I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.
I don't want a hairy man
I don't want a man in tracksuits
I don't want a dad bod
I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.
Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.
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A negative preference is easier than a positive.
Take the I don’t want tracksuits
What is the opposite of this?
I want someone who wears a suit Monday to Friday, jeans on a weekend and shorts in the evening
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"So you don't want people saying they don't want.  "
Try flipping on its head. And put a list of likes and desires that's all. As soon as I see must have face pic to a profile pic of heels is is besides me.
Like mentioned earlier I would much rather a convo see if things flow well. |
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"I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.
I don't want a hairy man
I don't want a man in tracksuits
I don't want a dad bod
I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.
Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.
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You don't want people saying what they dont want? You don't want........
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The only thing we ask for is that you consider us both when sending a message.
The rest is open as we don’t really want people jumping through hoops. But at the same time, I’d prefer if only people we really want to meet only message us 
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I like negative…. I use it as a filter.
Cheesy!!!
Lina. "
It’s true though, everything we read on here we take in, in a positive way or negative way. We will judge even if we don’t care to admit it.
For every profile I’ve read that projects they are really negative about all this, I just assume we won’t get along, and I won’t message. It’s that simple.
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"I find is so off putting seeing a profile full of I don't wants.
I don't want a hairy man
I don't want a man in tracksuits
I don't want a dad bod
I'm a firm believer in you get what you put out to the universe.
Try telling the folks of fab what you do want.
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I actually find all that a turn on because then I get to mouth silently at my screen..."It's your loss" and if I'm really aroused I might even whisper "I don't want you either". |
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Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it. |
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"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it. "
Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.
But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.
I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them |
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"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it.
Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.
But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.
I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them"
I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".
It's never worked |
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"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it.
Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.
But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.
I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them
I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".
It's never worked "
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt. |
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"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it.
Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.
But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.
I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them
I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".
It's never worked
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt."
I’ve had people swear blind they don’t smoke then turn up smelling smokey |
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"Probably on the hopes that people actually read their profile first and dont waste eithers time and don't get inundated with crap messages.
But that still doesn't work does it.
Indeed. The barrage of stupid messages can be disheartening.
But it doesn't matter what you put on the profile, really, as a woman. Anyone who sends stupid messages hasn't read it.
I have some don'ts. It deters those who do read it, and is an easy filter for those who ignore them
I think my one don't is " don't be a cunt ".
It's never worked
"Won't meet smokers" doesn't work. An explanation of why no smokers and vapers sometimes works. Anyone who disregards that (I explain it's for my health) is definitely a cunt.
I’ve had people swear blind they don’t smoke then turn up smelling smokey "
Yup. Cigarette smoke gives me nosebleeds. My nasal lining starts to hurt before I register the smell.
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