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By (user no longer on site) OP 51 weeks ago
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Have you been on an agreed upon social only meet, found you get on like a house of fire, and been tempted to tease and tempt the person to see if they can resist you?
How far would you go if you had an agreement for a social only?
Could you wait until next time you could meet, or desperately find yourself doing the deed with them then and there? |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Well if I liked the person I would travel the length off the country even just for a social
as far as lengths go
Depends on how I am feeling
There been times where have waited till the next time
There’s been times where I booked a hotel and we skipped off for the rest off the day / night
And there’s been times where they were hot but wasn’t feeling the spark at all while we had drinks new that ones part ways we wouldn’t meet again
But they were hot so quickly in a bogs or someware has been approted and a thanks
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By *eliWoman 51 weeks ago
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Yep, several times. I've not done anything sexual the first time I've met someone for a good few years now.
And that works for me. I love teasing people, seeing how they respond, leaning in to that irresistible chemistry just enough to have them thinking about when we're next going to be spending time together.
I love the way someone's eyes can darken when I say a particular thing or touch their thighs, like they're trying to work out how quickly they can devour me. That little shift in energy when I can feel they really do want me.
I am more than happy to wait for the next time I see them. That sexual anticipation makes me want someone more. And I love being desired. |
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By *eliWoman 51 weeks ago
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"I wouldn't behave like that. It's too much blurring of boundaries and sending an unclear message "
I think it depends on if you're clear in your communication beforehand. I like flirting and teasing people and wouldn't meet those who didn't reciprocate/weren't interested in that side of things. I do make it known that I'm happy to kiss and flirt but I'd never have sex the first time.
People are happy with that and I've never yet been told I've sent mixed signals. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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For me a social is just that. Yes you can flirt but if you agree nothing else in advance then I uphold that.
Maybe that for me is the difference between swinging and sex.
That swinging isn’t necessarily just about the sex… |
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