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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women are complex creatures. Men are generally (not a rule!) More superficial.
Women are more likely to be attracted to more than looks. Personality, humor, wealth.
Men just like tits |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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All the things that are for more important to a sustainable relationship than simple aesthetics  |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Not sure how to answer that:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, maybe?
Or maybe, you and I should be glad that they will?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you look at trump it must be money as he has fek all going for him. "
Financial stability is a desirable trait. He is capable of being a provider, which some people would find attractive. That and his luscious locks |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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He said the right things probably!
In long term relationships my guessing is the guy GRAFTED but I do have to admit I agree with OP sometimes - you can see absolute model looking type 20 something's verifications are...well not what you would expect... |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Money, safety, home, comfort, wit, wisdom, charm, lifestyle... Or.. Who determines who is attractive or unattractive? Is there a scoville like scale of attractiveness that is universally accepted.? |
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Attraction is so much more than aesthetics. And no, I don't think it's always down to money. Flip it round - if we were discussing a couple with a more conventionally attractive man than woman - would the assumption be that he was in it for her money?
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"If you look at trump it must be money as he has fek all going for him.
Financial stability is a desirable trait. He is capable of being a provider, which some people would find attractive. That and his luscious locks "
And his golf courses, and pinky ring. |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Wow, that is so shallow, we are surprised anyone would want to spend time with you… Best of luck, you’re going to need it with that attitude! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
Wow, that is so shallow, we are surprised anyone would want to spend time with you… Best of luck, you’re going to need it with that attitude!"
Thanks for sharing your opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was attracted to him because the majority of the men today don't know what chivalry is. I am not a feminist some women are. I like old school chivalry. The charm and respect for one another. He is not handsome to some women but he is my world. Never argue we just get shit done. It's wonderful being on the same page writing the paragraphs together about life. I am not a model by any means. But he is mine and I am his. Everyone else can fuckoff if they don't like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Define unattractive?
I just know I am not created to fuck everyone and vice versa but no one is unattractive. Suitor or not to be suited.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The women who are dating them obviously don’t think they’re unattractive.
Everyone’s taste is different. Thankfully."
Erm ok.. cos I ain't exactly Brad Pitt. I've got on with a woman for a month now. Get on like a house on fire, swapped numbers, chatted for 5 hours on the phone , showed me her face pics and decides she wants to meet me after she's seen my pics on my profile. Brad Pitt I ain't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You may find the same man she finds attractive, unattractive but does it matter? She is the one with the man and not you.
Why does it bother you so much? If the couple is happy, I’d be happy for them. |
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A kind soul shines through and is more attractive than the sharpest of cheekbones or chiselled of jaw.
Intelligence and wit are worth more than millions in the bank.
And loyalty is the greatest kind of security.
Not that I’m saying I’m in the league of “attractive” women. But those are the attractive qualities to me. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I was attracted to him because the majority of the men today don't know what chivalry is. I am not a feminist some women are. I like old school chivalry. The charm and respect for one another. He is not handsome to some women but he is my world. Never argue we just get shit done. It's wonderful being on the same page writing the paragraphs together about life. I am not a model by any means. But he is mine and I am his. Everyone else can fuckoff if they don't like it."
Best partner is one you can rely on in advertisy... Nothing like someone who is on your side |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
Define unattractive?
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Cmeasy peasy.. check my pics out  |
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"The women who are dating them obviously don’t think they’re unattractive.
Everyone’s taste is different. Thankfully.
Erm ok.. cos I ain't exactly Brad Pitt. I've got on with a woman for a month now. Get on like a house on fire, swapped numbers, chatted for 5 hours on the phone , showed me her face pics and decides she wants to meet me after she's seen my pics on my profile. Brad Pitt I ain't "
For a bloke of 60 you are quite good looking. Brad Pitt must be quite wrinkley by now anyway... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A kind soul shines through and is more attractive than the sharpest of cheekbones or chiselled of jaw.
Intelligence and wit are worth more than millions in the bank.
And loyalty is the greatest kind of security.
Not that I’m saying I’m in the league of “attractive” women. But those are the attractive qualities to me."
Spoken like a true wordsmith.
Youre on the way to becoming a female Nero. Neroette? |
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There's often a disparity between dating and sex. I have a friend who's quite a lot younger than me, she likes much much older guys sexually but would never want to date one. For others sex with someone really attractive for one offs is great bc often aesthetics is what really matters but for dating what is desirable goes way beyond that. I know for my last long term partner had I met him on Tinder I wouldn't have swiped right. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You may find the same man she finds attractive, unattractive but does it matter? She is the one with the man and not you.
Why does it bother you so much? If the couple is happy, I’d be happy for them. "
Erm thanks. The couple is her and me. Potential couple that is.
Btw why is there constant vitreous replies so abundant on the forums in general? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lucky you
Not me.
