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"I've met stunning people who think they are hideous. I've met stunning people who are fully aware of how attractice they are. Everyone views themselves differently and just because other people can see your beauty, doesn't always mean you can. MrsAbz " Yep this generally what I've seen | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. " I think you’re fit. But I’ve been known to be wrong about people, so there’s that. | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. " You look like the love child of Noddy Holder and Morticia Addams. I guess that would be hot to some people | |||
"Most people objectively universally attractive to everyone, and that levels the field." Everybody is someone’s type. | |||
"I identify as hot. " Lol, I'm stealing that | |||
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"Most people objectively universally attractive to everyone, and that levels the field. Everybody is someone’s type. " Meant to say are not* | |||
"I am aware that I'm conventionally attractive, yes. I'm also aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and attraction is subjective and personal." I love that skirt in your recent picture...and envy your flat stomach | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. I think you’re fit. But I’ve been known to be wrong about people, so there’s that. " Your taste is not the best! | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. You look like the love child of Noddy Holder and Morticia Addams. I guess that would be hot to some people " You still would though | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. " *** I think you're much more attractive than you think. I don't want to get into your panties, just being honest. | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. You look like the love child of Noddy Holder and Morticia Addams. I guess that would be hot to some people You still would though" What can I say? Morticia does it for me. | |||
"I identify as hot. " *** So am I, when I'm at work. | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. *** I think you're much more attractive than you think. I don't want to get into your panties, just being honest. " You've never seen my face? | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. I think you’re fit. But I’ve been known to be wrong about people, so there’s that. Your taste is not the best!" That’s a matter of opinion. | |||
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"I am aware that I'm conventionally attractive, yes. I'm also aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and attraction is subjective and personal." So knowing you are does that impact your choices? So for example i would generally not consider the conventionally attractive for me. For you, beauty be skin deep blah blah blah, do you then have a higher standard, do you KNOW you can meet people of a higher standard and can be fussy? Hope that makes sense? | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. " This I'm more than okay with it I'd rather be kind or thought after by my personality nobody has on there gravestone or talked about at funerals for being attractive! | |||
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"On the outside, mostly yes. But most people who are beautiful on the inside don't have a clue how special they are." This | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. *** I think you're much more attractive than you think. I don't want to get into your panties, just being honest. You've never seen my face?" *** You have beautiful hair, chin and lips. Unless you have a goatee too, then you're a beautiful woman. Being hot won't ruin your special rebel style. | |||
"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. *** I think you're much more attractive than you think. I don't want to get into your panties, just being honest. You've never seen my face? *** You have beautiful hair, chin and lips. Unless you have a goatee too, then you're a beautiful woman. Being hot won't ruin your special rebel style. " She is a butterface, why won't anyone believe her!? | |||
"On the outside, mostly yes. But most people who are beautiful on the inside don't have a clue how special they are. This" Love this | |||
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"There are beautiful people, and there are people who are visually stunning but are far from beautiful. Mr DD" This | |||
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"There are beautiful people, and there are people who are visually stunning but are far from beautiful. Mr DD" Beauty realy does shine from deep inside. | |||
"There are beautiful people, and there are people who are visually stunning but are far from beautiful. Mr DD Beauty realy does shine from deep inside. " Bit like torches in Luton A&E | |||
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"On fab I think some people think they're more attractive than they actually are. I know I'm not and I'm ok with that. *** I think you're much more attractive than you think. I don't want to get into your panties, just being honest. You've never seen my face? *** You have beautiful hair, chin and lips. Unless you have a goatee too, then you're a beautiful woman. Being hot won't ruin your special rebel style. She is a butterface, why won't anyone believe her!? " *** I'm Scarface with a weird cock and a short/stocky bear body, plus walking style, plus weird humor. I'm not complaining. I was doing okay with it until divorce/lockdown or started to mix/work in a more narrow minded group. Might find different women attractive too, than the average/pretty guys do. | |||
