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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
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That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here  |
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I'm a bit weird when it comes to the forums Brucey. I'm not really about the flirting on them and I don't really look out for those that fit my needs sexually from the posts they've made. I'm generally only on here to entertain myself for the few hours I have either side of work.
That being said, there are definitely a few forum users that I would love to leave in a sweaty mess in the middle of my bed |
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over a year ago
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
No. Simply |
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
There are a few women around that I know we would have amazing experiences together. some common issues that arise are.
1. Distance.
2. I am outwith their age range
3. Unread/deleted unread messages.
Not much we can do anout it. just accept the way things are and enjoy what we can. |
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"More than one.
But 99% of them are attached and the partner doesn't know so I won't touch them."
You seem to be drawn to the wrong type of man, I'm thinking anyway. Is there a particular trait that these type of men all have that attracts you to them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
If you think you can tell someone’s a perfect sexual match from a forum I don’t think you should be having sex yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I’d say I don’t know.
I don’t use forums to attract others and don’t speak to (many) people outside of them, those that I do is not in a sexual manner |
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Not so much on the forum, but there was a fab friend that ticked lots of boxes sexually and also what qualities I look for in a relationship. And he said the same about me.
Unfortunately, he doesn’t want a relationship (lots going on in personal life), so we decided to not see/contact each other because we were both worried about getting too involved and hurting each other.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't say to that degree, words and pictures only tell you so much.. that spark that indefinable something I only know if I meet them in person
I do admire some of the ladies pictures though   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More than one.
But 99% of them are attached and the partner doesn't know so I won't touch them.
You seem to be drawn to the wrong type of man, I'm thinking anyway. Is there a particular trait that these type of men all have that attracts you to them? "
Nice faces, generally talkative with a confidence about them
Translates to fancy themselves a bit, too many words used and players.
That what you mean?
I tried changing it but came off a lot worse. I'll be here at 99 still not getting it right. But fuck it I'll have lots of stories. I'm trying! |
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"More than one.
But 99% of them are attached and the partner doesn't know so I won't touch them.
You seem to be drawn to the wrong type of man, I'm thinking anyway. Is there a particular trait that these type of men all have that attracts you to them?
Nice faces, generally talkative with a confidence about them
Translates to fancy themselves a bit, too many words used and players.
That what you mean?
I tried changing it but came off a lot worse. I'll be here at 99 still not getting it right. But fuck it I'll have lots of stories. I'm trying!"
Yeah, those things would be hard to keep away from so I get it. Keep on trying is right, there'll definitely a lucky gent out there for you who fits the bill and is exactly what you want, and isn't what you don't want |
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
As I have only been on short time
Have not got a scooby doo  |
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"Oh yes. And she’s in this thread. 
Every woman on this thread now thinking is it me is it me! 
It's definitely not me ... although I would... given the opportunity lol"
Def not me I’m too old . I reckon PW could be in here |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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Errrrr. Possibly? It's impossible to tell from a profile and forum chat, to be honest.
Of course, who knows how many secretly lust after my firm yet supple body. Probably loads. Probably.
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"They know who they are.
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You are a nice guy, but I don't want your willy, but thanks.
A Karaoke night would be acceptable.
I have the voice for Billy Idol, Bon Scott, Lemmy, Johnny Cash, Elvis, Jim Morrison, Rod Stewart, Joe Cocker and Bruce Dickinson for some Maiden songs.
Can pull of some MSG and UFO songs as well.
Can do a falsetto Whitney Houston or Mariah Carey as well. Maybe even Bonnie Tyler.
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I have been on this site for just over a year now - I think the challenge is trying to find someone ‘ on the same page ‘ ....
I think they are on here - it’s just a question of finding them !
The search can be both exciting & frustrating |
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"They know who they are.
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You are a nice guy, but I don't want your willy, but thanks.
A Karaoke night would be acceptable.
I have the voice for Billy Idol, Bon Scott, Lemmy, Johnny Cash, Elvis, Jim Morrison, Rod Stewart, Joe Cocker and Bruce Dickinson for some Maiden songs.
Can pull of some MSG and UFO songs as well.
Can do a falsetto Whitney Houston or Mariah Carey as well. Maybe even Bonnie Tyler.
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I'll save your seat whilst you're up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not as I'm a switchy, temprental sod. I'm not looking or expecting for a perfect fit.
I tend to look at people and think "I'd love to spend time with them (naked or not) as I'd bet it would be a blast and I'd leave a happier person".
And plenty of these ppl here |
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"More than one.
But 99% of them are attached and the partner doesn't know so I won't touch them."
That’s a shame. It makes me sad that people do that on this site, that I only joined in the first place because I expected to find ETHICAL non monogamy. |
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"They know who they are.
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You are a nice guy, but I don't want your willy, but thanks.
A Karaoke night would be acceptable.
I have the voice for Billy Idol, Bon Scott, Lemmy, Johnny Cash, Elvis, Jim Morrison, Rod Stewart, Joe Cocker and Bruce Dickinson for some Maiden songs.
Can pull of some MSG and UFO songs as well.
Can do a falsetto Whitney Houston or Mariah Carey as well. Maybe even Bonnie Tyler.
I'll save your seat whilst you're up "
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Not even backing vocal?
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
Oh, I’m not fussed. I’ll spread ‘em for anyone who asks. Taste? What’s that? |
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here
Oh, I’m not fussed. I’ll spread ‘em for anyone who asks. Taste? What’s that?"
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Spread what?
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There’s a couple of ladies that I think would fit our dynamics perfectly and us theirs.
There’s a gent that I think would work too.
We try and ensure that we can get on outside of the bedroom before we get inside.
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That's really tough to answer.
There are an awful lot who make me laugh so hard I love them for that.