I think I've smashed Morris walked under ladderz and black cats refuse to cross my path 
I wondered why Morris was walking funny "
Oops mirrors haha |
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"If these benevolent creatures, who harbour such fragile hearts, didn't accommodate the mundane-looking fellows (me), I would be a full time resident in a monastery."
Are a Benedictine or a Cistercian? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If these benevolent creatures, who harbour such fragile hearts, didn't accommodate the mundane-looking fellows (me), I would be a full time resident in a monastery.
Are a Benedictine or a Cistercian? "
Benedictine.. they drink alcohol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The women who are dating them obviously don’t think they’re unattractive.
Everyone’s taste is different. Thankfully.
Erm ok.. cos I ain't exactly Brad Pitt. I've got on with a woman for a month now. Get on like a house on fire, swapped numbers, chatted for 5 hours on the phone , showed me her face pics and decides she wants to meet me after she's seen my pics on my profile. Brad Pitt I ain't
For a bloke of 60 you are quite good looking. Brad Pitt must be quite wrinkley by now anyway..."
Thanks. (£10 in the post to you as agreed) lol |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"There's often a disparity between dating and sex. I have a friend who's quite a lot younger than me, she likes much much older guys sexually but would never want to date one. For others sex with someone really attractive for one offs is great bc often aesthetics is what really matters but for dating what is desirable goes way beyond that. I know for my last long term partner had I met him on Tinder I wouldn't have swiped right."
Sometimes... Horses for courses |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Erm ok.. cos I ain't exactly Brad Pitt. I've got on with a woman for a month now. Get on like a house on fire, swapped numbers, chatted for 5 hours on the phone , showed me her face pics and decides she wants to meet me after she's seen my pics on my profile. Brad Pitt I ain't "
Then you are her Brad Pitt. |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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They do say opposites attract and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Women find confident men with a good demeanour and mannerisms attractive.
There are many who like sex with much older men but might not be interested in dating them out of the scene. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
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Erm ok.. cos I ain't exactly Brad Pitt. I've got on with a woman for a month now. Get on like a house on fire, swapped numbers, chatted for 5 hours on the phone , showed me her face pics and decides she wants to meet me after she's seen my pics on my profile. Brad Pitt I ain't
Then you are her Brad Pitt."
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
They do say opposites attract and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Women find confident men with a good demeanour and mannerisms attractive.
There are many who like sex with much older men but might not be interested in dating them out of the scene. "
Please direct those that like sex with older men towards me |
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"Attraction is so much more than aesthetics. And no, I don't think it's always down to money. Flip it round - if we were discussing a couple with a more conventionally attractive man than woman - would the assumption be that he was in it for her money?
Some might be if he knows she is minted.
Mrs TMN x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like us average fellas have a chance after all!
Thanks to this thread, I never would have known either 
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No mate, we are screwed
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Getting "screwed" is the end objective, surely?"
in what way ? |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"Sounds like us average fellas have a chance after all!
Thanks to this thread, I never would have known either
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No mate, we are screwed
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Getting "screwed" is the end
objective, surely? in what way ?"
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"Sounds like us average fellas have a chance after all!
Thanks to this thread, I never would have known either
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No mate, we are screwed
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Getting "screwed" is the end objective, surely?
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in what way ?"
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There's more than one way??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was attracted to him because the majority of the men today don't know what chivalry is. I am not a feminist some women are. I like old school chivalry. The charm and respect for one another. He is not handsome to some women but he is my world. Never argue we just get shit done. It's wonderful being on the same page writing the paragraphs together about life. I am not a model by any means. But he is mine and I am his. Everyone else can fuckoff if they don't like it."
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Contrary to Fab folklore it's not all about looks. I've been punching on and off for 35 years
This also works the other way around and sometimes the man is much more attractive physically of course. Also I think what happens often with couples that have been together for many years is that they might well have been broadly similar in pure looks years ago but have "aged" differently. One has put on weight, one hasn't. One exercises and eats well. The other drinks and smokes a lot etc. One genetically is more likely to get wrinkles and one less so, etc. Over many years people can diverge a lot physically but still love eachother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see guys 20-30 years older then me. Primarily because I appreciate what they liked about women 20-30 years ago.
I’m not woke, I’m open to sggretiveness, I like being an object to older guys etc…"
Dam! I’m too young at 45!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Big dongs, big wallets, big personality's, big hearts, big presence...
How about they are just great guys all around and opposites can attract?? "
Damn right!! You tell them about how charming us fuglies can be!!!  |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"I see guys 20-30 years older then me. Primarily because I appreciate what they liked about women 20-30 years ago.
I’m not woke, I’m open to sggretiveness, I like being an object to older guys etc…
Dam! I’m too young at 45!!"
