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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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This does happen with sone woman as well. Statistically I don’t know the comparison percentages but it does happen, but weirdly makes me question if they are catfishes |
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Sorry sometimes us guys are bad. I like to go slow and respect but have to be honest easy to get carried away sometimes. Some women are even worse - especially if in a group. Can be very crude and grope you |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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It’s not just men it’s everyone. I get crude and rude messages from females everyday. They just can’t be bothered reading my profile it’s awful, ruining my life
"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. "
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. "
Good idea. Just block em. 
I don’t mind when women do it, it sets the tone  |
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Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you  |
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It's often due to their need for wank fodder, as not all people are looking to meet.
Otherwise, Fab reflects the huge diversity of people. There's lots of choice, so having people show they're not compatible or really are, is very helpful  |
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. "
I think they let themselves down coming on when they're already horny.
I get a few "do you want to meet now"? Messages and think really, does it seem like I'm sat indoors twiddling my thumbs  It's ridiculous |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you "
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. |
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. "
Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"It’s not just men it’s everyone. I get crude and rude messages from females everyday. They just can’t be bothered reading my profile it’s awful, ruining my life
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Damn, what am I doing wrong, I dont get any of those messages and my inbox is open! |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly "
Yes ! Sorbets in the summer. Custards in the winter.
Though i like cold custard and banana. Actually what a picture |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
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But the sand will get in all the little cracks.
Now if we are talking desserts, what type? trifle? lots of custard? will there be alcohol in it? how about sticky toffee pudding? Please don't limit it to women, I am quite hungry now. |
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
Oooh if it was custard maybe! Or jelly
Yes ! Sorbets in the summer. Custards in the winter.
Though i like cold custard and banana. Actually what a picture "
I'll meet you there, I'll bring spoons |
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Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
But the sand will get in all the little cracks.
Now if we are talking desserts, what type? trifle? lots of custard? will there be alcohol in it? how about sticky toffee pudding? Please don't limit it to women, I am quite hungry now. "
I love trifle! Oooh lump it all in, not fussy  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining. "
How frightfully spiffing of you, now be most indecent and suck my custsrd-covered cock |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I don't get the crudeness that other people seem to have. I feel like I'm missing out.  "
Get yourself on your knees so I blow my bollock batter all over your face. |
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"Get so crude so quickly? They don't know their audience so why do it? Instablock from me. "
Its because most men not all have sex on the brain 24/7 and they think that you do to hence the pics and the crude chat |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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If I’m honest I find it tiring that “men” get all the negativity directed towards them on here.
Whilst the percentages may not be as high any group of people on here are equally capable of being disrespectful to each other.
I totally accept that men send things that are “awful” and I really hope they would not say it to someone’s face but this is not just limited to men on here.
I reported a profile that was sending my private photos I had sent them to others both on and off the site |
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If women are not interested, they can be very rude. Of course it's not okay to be rude back, but there's the "why".
There are way more single men on this website than women or couples, but that doesn't mean only the men are terrible. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Because they don't see people they see words and images on a screen and think we can be used for their own pleasures
I got asked if I would wrestle with another woman!
Er no - oh, why not? - if you have to ask then it's a waste of my crayons trying to explain it to you
Oh I've never been asked to wrestle a woman.
Totally up for that if it involves rolling around in desert's! Pity my kness are buggered.
The majority are crude men. When women get crude with me i get a nervous giggle.
Intelligent crudesness can be highly entertaining.
How frightfully spiffing of you, now be most indecent and suck my custsrd-covered cock "
Like i say, my kness are shot |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Someone say custard? 
You sploshing again? 
Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it "
The words every man wants to hear. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Someone say custard?
You sploshing again?
Ya know, I don’t know if I could cope with doing anything other than eating it
The words every man wants to hear. "
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them. |
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"You would be mortified at some of the vacuous crass that sullies my Inbøx: women are no different.
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You could have just told me to stop
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I'm not quite ready for you to stop. Yet. "
Not cum yet?
Oops... can't help myself |
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them."
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying. |
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"If I’m honest I find it tiring that “men” get all the negativity directed towards them on here.
