"If you had sex and they climaxed and you didn’t and you felt disappointed, would you let them try again?…..
asking for a friend   "
It's usually the person who has climaxed that feels disappointed in the fact they haven't been able to reciprocate.
So a friend told me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Is climaxing together important part of sex?
If you did not climax together is something you hold against them?
Maybe the mind was elsewhere shagging someone you know who makes you climax.. Who knows only you know that answer
Climax every mountain  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I (Jack) wouldn't feel disappointed in the slightest. People who treat sex like it's all about the orgasm are completely missing out. "
Oooh. Whats it about then? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I remember the first time I reconnected with someone after a few years and he kept edging himself and then got that stupid mental block on it. I knew it wasn't my fault but I still felt like a massive disappointment and was worried that it would matter.
It didn't. We still both had an amazing time together and continue to do so  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I rarely cum through sex.
So more often than not the other person pops, but I don't.
I felt disappointment at first, but I quickly grew out of that.
I'm more likely to feel a sense of disappointment if I'm not able to make them cum, but I also understand how it isn't the biggest deal through my own struggles with reaching the big O... and I know I don't care (much) if I don't cum. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Wouldn't bother me, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.
With meets it's very rare for me to orgasm unless the Mr has done it.
It doesn't bother me in the slightest but it does bother me if they keep trying to make me cum, I can have amazing sex without the orgasm & the added pressure of "them" wanting me to cum just makes it impossible when they make a point of it.
Mrs |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"If you had sex and they climaxed and you didn’t and you felt disappointed, would you let them try again?…..
asking for a friend "
It’s easy to say things like ‘sex isn’t just orgasms’ but I think the point here is the part about feeling disappointed.
If the sex was disappointing (for any reason, not just the climax reason) then maybe you *don’t* want to go there again. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
For me, it doesn't really matter if I do or don't, because I don't very often. It's more about the whole experience.
I don't know if it would ever stop anyone coming back, if they couldn't make me cum, they're still getting theirs. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Nah.
It's never bothered me if I didn't climax, so long as my partner enjoyed it.
I'm a giver..."
I liken it to the dry humping snogging you used to do …. And I still like. Just a proper grope and fumble with each other for the sake of enjoying their body. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Nah.
It's never bothered me if I didn't climax, so long as my partner enjoyed it.
I'm a giver...
I liken it to the dry humping snogging you used to do …. And I still like. Just a proper grope and fumble with each other for the sake of enjoying their body. "
I love that I does  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This is going to be cliche as fuck but as long as they're satisfied, I tend to be fairly happy, although if I was on the edge and they said they were done as I was about to cum, I woukd bebrather miffed  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *eliWoman
over a year ago
. |
Erm... it would be really difficult for me not to climax if we had sex (a general we).
I do think there's a lot of unnecessary pressure surrounding orgasms. That if you don't have multi as a woman you're somehow failing. If you don't come you're somehow broken. Coming too quickly or not soon enough.
I think people should come, or not come, as they are. Do away with this idea that orgasms signify the level of enjoyment shared between two or more people. This coming from a woman who loves... come. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