Bi to... Im fucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love letters in the morning just because.Dancing in the kitchen just because. Holding hands just because saying I look beautiful even though I know I look like a Trainwreck. Listening to what I have to say and actually understand. Be spontaneous. We might hate it but it is always fun. |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Because what is attractive is not universal, nor is stereotypical good looks particular important to most people in a long term relationship. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder."
So all this nice boobs and lovely arse must be a load of bull  |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
When I was 26 I met a guy who was 23 years older than me. We worked together...from the moment we met the chemistry between us was electric. The banter was always outstanding and for two half years he was my best friend and the first guy I had an open relationship with which I loved.
Non of his other birds knew about me, but I knew about all of them. And he knew about my other guys..he used to laugh and ask who's heart I'd broken this week.
There was mutual respect, no mind games and playing silly cunts..our time together was ours and there was no secrets about other people between us. He loved my wild no fucks to give attitude to life, and I adored him for it.
We used to do all the couple type things together, meals out, shopping, pubs, stay in cooking etc but neither of us would commit to each other. I don't know why, but it just worked. Maybe because we were cut from the same cloth. Looking back we'd have made cracking swingers lol
Aesthetically he wasn't much to look at. Proper dad bod and he only had one leg and needed viagra to get it up. He had a good job, but was up to his knickers in debt. But I had the time of my life with him.
All of his friends when they met me asked how the hell did he pull me. Money/looks never came into it. It was pure chemistry with that person.
I do love eye candy, but chemistry always wins me over |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because we all have a different idea of what attractive is.
Because the more you like someone the more attractive they become in your eyes (and vice versa).
Because what men are sold as "peak male appearance" only appeals to a percentage of women, not all.
And personally, because I like the whole person and how they make me feel. Not just how they look. I enjoy how conversation flows and they make me laugh, how they treat me and make time for me, make me feel safe and sexy, and that sparkle in their eyes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because we all have a different idea of what attractive is.
Because the more you like someone the more attractive they become in your eyes (and vice versa).
Because what men are sold as "peak male appearance" only appeals to a percentage of women, not all.
And personally, because I like the whole person and how they make me feel. Not just how they look. I enjoy how conversation flows and they make me laugh, how they treat me and make time for me, make me feel safe and sexy, and that sparkle in their eyes.
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Thanks. When she showed me a pic of her after 6 weeks of chatting and getting on great plus a 5 hour phone chat and she'd already seen my pics I just got totally bamboozled "why me" syndrome.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Because we all have a different idea of what attractive is.
Because the more you like someone the more attractive they become in your eyes (and vice versa).
Because what men are sold as "peak male appearance" only appeals to a percentage of women, not all.
And personally, because I like the whole person and how they make me feel. Not just how they look. I enjoy how conversation flows and they make me laugh, how they treat me and make time for me, make me feel safe and sexy, and that sparkle in their eyes.
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I asked her if she'd been to spec savers and she was just laughing |
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If you don't find men attractive, you are probably only looking at 1 dimension of physical details. We can find many more physical aspects attractive, not to mention the many invisible aspects of a person |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Most people don’t see the “attractive” within themselves….. you always tend to be your own harshest critic
Only ever see their worst and never see their best
I just wish more people would see it as “well I must have something” even if you have no idea what the someone is…. That way we are not looking at negatives |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Attractiveness, beauty etc are all in the eye of the beholder.
I think sometimes you can come across people and say oh I wouldn't have put those two together but at the end of the day, they chose each other for whatever reasons. I think for most people they want a spark for sure but the personality will win out most times.
Who wants to be with a nightmare or someone who you do not find engaging. I know for myself I would rather go without than have to deal with that. Maybe they think the same. |
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If a woman is with a man in that way then she does find him attractive. Just because you may think his looks aren't what you expect her to be attracted to, that doesn't mean he is not attractive. He may make her laugh and/or feel good for example. |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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The man obviously isn't unattractive to the woman he's dating.
Believe it or not there's more to people than looks, personality and humour can make someone attractive
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women are complex creatures. Men are generally (not a rule!) More superficial.
Women are more likely to be attracted to more than looks. Personality, humor, wealth.
Men just like tits"
^^^^^^^ ("Men just like tits")....I agree with you....Some Men Only Though....& Some don't care what the person or body looks like....All they see is big tits & they'll fk anything once the tits are big ....I've seen it happen here & elsewhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who is to say what is attractive. Attractive to some is not to others, and good job as we’d all be attracted to the same people.
People have other qualities besides looks that make them attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen plenty of short, fat, gobby, foul-mouthed women with a Tom Hardy bf and wondered what the fuck he sees in her."
He's probably too scared to dump her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because we all have a different idea of what attractive is.
Because the more you like someone the more attractive they become in your eyes (and vice versa).
Because what men are sold as "peak male appearance" only appeals to a percentage of women, not all.