Whilst the percentages may not be as high any group of people on here are equally capable of being disrespectful to each other.
I totally accept that men send things that are “awful” and I really hope they would not say it to someone’s face but this is not just limited to men on here.
I reported a profile that was sending my private photos I had sent them to others both on and off the site "
How did you find out that was going on? |
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Agree with Anakne, a polite message saying sorry but we think your not what we are looking for, is our response, then it’s usually block the fuckers if they persist lol. Doesn’t happen often to be fair though. |
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I often get the crap erotic fiction, which is usually quite crude. My reply to that is usually "tldr"
Anything else just gets blocked.
Not had anyone have a mantrum recently when I've said no thanks. |
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"This does happen with sone woman as well. Statistically I don’t know the comparison percentages but it does happen, but weirdly makes me question if they are catfishes "
This has never happened with anyone I’ve ever met. I’ve only ever had a small number of people, mainly couples ask to see my cock. I’m always happy to send them a pic of a huge Rhode Island Red. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"If I’m honest I find it tiring that “men” get all the negativity directed towards them on here.
Whilst the percentages may not be as high any group of people on here are equally capable of being disrespectful to each other.
I totally accept that men send things that are “awful” and I really hope they would not say it to someone’s face but this is not just limited to men on here.
I reported a profile that was sending my private photos I had sent them to others both on and off the site
How did you find out that was going on?"
She openly told me her friends thought I was “fit”, I asked how they knew and she proudly admitted to sending them everything. |
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So many men on here and this really helps with the filtering process. Much prefer to people out themselves early on instead of just tell us what they want to hear.
We know there's pressure and people can get over excited too. We know it's a bit of a minefield as a single guy (Mr from personal experience) but then Fab is in general. We know sometimes genuinely decent guys can simply misjudge the line between being too forward and not stoking the fires enough. However you can stoke the fire eventually into the bedroom without being too forward and/or crass first. Stoke the fire with your personality and character first, not your sex talk. It's not people don't want filth, it's more they wanted it with people they have some sort of rapport with first. And often when the crudity comes too early it often comes across that these people are replacing what they may lack in personality/character with crudness and sex talk. Which many do not find an attractive thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them.
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying."
Are suggesting I'm lying? Really???
Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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The site is full of tits arse cunt spunk. Cock in pussy, cock in arse, cock in mouth. Sex reviews, sex menus.
No idea why they assume the site is about sex. |
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them.
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying.
Are suggesting I'm lying? Really???
Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? "
I think he’s suggesting it’s a binary choice, either all women experience men being abusive, or none do. Looking at the tone of his post I’d say he’s insinuating that you are telling the truth and all women who say they receive abuse in reality don’t.
If you were being cynical you might think his attitude is a little misogynistic, if you were being cynical of course. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them.
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying.
Are suggesting I'm lying? Really???
Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? "
Don’t feed the troll |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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As one of the “Good Guys” on here (you know the ones that the BAD guys ruin it all for) I can only apologise on behalf on menkind.
I am respectable, friendly, engage in polite conversation and am a generally all round good guy.
But, of course, this is a fuck site after all so I’m sure the ladies don’t mind when I ask them if they’ll spit in my arsehole and shit on my face come the third message.
I mean, FFS, they all want it, right? That’s what we’re all here for.
It’s only polite to give them what they want |
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them.
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying.
Are suggesting I'm lying? Really???
Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that? "
More the other way around |
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"Why do some women do the same?
The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex
Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do?"
Do you honestly think women don't? |
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"Why do some women do the same?
The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex
Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do?
Do you honestly think women don't?"
I honestly don't think that women send crude messages to the same extent that men do |
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"I rarely get this. I don't know why though. Sometimes I do but it's very occasional.
I tend to send a messages back that say 'I'm sorry but you don't fit what I'm looking for'
They generally say thanks for the response and that's that.
It's the ones that reply back with 'i do' that really make me laugh and then I block them.
Unfortunately most women here on fabs pretend like if they say "sorry not interested" they get death threats all the time, and there is no arguing. Funny that your experience varies. Makes you wonder who is lying.
Are suggesting I'm lying? Really???
Why would I lie? What would actually be the point in that?
