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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive? |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I’m disgracefully handsome. |
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Nice mostly yes, attractive to some not to others, do I feel attractive? Right now in my PJs not really, when I make an effort I do I guess.
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Welcome back fella 
No. I know I'm no oil painting, but I love a chat and people find me OK  |
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Extremely.
Like a young Burt Reynolds. |
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Nice guy, which I hope makes up for my mug lol |
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By *G LanaTV/TS 52 weeks ago
Gosport |
Thats something I always leave up to others to decide but I try to be both nice of personality and appearance so I certainly hope some think my efforts are worth while. |
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Personality wise...yes....Looks...no x |
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I'm just a big bundle of lovliness how could anyone not find me attractive   |
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By *edeWoman 52 weeks ago
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Not particularly but then I never have. I think it's much harder to see the positives about yourself than in others. But I don't think I'm a terrible person so that'll do me |
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Yes. Ish. And then I'm always surprised anyway when people are into me 
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By *eliWoman 52 weeks ago
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You've definitely got that BD(ill)E about you Pickle.
Erm... I think I'm okay looking. Some days I think I'm quite cute. I'm not utterly beautiful in the way some are but I'm not bad. I feel more attractive the better my headspace is. |
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I'd say I'm average looking maybe even not great but I make up for it by being a nice person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I'm just a big bundle of lovliness how could anyone not find me attractive "
You have a very attractive face. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Welcome back fella
No. I know I'm no oil painting, but I love a chat and people find me OK "
Thank you bro  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"You've definitely got that BD(ill)E about you Pickle.
Erm... I think I'm okay looking. Some days I think I'm quite cute. I'm not utterly beautiful in the way some are but I'm not bad. I feel more attractive the better my headspace is."
You’re hot Meli. You should believe that!! |
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By *ucka39Man 52 weeks ago
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Well id say that I'm doing ok but not on borderline too all |
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By *oss25Man 52 weeks ago
Flitwick and Fakenham |
I like to think that I am nice; a good listener, empathetic and generally like to make people feel appreciated and special.
Until there take the piss and then Mr Hyde comes out  |
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Nope I dont think i am, im a good guy but cant help if nobody likes my face  |
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I make the effort to be a nice person...looks wise, bit below average, very marmite. |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some people can be attracted to someone that others may find quite frankly ugly or vice versa. Self appraisal is also so difficult and subjective and often based on how you feel at the time. Big cheers to equality, diversity and inclusion and those that subsctibe to it.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Everyone is somebody’s type.
I’m alright for my age I think, I spot the odd woman/guy checking me out… don’t say anything, I like to live a fantasy world.
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I’ve never thought I’m attractive.
Then I’ve had a year or 2 recently of thinking “you’re not half bad, Misty”
Recently I’m back the the ugly sack pile.
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I can say that I am a really nice person.
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Nope, I'm not 'nice' I can be a twat.
Am I attractive? Some days I feel it, some days I don't. My fwb keep hanging about and I don't scare him off without makeup so that counts for something I guess
I feel more positive about my body now I am losing weight and working the gym, starting to like what I see for a change
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I try to be nice but I have difficulty avoiding the tendencies imposed by a subconscious of self sabotage |
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By *lappyMan 52 weeks ago
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I’d like to think so but beauty is held in the eye of the beholder |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Nice mostly yes, attractive to some not to others, do I feel attractive? Right now in my PJs not really, when I make an effort I do I guess.
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You’re very nice. And absolutely my type.
Sorry Mr. I’m just telling the truth. |
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By *avexxMan 52 weeks ago
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im sort of a cross between quasimodo and yoda so yes im pretty handsome and still do a bit of male modeling,, |
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I think I'm a nice guy, I genuinely care about other people, I'm sensitive and if I'm able to then I'll always help those that need it.
Looks wise? I think I'm probably not to a lot of people's taste. I'm quite imposing and considerably more Shrek than Brad Pitt
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I thought this thread would be something else.
I am aware that I have a visual appeal to a lot of people. I consider myself attractive.
I also consider myself a nice person. Blunt, facetious, and generally a wind up merchant, but still never actively seek to harm another |
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Looks. Personality. Charm .caring. witty .giving .Great in bed got the lot ....then I wake up lol x |
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"Personality wise...yes....Looks...no x"
Wrong...on my hotlist since I joined FAB |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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One thing I’ve learned is that it’s so important to feel in ourselves that we’re attractive. That validation from others isn’t enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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Also, when I say nice I mean physically attractive. Lol |
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I don't really know, it's for others to decide.
I do the best with what I've got but does that make me attractive? Not sure, Mrs x |
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I’m nothing special but I’m happy with me. Could be worse. I don’t look my age so I’m happy with that. |
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By *archelCouple 52 weeks ago
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Horses for courses. To some I look like the back end of a bus crash...others think I'm smoking hot. I don't give a shit either way 
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I like to think I'm a very down to earth,caring, thoughtful,sensitive and supportive person.
Confident in some situations, not so much in others.
However, do I think I'm attractive when I look in the mirror....absolutely not.
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Put up a couple of face pics, you can make your own mind up, Mrs x |
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Personality: I'm trying hard to be ok.
Looks: I'm so ugly that when I was born the midwife slapped my mother |
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"I like to think I'm a very down to earth,caring, thoughtful,sensitive and supportive person.
Confident in some situations, not so much in others.
However, do I think I'm attractive when I look in the mirror....absolutely not.
