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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How you mean false?"
As in they refuse to acknowledge it to others yet demand you act as if you are in one. While denying it to others they talk to to seem single |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone else ever been stuck in a false relationship with someone,
Hi op
On what level would you say it was false, different expectations "
False as in they expect you to and say you are in a relationship yet tell others mainly single
Men that you are not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How you mean false?
As in they refuse to acknowledge it to others yet demand you act as if you are in one. While denying it to others they talk to to seem single
Dump move on "
If only it was that easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately yes I have the relationship wasn’t false
but she was false in loving me
the hurt I was put through abuse not physical but
mental abuse it’s left me broken beyond repair as I am to scared it happens again I was left homeless with no family
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’re going to have to get tough with this, kids or not (and they deserve better). Confront this directly and be prepared to walk if you don’t get clarity. |
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"You’re going to have to get tough with this, kids or not (and they deserve better). Confront this directly and be prepared to walk if you don’t get clarity. "
I agree. I could see this type of thing crushing your soul entirely if you let it continue. You should be with someone who is happy to tell people that they are happy because they have you, and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP do you live with said person?
Is she saying she's single as she lives alone and has to say single on paperwork etc? Is she on benefits? If so she may well not admit to the relationship in fear of losing her benefits etc.
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"How you mean false?
As in they refuse to acknowledge it to others yet demand you act as if you are in one. While denying it to others they talk to to seem single "
Never and I wouldn't be.
If there ashamed to admit they are in a relationship with me to others they don't deserve me.
Simple.
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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It sounds like the other person wants their cake and to eat it too.
It sounds like outwardly she wants to appear to be free and single but wants you to know you're in a relationship with her and you have responsibilities.
Unfortunately, it sounds like children are involved too, which makes things extremely awkward.
This was the situation I found myself in 12 years ago.
Unfortunately, the only way for us was divorce. Children are strong and will cope. Children's ages come into it too as over 11 years old, they get to choose which parent to live with. Under 11, it's usually the lady that gets custody but not always.
You may walk away with nothing. Not even a roof over your head I'm afraid, but a court will never make you homeless. Only you can do that.
You've got some real tough decisions to make my friend, and only you can make them.
I'm always happy to chat privately if you wish, but you're not alone and by far from the first person to be in this position. And you know what... Were all still here...
Incidentally, this also applies to the ladies out there too. It's not just the men that have to put up with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really enough information here to offer an opinion, I’m afraid. As others have posted above, what are her circumstances and her reasons for being unable to claim she isn’t single?
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I was acquainted with a young woman who was in a relationship with a guy from a conservative Muslim family. He claimed he couldn't tell his family about her until they were about to get married. I first knew her around 7 years ago, they're not married. I suspect they never will be to each other |
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