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Obviously most of us (guys) give a heads up seconds before cumming.
"I'm cumming!"
I also give a 5 minute pre warning.
(Unrelated, but I'm pre cumming a lot too)
Usually my final warning is like a minute before, incase I don't get the green light.
Still can stop the flood, if necessary.
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Ladies:
Do you like to know when you have 5 minutes to catch up?
Guys:
Do you give a 5 minute pre warning or just when you're about to cum?
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No, I'm not (too) weird.
I had an (older MILF) ex in my early sex life, who had her way to do things.
The aim was mostly to cum together, so she needed the 5 minute warning.
If she came early, then I could cum whenever.
This habit stuck with me since and unsure, if it's a good or a bad thing here.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I usually tell them if I'm close. Then I'm happy for them to either tell me to cum or probably switch positions to hold it off but always try to make sure they're fulfilled first.
Also, a 5 minute warning is insane!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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""think fast!" - shoot - "surprise mother fucker" - the end"
What he said! But he forgot the last bit, which is leg it down the stairs and dont close the door as you leave |
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By *eliWoman 52 weeks ago
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Five minutes is ridiculous. Do you actually do that? Five minutes? Fuck.
I like when people are vocal and tell me they're going to come.
I also, very occasionally, in very rare circumstances rather enjoy it when a man doesn't say anything but I can tell he's really close and then he fucks my throat as he's coming down it. Filling it as the room fills with the sounds of his pleasured groans. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Obviously most of us (guys) give a heads up seconds before cumming.
"I'm cumming!"
I also give a 5 minute pre warning.
(Unrelated, but I'm pre cumming a lot too)
Usually my final warning is like a minute before, incase I don't get the green light.
Still can stop the flood, if necessary.
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Ladies:
Do you like to know when you have 5 minutes to catch up?
Guys:
Do you give a 5 minute pre warning or just when you're about to cum?
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No, I'm not (too) weird.
I had an (older MILF) ex in my early sex life, who had her way to do things.
The aim was mostly to cum together, so she needed the 5 minute warning.
If she came early, then I could cum whenever.
This habit stuck with me since and unsure, if it's a good or a bad thing here.
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Do you think that is slightly OCD (coming from the bloke who counts his steps from the bus stop - see if I can get back in less steps than the previous time, has the distance shrunk!) |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Five minutes is ridiculous. Do you actually do that? Five minutes? Fuck.
I like when people are vocal and tell me they're going to come.
I also, very occasionally, in very rare circumstances rather enjoy it when a man doesn't say anything but I can tell he's really close and then he fucks my throat as he's coming down it. Filling it as the room fills with the sounds of his pleasured groans. "
Daaaaaaamn Meli!  |
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"Five minutes is ridiculous. Do you actually do that? Five minutes? Fuck.
I like when people are vocal and tell me they're going to come.
I also, very occasionally, in very rare circumstances rather enjoy it when a man doesn't say anything but I can tell he's really close and then he fucks my throat as he's coming down it. Filling it as the room fills with the sounds of his pleasured groans. "
I think ive errr come over all unnecessary... cold shower time lol |
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"I usually tell them if I'm close. Then I'm happy for them to either tell me to cum or probably switch positions to hold it off but always try to make sure they're fulfilled first.
Also, a 5 minute warning is insane! "
Not all hero's wear capes  |
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"If I were to give a 5 minute warning I’d still be undressing  lol
Don't forget to remove the socks!!! "
Those extra seconds might make the difference between me penetrating or the walk of shame to the bathroom |
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"If I were to give a 5 minute warning I’d still be undressing lol
Don't forget to remove the socks!!!
Those extra seconds might make the difference between me penetrating or the walk of shame to the bathroom "
Leave your socks on and you may as well throw a bucket of cold water over me  |
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I prefer to send a telegram to let someone know I’m coming.. it’s more polite!!
Seriously though … it is always good to pre warm … though just before, as the partner may not want it in the place where it currently is … if you get my point! … how can you gauge 5mins!
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"I usually tell them if I'm close. Then I'm happy for them to either tell me to cum or probably switch positions to hold it off but always try to make sure they're fulfilled first.
Also, a 5 minute warning is insane!
Not all hero's wear capes "
Or just courteous of who I'm having sex with. Either/or  |
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"Five minutes is ridiculous. Do you actually do that? Five minutes? Fuck.
I like when people are vocal and tell me they're going to come.
I also, very occasionally, in very rare circumstances rather enjoy it when a man doesn't say anything but I can tell he's really close and then he fucks my throat as he's coming down it. Filling it as the room fills with the sounds of his pleasured groans. "
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I only do the 5 minute warning, if she didn't cum yet.
I usually try to make her cum first during the foreplay, but that has a limit too.
When I licked for 20 minutes and my tongue goes numb, then we go to the main menu.
You wouldn't know when I'm about to cum, because I'm really hard all the way.
That's probably the only advantage of not being hung.
I usually know 5 minutes before I can cum.