I think he’s suggesting it’s a binary choice, either all women experience men being abusive, or none do. Looking at the tone of his post I’d say he’s insinuating that you are telling the truth and all women who say they receive abuse in reality don’t.
If you were being cynical you might think his attitude is a little misogynistic, if you were being cynical of course."
Call me misogynistic all you want, I know that I don't hate women. But I also know that a lot of women here make up a lot of stuff like that. It's always this argument of "If I (as a woman) were to say "no, thank you. not interested" then I would most likely get death threats and insults hurled at me so I rather ignore men." So yeah, I heavily question that this happens regularly enough to count as the expected response, especially now that her experience differs by a lot from that.
I think a little kindness wouldn't hurt anyone and a "sorry not interested" is just polite, especially if someone made the effort with a nice message.
But the truth is: Many just can't be arsed to be nice unless they want something.
Hence why you always look at how women treat the servers |
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"Why do some women do the same?
The answer is people. It's just what some people do. It's not really that complex
Do you honestly think women are doing it to the same extent that men do?
Do you honestly think women don't?
I honestly don't think that women send crude messages to the same extent that men do"
What is "extent"? The amount of crude messages, or the percentage?
Because we all know that there are 50 men for every women on here, if not worse, and that is an unfair comparision. But some women here just have an incredible attitude and don't even notice because it's so normalised. |
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful. "
I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? |
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By *oxy jWoman 51 weeks ago
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"As one of the “Good Guys” on here (you know the ones that the BAD guys ruin it all for) I can only apologise on behalf on menkind.
I am respectable, friendly, engage in polite conversation and am a generally all round good guy.
But, of course, this is a fuck site after all so I’m sure the ladies don’t mind when I ask them if they’ll spit in my arsehole and shit on my face come the third message.
I mean, FFS, they all want it, right? That’s what we’re all here for.
It’s only polite to give them what they want "
why are you apologizing for others some see that as whiteknighting and creepy in its self ..
also anyone one can call themselves a good guy ive had many so called good guy turn out to be a knob ...bad guys do not ruin it for good guys it just so called good guys using them as an excuse for themselves getting nowhere ...you ruin it foryourselves not others ... |
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful.
I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? "
I think they were taking the piss lol |
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By *oxy jWoman 51 weeks ago
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every woman will be different you have women that meet once a year to women who meet weekly daily so the amount off traffic message wise will be vastly different per person ..
also its not just meets there are some women on here to purely prick tease / get to look at only f / money / ego these women will attract many a men |
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful.
I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it?? "
I'm going to be real with you dude...
Never take me or the Forums seriously
There's no point to it |
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful.
I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it??
I'm going to be real with you dude...
Never take me or the Forums seriously
There's no point to it "
Sometimes I just run with the horses, even though I know what's going on |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful.
I am confused.. If you dislike it so much why do you have a wank over it??
I'm going to be real with you dude...
Never take me or the Forums seriously
There's no point to it "
?????? keep it fun lol |
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"I have men send me the most disgusting messages right off the bat... and after I've had my wank, I find them really distasteful and disrespectful.
...goddamnit that was better than mine  "
I'm thinking about putting a stand up show together...
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"Surely it’s a good thing (in a strange way) better to find out early before you invest time and energy into them ?
This is how I see it too "
I'm not alone! The neutral "are you looking to meet?" knocks politely on the door and invites either a 'no', or a nice chat. Each message has to be a unique piece, crafted to entice, beguile and intrigue. Or it feels like that some days when you just want to be honest and ask if someone is okay, happy, and in the mood to have sex, or just wants a coffee and to vent. |
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"Surely it’s a good thing (in a strange way) better to find out early before you invest time and energy into them ?
This is how I see it too
I'm not alone! The neutral "are you looking to meet?" knocks politely on the door and invites either a 'no', or a nice chat. Each message has to be a unique piece, crafted to entice, beguile and intrigue. Or it feels like that some days when you just want to be honest and ask if someone is okay, happy, and in the mood to have sex, or just wants a coffee and to vent. "
Can't be interested in meeting anyone on here before you found out they're your soulmate through messaging. ts ts ts |
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