"There are beautiful people, and there are people who are visually stunning but are far from beautiful. Mr DD Beauty realy does shine from deep inside. Bit like torches in Luton A&E " Haha. | |||
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"I am aware that I'm conventionally attractive, yes. I'm also aware I'm not everyone's cup of tea, and attraction is subjective and personal. I love that skirt in your recent picture...and envy your flat stomach " Ahh thank you! | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" How does someone even answer this? I don't think I'm attractive, I don't think I'm beautiful. I don't turn heads when I walk down the street but I can name people that do. Always the one that's not seen. Personality wise. How can I even judge that? | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are? How does someone even answer this? I don't think I'm attractive, I don't think I'm beautiful. I don't turn heads when I walk down the street but I can name people that do. Always the one that's not seen. Personality wise. How can I even judge that? " *** " I don't turn heads when I walk down the street " You must have the largest gay or blind community in the UK. Maybe a lot of married guy with their wife on their side, watching them where they look. | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" Yes and stuck up with it | |||
"I take fab compliments with a cellar of salt Real life compliments make my toes curl " Note to self if ever buy you a drink don’t try and wow with compliments | |||
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"I take fab compliments with a cellar of salt Real life compliments make my toes curl " I’d like to make your toes curl. | |||
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"Some do, some don't. Confidence is attractive being vain isn't, it's a fine balance. …… Attraction is subjective. Mrs " | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" I'm sexy beautiful stunning hot gorgeous. Fab men tell me all the time. | |||
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"Some do, some don't. Confidence is attractive being vain isn't, it's a fine balance. I've known people I think are absolutely stunning not have any confidence in themselves and people I don't find attractive think they are gods gift. Attraction is subjective. Mrs " *** Attraction is subjective and also can change in real life. Although there are the people, who are considered generally attractive. Without that there's a really slight chance, even get in contact with someone or being noticed. I'd say it's mostly an issue for single guys, but there might be some women or couples who has the same issue. Single guys are much less picky, than women/couples attractive or not in general. I don't mean the "every hole is a goal" type single guys. I like some women here with nice (online) personality. I like some women here with rough (online) personality. I don't like someone just because they are the hottest for most, and I don't like everyone who's hot for most. Regarding to body shape, I just care about the shape of the bum. I wouldn't put myself in the "all hole is a goal" category. I'm sure there's a lot of guys here thinking like me. Kind of forgot my point for this comment. Sorry about the length. | |||
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"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " I’m not Quasimodo, but I think your Notre DAMN hot!!! *you’re welcome | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD | |||
"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" I know to some I'm attractive and to others I'm not | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " *** Sometimes I'm making jokes about how handsome I am. Clearly using a big heap of sarcasm and people still making faces, or some even tells me I'm not. You can do/feel whatever you want. The question is how can you deal with people try to ruin that for you? Well, if you care what they say at all. | |||
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"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? *** Sometimes I'm making jokes about how handsome I am. Clearly using a big heap of sarcasm and people still making faces, or some even tells me I'm not. You can do/feel whatever you want. The question is how can you deal with people try to ruin that for you? Well, if you care what they say at all." If you put yourself up to be judged in anyway by this group you will receive a level amount of disdain, if you have good self esteem ride the wave don't look back as you ride off into the sunset | |||
"I know that my aesthetic appeals to a lot of people. Not to everyone. And I'm aware that my life is made easier by the fact that I look the way I do." Thank you for your honesty | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are? How does someone even answer this? I don't think I'm attractive, I don't think I'm beautiful. I don't turn heads when I walk down the street but I can name people that do. Always the one that's not seen. Personality wise. How can I even judge that? *** " I don't turn heads when I walk down the street " You must have the largest gay or blind community in the UK. Maybe a lot of married guy with their wife on their side, watching them where they look. " You've never met me or seen my face so your comment is null and void | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " Neither is ok! It's stuck up. | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " 17 There's no answer to that | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? " If you're putting out to your "value" or lower you're fine. If you're not you're stuck up. | |||