So I'll tend to read their profile and assess whether my very specific and limited appeal is in their range. What they need, and how it fits with what I like to give.
After that, the next part of me "wanting someone" is "how their face works". Far more so than other qualities, physical or recreational. I'm very, very driven by faces. Cheek and warmth more than anything else.
FAB/Forum tends not to have a lot of female faces on show (for very good reasons...plenty of creeps who would use the images in unpleasant ways).
And I (mostly) couldn't approach someone and say "can I see your face?", to only turn around and go "sorry - not for me".
It's fairly brutal, so I err on caution.
Plus, in reality, the very few who have "cleared my bar" (maybe I could work out enough about their face, for example) are invariably 150+ miles away, which could work, but mostly wouldn't.
So the Forum is mostly fun, occasionally worthwhile on more serious topics, and a great way to make shitty Winter more like Spring....but its link to shaping my preferred sexual realities is tenuous.
All of which fall within my overall expectations of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not quite sure. I want to know there's an initial spark there to know whether they'd want to have sex with me first and anything after that, I'd have to see when we're in the bedroom because I don't want to build up an expectation of what might happen and how we will click in case it disappoints |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh yes. And she’s in this thread.
Every woman on this thread now thinking is it me is it me!
It's definitely not me ... although I would... given the opportunity lol
Def not me I’m too old . I reckon PW could be in here "
*PW gets mega excited*
I wish! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More than one.
But 99% of them are attached and the partner doesn't know so I won't touch them.
That’s a shame. It makes me sad that people do that on this site, that I only joined in the first place because I expected to find ETHICAL non monogamy. "
Hahahaha I made that same mistake. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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On paper and in theory yes.
In reality I expect not quite as much as it seems. The fantasy is alive, the reality more often than not falls short.
(that goes for me too, if anyone feels I would be their perfect match - I'm very likely not and fall short of it) |
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"There's a few, but you never know until you get naked.
I get naked every day, and it's given me no insight whatsoever.  "
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I'm getting mixed feelings when I get naked.
Sometimes:"Oh,yeah!"
Other times:"What the  is that?"
Mostly:"It's okay. It is what it is." |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Not to the tee but I don't think anyone ever will be. There are people I think where I find myself thinking, oh, that could be fun.
And there are those I'm enjoying discovering slowly just how compatible we are. Different people bring out a different response in me. I love when there's that contrast between someone's outward demeanour and their raw sexuality brimming away underneath. Love seeing how someone responds and reacts to me in ways I didn't quite imagine.
I don't think I want perfection, anyway. |
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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago
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Not so much the sex, it's reading and/or hearing about someone you find incredibly interesting, who you would like to be on a long train journey with. Then the reality than you might as well be fantasising about [insert name of actress] as the person on fab. |
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"That fits your sexual taste to the tee?
You may not have met, but you've read or know their style when it comes to sex and it sounds like the best party?
I have a few times. There's some women who know how to have fun on here "
There are quite a few people on the forums I'd like to meet socially and intimately, definitely my type.
Unfortunately the last time I was anyone's type I was giving blood. |
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"There’s a few I look at (profile wise/forum posts) and I think fwoarrr I bet they’re dirty bastards in bed
I'm a dirty bastard in bed!
Well have a shower then lol, I'll wash your back "
He has custard on his back.
True story.
Whatcha gonna wash it with now?? x |
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"There’s a few I look at (profile wise/forum posts) and I think fwoarrr I bet they’re dirty bastards in bed
I'm a dirty bastard in bed!
Well have a shower then lol, I'll wash your back
He has custard on his back.
True story.
Whatcha gonna wash it with now?? x"
My tongue... I love custard |
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"There’s a few I look at (profile wise/forum posts) and I think fwoarrr I bet they’re dirty bastards in bed
I'm a dirty bastard in bed!
Well have a shower then lol, I'll wash your back
He has custard on his back.
True story.
Whatcha gonna wash it with now?? x
My tongue... I love custard "
Lol...I really thought you'd get so excited you'd type it all in caps x |
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"There’s a few I look at (profile wise/forum posts) and I think fwoarrr I bet they’re dirty bastards in bed
I'm a dirty bastard in bed!
Well have a shower then lol, I'll wash your back
He has custard on his back.
True story.
Whatcha gonna wash it with now?? x
My tongue... I love custard
Lol...I really thought you'd get so excited you'd type it all in caps x"
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"Not so much on the forum, but there was a fab friend that ticked lots of boxes sexually and also what qualities I look for in a relationship. And he said the same about me.
Unfortunately, he doesn’t want a relationship (lots going on in personal life), so we decided to not see/contact each other because we were both worried about getting too involved and hurting each other.
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That is sad, what a missed opportunity for both of you ?? |
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"Not so much on the forum, but there was a fab friend that ticked lots of boxes sexually and also what qualities I look for in a relationship. And he said the same about me.
Unfortunately, he doesn’t want a relationship (lots going on in personal life), so we decided to not see/contact each other because we were both worried about getting too involved and hurting each other.
That is sad, what a missed opportunity for both of you ??"
It was/is. |
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Certainly seen a few that look pefect but then there's always been some little thing (usually my age or their distance away) that comes up to spoil it. Best to settle for almost perfect rather than miss out altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes yes and yes! And weirdly I’m too frightened to tell them 
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I'm sure it's Wonko.
You might put a smile on his face.
I doubt that.
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The smile or it's you?
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That it's me |
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"Yes yes and yes! And weirdly I’m too frightened to tell them
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I'm sure it's Wonko.
You might put a smile on his face.
I doubt that.
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The smile or it's you?
That it's me "
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"I’m too frightened to tell them"
Not many of us regulars have that effect on women.
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