If someone rides me or giving a BJ for completion, then that's a bit grey area.
I'm not in total control of my body then.
I'd fill your neighbours rooms as well with my pleasured growl.
Traffic would stop. People would get out of their cars, and looking around what just happened.
Some might call the police or the animal control.
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"Obviously most of us (guys) give a heads up seconds before cumming.
"I'm cumming!"
I also give a 5 minute pre warning.
(Unrelated, but I'm pre cumming a lot too)
Usually my final warning is like a minute before, incase I don't get the green light.
Still can stop the flood, if necessary.
***
Ladies:
Do you like to know when you have 5 minutes to catch up?
Guys:
Do you give a 5 minute pre warning or just when you're about to cum?
***
No, I'm not (too) weird.
I had an (older MILF) ex in my early sex life, who had her way to do things.
The aim was mostly to cum together, so she needed the 5 minute warning.
If she came early, then I could cum whenever.
This habit stuck with me since and unsure, if it's a good or a bad thing here.
Do you think that is slightly OCD (coming from the bloke who counts his steps from the bus stop - see if I can get back in less steps than the previous time, has the distance shrunk!)"
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It's not an urge.
It's courtesy to the ladies.
I must please or I feel selfish.
All liked it in real life, but obviously it's a different world here. |
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How do you know you are going to cum in 5 mins
I think I know maybe 30 seconds away.
C loves to know and is multi orgasmic anyway so it’s easier to coordinate but she loves to know as it excites her more…
K |
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"I couldn't give them a 5 minute warning but it is always polite to ask "is mummy ready for her yummy cummy?""
Stop stealing my orgasm ruining phrases
As a general rule, I already know when someone is about to cum. But sometimes I really enjoy being told they're going to cum right down my fucking throat  |
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"How do you know you are going to cum in 5 mins
I think I know maybe 30 seconds away.
C loves to know and is multi orgasmic anyway so it’s easier to coordinate but she loves to know as it excites her more…
K"
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I can hold it easily for 5 more minutes when I'm about to cum.
That's how I know.
As I mentioned, riding and BJ is different.
I have less control like that.
I used to be able to fuck for over an hour. Not including the foreplay.
It would be around 20 minutes now, because I'm rusty a little bit.
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"I couldn't give them a 5 minute warning but it is always polite to ask "is mummy ready for her yummy cummy?"
Stop stealing my orgasm ruining phrases
As a general rule, I already know when someone is about to cum. But sometimes I really enjoy being told they're going to cum right down my fucking throat "
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Can I ask how do you know?
Just curious, because not every man is the same and women say different things about this. |
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This will make you laugh. I know when I’m getting close, however there was this woman who was going down on me at the club. She was really good so much so I was about to cum imminently. I just pulled away so I didn’t cum in her mouth. It was at that point she realised and said I could have cum on her tits. It was too late as I came in my hand. I did wipe my hand over her boob though. |
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"I have never had the level of control that is implied in some of these posts. I can’t in any meaningful way delay or prevent my orgasm. I guess I’m not wired right, somehow."
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It's not wiring, it's training.
I used to have a MILF in my 20's.
She was awesome, but had some issues with orgasm.
She's the reason I could last long.
Kind of waited for her often, then I got used to it.
My last ex kind of ruined my special powers.
I guess it's still there, but I'd need someone regular to get back to that level. |
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"Can I ask how do you know?
Just curious, because not every man is the same and women say different things about this."
Body language. Everyone has tells. As a general rule I'm only invested in an orgasm if I'm already invested in the person, so I'll already have a pretty good understanding of how to read them.
I might occasionally be surprised with a one off at a club. But even then if I'm feeding off the energy they're giving and most times it's still very clear to me |
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"This will make you laugh. I know when I’m getting close, however there was this woman who was going down on me at the club. She was really good so much so I was about to cum imminently. I just pulled away so I didn’t cum in her mouth. It was at that point she realised and said I could have cum on her tits. It was too late as I came in my hand. I did wipe my hand over her boob though. "
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I pulled out from BJ with my last ONS.
Kind of hit her eye when my cock bounced back.
She was good, but I wanted give her something as well.
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"Can I ask how do you know?
Just curious, because not every man is the same and women say different things about this.
Body language. Everyone has tells. As a general rule I'm only invested in an orgasm if I'm already invested in the person, so I'll already have a pretty good understanding of how to read them.
I might occasionally be surprised with a one off at a club. But even then if I'm feeding off the energy they're giving and most times it's still very clear to me "
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Can't see the body language, if the guy is behind you.
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"Can I ask how do you know?
Just curious, because not every man is the same and women say different things about this.
Body language. Everyone has tells. As a general rule I'm only invested in an orgasm if I'm already invested in the person, so I'll already have a pretty good understanding of how to read them.
I might occasionally be surprised with a one off at a club. But even then if I'm feeding off the energy they're giving and most times it's still very clear to me
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Can't see the body language, if the guy is behind you.
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Can feel the body language and the energy they're putting out though |
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