"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are? How does someone even answer this? I don't think I'm attractive, I don't think I'm beautiful. I don't turn heads when I walk down the street but I can name people that do. Always the one that's not seen. Personality wise. How can I even judge that? *** " I don't turn heads when I walk down the street " You must have the largest gay or blind community in the UK. Maybe a lot of married guy with their wife on their side, watching them where they look. *** You've never met me or seen my face so your comment is null and void " *** Err...Sorry | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I’m not Quasimodo, but I think your Notre DAMN hot!!! *you’re welcome " Smooth and an excellent play on words. | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD" But is it ok to self validate regardless of whether we receive it externally? | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? *** Sometimes I'm making jokes about how handsome I am. Clearly using a big heap of sarcasm and people still making faces, or some even tells me I'm not. You can do/feel whatever you want. The question is how can you deal with people try to ruin that for you? Well, if you care what they say at all." I think it's best to not care | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD But is it ok to self validate regardless of whether we receive it externally?" I think it would save an awful lot of issues if people could self validate. However, it is actually a truly difficult thing to do MrsAbz | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? Neither is ok! It's stuck up. " my brother Quasi agrees | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? 17 There's no answer to that " There's not is there | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? If you're putting out to your "value" or lower you're fine. If you're not you're stuck up. " Thought so | |||
"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD But is it ok to self validate regardless of whether we receive it externally? I think it would save an awful lot of issues if people could self validate. However, it is actually a truly difficult thing to do MrsAbz " It certainly is especially if you're caught in the 'be confident but not too confident ' trap | |||
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"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD But is it ok to self validate regardless of whether we receive it externally?" It’s absolutely ok to self validate, others may not agree but what does that matter? | |||
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"General question. Is it ok for people to feel confident and good about how they look even if the rest of the world thinks they look like Quasimodos's ugly sister? Or are we only allowed to feel beautiful if other people think we are? I think for some beauty comes from within themselves, for others they very much rely on external validation. The former is healthier than the latter. Mr DD But is it ok to self validate regardless of whether we receive it externally? It’s absolutely ok to self validate, others may not agree but what does that matter?" It matters not one jot in my opinion. I suppose that's the point of self validation really | |||
"Yeah, they’ll know. They will be aware that they turn heads wherever they go, it's how they deal with this that can make them attractive. They will most probably roll their eyes when told they are beautiful on this site by someone who has never clapped eyes on them. " *tries clapping her eyes* | |||
"Yeah, they’ll know. They will be aware that they turn heads wherever they go, it's how they deal with this that can make them attractive. They will most probably roll their eyes when told they are beautiful on this site by someone who has never clapped eyes on them. *tries clapping her eyes*" Did you succeed? | |||
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"Yeah, they’ll know. They will be aware that they turn heads wherever they go, it's how they deal with this that can make them attractive. They will most probably roll their eyes when told they are beautiful on this site by someone who has never clapped eyes on them. *tries clapping her eyes*" | |||
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"I think they are aware. Certainly they would have been told several times in person. They have the benefit of having lots of people constantly hit on them, compliment them etc. So would have an idea even if they didn't have the confidence to back it up. On here I'm pretty sure women constantly get told that even if the person making the comment didn't believe it. That said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. " You can be told constantly but surely thats dependent on the source, watching guys on here moving down the list of females saying same thing. Hate the shallowness.... im more that what i look like. | |||
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"Sometimes I can look good, sometimes I can look fucking terrible. What matters is that I'm happy with me." But seriously, you're pretty fit though... | |||
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"I’ve never met anyone who is beautiful or attractive who admits to knowing they are." *** I met some who literally got upset, if not every single guy fancied her. | |||
