whether you're looking for it or not, if it comes along I imagine it's like nothing else out there. I've been in love twice, nothing lasts too long with me though so neither of those relationships lasted any great length of time and before long tracks had appeared. But a soul mate, someone meant for you and vice versa, someone you know that wether you be disagreeing or not you will always get through and be stronger together, that type of thing would be hard to turn your nose up to.

I'm envious of those who have that, but at the same time I am content living my life for me and at my own pace. Who knows what the future will bring though

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford

Thanks for all your contributions to my thread as usual some interesting points of view and life experiences.I'd give up and was ready to hang up my cane .and spend fantastic vanilla time with Maya .but now I've got the both vanilla and kink so I'm happy neither relationships affect the other everybody happy.I'm a very happy man .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shout out to my soulmate.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"Shout out to my soulmate. "

You lots of life to live Steve hopefully . but the thing about life is you never know what's round the corner.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

I did find my soulmate and then they died

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By *hortishblondeWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"What if someone came in to your life who was your soulmate.would you like me

Want to spend every second of the rest your life with them.

Or do you not belive that meeting a soulmate is not possible on fab or anywhere else."

Not on here but I have someone I think a lot of as a friend and a bit more

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By *otSoPoshWoman  over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I don't think there is one soul mate for everyone. The soul has many facets, as does the rest of a person. So there are many who can be a mate to your soul.

There are very few people who find that one person is enough for every facet of their soul through all of the changes they go through during their life, and therefore any two people who stick with each other through everything without anyone else involved (including friends, animals, anyone else) are likely not fulfilling their whole selves.

A soul mate doesn't have to be a lover, or a romantic partner. They can be a friend. Someone with whom that part of your soul bonds with.

Anyone looking for someone they can spend all their time with, forever, is likely to be disappointed.

I feel lucky to have had three soul mates thus far in my life. Two are no longer with us, one is. And not all of them have been romantic partners.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford

Yes its about the connection you have .that goes beyond what you have with others.

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By *aitonelMan  over a year ago

Liverpool

Every second? No fuck that. Gimme space for fuck sake.

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By *asterR and slut maya OP   Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"Every second? No fuck that. Gimme space for fuck sake.

OK I'll re phrase every possible second that we are free do so .the practicality of lives don't allow .and your own space is important .but at the moment I want as many seconds that I can.

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