My first fab meet was regrettable and crazy and dangerous and I left the site because of it.
I don't really regret any meets since but I do regret getting dragged into their personal drama with others because they met me or I met them whichever way you look at it.
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Only had one social here this far, but as far as meets elsewhere go...I did meet one crazy person and acquired a stalker. Which put me off pretty much any online interaction for about three years. So far, I just choose to think it educated me and made me more careful |
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"Only had one social here this far, but as far as meets elsewhere go...I did meet one crazy person and acquired a stalker. Which put me off pretty much any online interaction for about three years. So far, I just choose to think it educated me and made me more careful "
Plenty of time to find good folk though. Always good to be safe. In everything. Sorry to hear that you experienced a crazy time. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Only the first one. He was a feckin loon. Couldn’t get out of that coffee shop quick enough.
No issues since. "
Glad it wasn't just me that found the crazy |
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No regrets, but some of the first ones with couples were a bit silly. I was a bit naive to how pushy and coercive guys can be, didn’t do the groundwork but I learned how to filter them out through slightly unpleasant experiences |
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I'd been speaking to a woman on here all day, having a great to and fro kinky chat. We'd kikked some pics, briefly (and quietly) spoke on the phone. We arranged a quicky meet about midnight - i turned up outside an address she gave me, no sign that she was waiting. Messaged her, told her I was outside.
Alarm bells started to ring a little - I asked her to flash bedroom light or something, just to check I was at the right house. She said she couldn't (?!) told me she could see me (described me and my car) and to let me in to the house shed told me to meet at. I got to the door and had bad vibes. Rang her phone a couple of times, no answer. I decided to leave. She deleted her profile and never answered her phone again.
Was it someone on a wind up? I'm glad I didn't knock on the door. |
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