And personally, because I like the whole person and how they make me feel. Not just how they look. I enjoy how conversation flows and they make me laugh, how they treat me and make time for me, make me feel safe and sexy, and that sparkle in their eyes.
Thanks. When she showed me a pic of her after 6 weeks of chatting and getting on great plus a 5 hour phone chat and she'd already seen my pics I just got totally bamboozled "why me" syndrome.
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When will you meet her in person?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)? "
All women have massive egos and think any man - no matter how hot or hideous - would be grateful to sniff their hair? |
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)? "
Well as we know the media of all sorts have a massive impact in shaping opinions, information, behaviours and values. |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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If talking relationships Maybe they just like each other for who they are regardless of appearances , my most recent ex was probably the furthest from my type (not that I strictly have one) that I’d ever dated but her personality was absolutely amazing and inspired never before feelings felt in life I’d imagine these couples you see are the sane |
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)?
All women have massive egos and think any man - no matter how hot or hideous - would be grateful to sniff their hair?"
Depends if you used Timotei  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)?
All women have massive egos and think any man - no matter how hot or hideous - would be grateful to sniff their hair?
Depends if you used Timotei "
Guinness.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women essentially never age out of a child’s brain, so as long as you can make the good feelings keep coming, they’ll stick with him, even if he’s not super attractive, and even if he’s bad/toxic for her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women essentially never age out of a child’s brain, so as long as you can make the good feelings keep coming, they’ll stick with him, even if he’s not super attractive, and even if he’s bad/toxic for her "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)?
All women have massive egos and think any man - no matter how hot or hideous - would be grateful to sniff their hair?"
Sniff hair, mines washed in medicated shampoo as when cum goes on my hair it stinks |
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"Side note: isn’t it interesting that this is reflected in media (film and tv) too? Women settling (cba to think of a better word this early in the am) is such a thing in Tv and film. And what’s the consequence of only representing this one way (mostly)?
All women have massive egos and think any man - no matter how hot or hideous - would be grateful to sniff their hair?
Sniff hair, mines washed in medicated shampoo as when cum goes on my hair it stinks "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Unattractive by whose standards? Yours?
There lies the issue. Don’t just others by your standard. |
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
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Which category do you fall into?
I find wlmen are attracted to me, because i am authentic in myself, truthful about my wants, able to hold a civilised conversation, and quite funny at times.
Also i am very warm so a natural very huggable hot water bottle of a human. perfect for winter.
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
Which category do you fall into?
I find wlmen are attracted to me, because i am authentic in myself, truthful about my wants, able to hold a civilised conversation, and quite funny at times.
Also i am very warm so a natural very huggable hot water bottle of a human. perfect for winter.
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Modest too |
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attraction isn't surface deep I'd say I'm met some conventionally attractive men who I found very unattractive .
attraction in its most shallow form is based on looks and often not sustainable
personally relationship wise I'd say looks have seldom been a factor for me....
intelligence , wit, charm , sign me up |
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My late partner was 22 years older than me
It wasn't his looks I went for although he had a wonderful twinkle in his eye. It was his personality and the way he made me feel. He treated me like a princess.
Don't overthink it op you haven't even met her yet |
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Beauty or attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. For example some ladies don’t find the ‘pretty boy’ look attractive & love the rough & rugged type.
Likewise some men find ladies like ‘Cherly Cole & Kim K’ attractive & to me they are average looking . 1 person’s treasure is another’s chamber pot hahaha |
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Looks are in the eye of the beholder,also personality is a big thing for me….rather be with someone average with a great personality than a stunner with none. |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
They have to find something about the person attractive and beauty is only skin deep.
No good looking like a Calvin Klein model if you're just a gobshite on the inside.
Chances are the "unattractive" person has fantastic personality traits.
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"I don't get it at all why or what appeals to an attractive woman when dating or meeting unnatractive men ?
Which category do you fall into?
I find wlmen are attracted to me, because i am authentic in myself, truthful about my wants, able to hold a civilised conversation, and quite funny at times.
Also i am very warm so a natural very huggable hot water bottle of a human. perfect for winter.
Modest too "
Like i said, i am authentic in myself. no shame in that. |
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"Looks are in the eye of the beholder,also personality is a big thing for me….rather be with someone average with a great personality than a stunner with none."
hard facts.
Someone who is aesthetically a 10, but peronsality is 0 is a 0. Not even worth the pleasure i could provide if they had a better personality.
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"Looks are in the eye of the beholder,also personality is a big thing for me….rather be with someone average with a great personality than a stunner with none.
hard facts.
Someone who is aesthetically a 10, but peronsality is 0 is a 0. Not even worth the pleasure i could provide if they had a better personality.
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What about if she was a 2 personality but her tits were like an 11 |
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"There are loads of attractive woman with unattractive men on here ...I've shagged dozens and have any of the women told you why there with there guy ?"
I think you worded it wrong. |
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