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"I’ve never met anyone who is beautiful or attractive who admits to knowing they are. *** I met some who literally got upset, if not every single guy fancied her. " That’s why reliance on external validation is a bad thing. | |||
"I take fab compliments with a cellar of salt Real life compliments make my toes curl " . Some of the compliments on fab are so crass in messages | |||
"Sometimes I can look good, sometimes I can look fucking terrible. What matters is that I'm happy with me." And you look good. | |||
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"I’ve never met anyone who is beautiful or attractive who admits to knowing they are. *** I met some who literally got upset, if not every single guy fancied her. That’s why reliance on external validation is a bad thing." *** It was a bit different situation,than you think. P.G. comes into the kitchen in the summer. I'm tired, but still funny(ish). P.G: "I'm so hot" Me: "You look alright" P.G: " Are you joking?!!! Look at this face and this body!!! I'm gorgeous!!! Thankfully I got an order, so I had a reason to walk away. She was usually really basic with most of us (that's good enough at work), but extremely flirty and sometimes even intimidating, when she wanted free food. She had a pretty face with average body. | |||
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"I’ve never met anyone who is beautiful or attractive who admits to knowing they are. *** I met some who literally got upset, if not every single guy fancied her. That’s why reliance on external validation is a bad thing." Eventually external validation in your looks fades away anyway. Also if you appear to be confident in how you look and consider yourself attractive people are only to happy to ensure that you know they think you're not all that. | |||
"Unfortunately a lot of us women don't realise how beautiful we are. I wish I'd known how hot I was in my 20's!" So agree with this! MrsAbz | |||
"Unfortunately a lot of us women don't realise how beautiful we are. I wish I'd known how hot I was in my 20's! So agree with this! MrsAbz " When you’re young you’re particularly susceptible to taking too much notice of what others, especially those of the opposite sex, say about us. And women especially have not been looked on kindly for being confident in their looks and sexuality in the past. | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know you’re attractive if you are?" Yes we are aware hahaha One does not look this handsome & not be aware knickers drop when I step into the room! it’s science | |||
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"Pretty privilege is the highest privilege " Class privilege is pleased you didn't notice it. | |||
"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" Fully? Fully what? Are you trying to say “fugly” ? Cause that’s kinda mean. | |||
"Pretty privilege is the highest privilege Class privilege is pleased you didn't notice it." | |||
"Pretty privilege is the highest privilege " the girls that get it, get it. The girls that don’t, don’t. | |||
"Pretty privilege is the highest privilege Class privilege is pleased you didn't notice it." Fuck class privilege Give me pretty privilege any day | |||
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"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are?" Hi op. What is your definition of beautiful? We are not all beautiful as I been on end of many a horrible message. Attractive what is this attractive you talk of? I cannot be attracted to those people who here for other reasons. Mentally speaking not looks. As many have faces hidden or profiles.Mine is to stop trolls messaging me. Attractive.. No. Beautiful.. No. My experience this year trashed but I perservere because those who chose to not be beautiful know who they are,and,I will not be put off. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder always | |||
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"Sometimes I can look good, sometimes I can look fucking terrible. What matters is that I'm happy with me. And you look good. " Cici made you say that didn't she ?? | |||
"That they are attractive? Those that are average or fully seem actutley aware. Do you know your attractive if you are? Hi op. What is your definition of beautiful? We are not all beautiful as I been on end of many a horrible message. Attractive what is this attractive you talk of? I cannot be attracted to those people who here for other reasons. Mentally speaking not looks. As many have faces hidden or profiles.Mine is to stop trolls messaging me. Attractive.. No. Beautiful.. No. My experience this year trashed but I perservere because those who chose to not be beautiful know who they are,and,I will not be put off. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder always" I thought all the things people have said would come up, beauty comes from within, eye of the beholder, we are all beautiful, personality makes you beautiful etc and I agree with all of those things. I would define that as attraction though. Im talking about those that you may not find attractive but their looks cannot be denied. I think there are people that we can all agree a just are just blessed to be attractive. They may have nothing more to them and you may not find them attractive but you couldn't argue they arent beautiful. I see it all the time even as a straight man I'll see a guy and that guy is a really good looking, tall, etc I wonder if he knows it. Same with I see lots of beautiful women in my gym, undeniably gorgeous but do nothing for me. Not sure if that explains it, sorry. | |||