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I've seen you  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I can be |
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By *rsPricklePantsWoman 52 weeks ago
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I don't think I'm attractive but then I don't have to, it's down to whether others find me attractive |
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I like my face, albeit some days more than others. It's attractive enough, and all the bits are in the right places. I'm too short (and probably too brown) to be considered "attractive" in general, but I've long got over that - one finds one's niche!
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On a good day, when I've made an effort, yes.
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"I like to think I'm a very down to earth,caring, thoughtful,sensitive and supportive person.
Confident in some situations, not so much in others.
However, do I think I'm attractive when I look in the mirror....absolutely not.
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I have lots of mirrors in our bedroom. Some make me look like a bag of shine, whilst others seem much more forgiving.
Does anyone else have a favourite mirror. He thinks this is so weird haha, Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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No, not really. I think I have a decent enough body but my face probably lets it down, and I think my personality leans itself more towards guy you want to give a hug to rather than guy you want to rip the clothes off and fuck like an animal |
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I'm a realist I don't have to think I'm attractive to be comfortable in my own skin.
I'm average look young for my age and have very little grey hair |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I don't think I'm ugly. I'm confident within myself and happy in my own skin. |
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At the moment no not all all. I’m in the worst shape of my life. When I’m fit and well I do ok. I’m not classically pretty but my quirks serve me well.
I’m much more bothered about being a decent human than what I look like. |
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"Nice mostly yes, attractive to some not to others, do I feel attractive? Right now in my PJs not really, when I make an effort I do I guess.
Mrs "
This!! This is definitely me!! I'm always surprised with who I attract because I see me in my normal natural state all the time, the fab ready me is what others see though and they seem to like it |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I’ve been told by various different people that I’m one of the kindest generous people they know ..
I’m not Tom cruise good looking on outside but appears my heart is in right place
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I don't think I'm attractive but then I don't have to, it's down to whether others find me attractive "
I find feeling in myself that I’m attractive or not ugly helps with rejection. That’s me personally obviously lol. But yeah, if I feel like I’m an attractive person it’s easier not to internalise rejection regardless of how frequent it comes. Also it just makes moving through this modern works easier for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"No, not really. I think I have a decent enough body but my face probably lets it down, and I think my personality leans itself more towards guy you want to give a hug to rather than guy you want to rip the clothes off and fuck like an animal "
You’re nice looking Joe and we all know it |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I like to think I'm a very down to earth,caring, thoughtful,sensitive and supportive person.
Confident in some situations, not so much in others.
However, do I think I'm attractive when I look in the mirror....absolutely not.
I've seen you "
Yes, but has your guide dog
I'm confident in my own body and skin, but I'm on about my face. Do I think I'm attractive in that sense....
Absolutely not! |
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"I don't think I'm attractive but then I don't have to, it's down to whether others find me attractive
I find feeling in myself that I’m attractive or not ugly helps with rejection. That’s me personally obviously lol. But yeah, if I feel like I’m an attractive person it’s easier not to internalise rejection regardless of how frequent it comes. Also it just makes moving through this modern works easier for me"
People reject for all kinds of reasons. What makes you think it's your looks |
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I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I don't think I'm attractive but then I don't have to, it's down to whether others find me attractive
I find feeling in myself that I’m attractive or not ugly helps with rejection. That’s me personally obviously lol. But yeah, if I feel like I’m an attractive person it’s easier not to internalise rejection regardless of how frequent it comes. Also it just makes moving through this modern works easier for mePeople reject for all kinds of reasons. What makes you think it's your looks"
Usually the implications that it’s to do with looks. Or comments about my looks. Lol.
I’m only talking about those rejections. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
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You have some very attractive qualities so lift up your heart and be confident.. don’t listen to negative reinforcement thoughts .. banish them |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"No, not really. I think I have a decent enough body but my face probably lets it down, and I think my personality leans itself more towards guy you want to give a hug to rather than guy you want to rip the clothes off and fuck like an animal
You’re nice looking Joe and we all know it"
Mind just spreading that rumour around a bit? |
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
You have some very attractive qualities so lift up your heart and be confident.. don’t listen to negative reinforcement thoughts .. banish them "
I am confident, just not attractive. That’s a fact. |
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
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That’s utterly traumatising. I’m sorry this happened to you. |
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Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind. |
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
That’s utterly traumatising. I’m sorry this happened to you. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind. "
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive |
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I think it's really, really difficult for someone to say they think they're attractive. It's not what we do! If anyone does they are swiftly accused of being up themselves, shallow, arrogant etc.
That being said, I do think if you don't feel good about how you look, that comes through in your interactions. I'm a 42 year old woman who's a size 14 on a good day. I have wrinkles and grey hairs. Sometimes I get surprised when I see myself in the mirror, and wish I looked more like my younger self. But when I'm feeling good about myself, when I wear something I like, when I'm putting out that positive energy - I feel attractive, yes.
Mrs TMN x |
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
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I've seen ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I think it's really, really difficult for someone to say they think they're attractive. It's not what we do! If anyone does they are swiftly accused of being up themselves, shallow, arrogant etc.
That being said, I do think if you don't feel good about how you look, that comes through in your interactions. I'm a 42 year old woman who's a size 14 on a good day. I have wrinkles and grey hairs. Sometimes I get surprised when I see myself in the mirror, and wish I looked more like my younger self. But when I'm feeling good about myself, when I wear something I like, when I'm putting out that positive energy - I feel attractive, yes.
Mrs TMN x"
So… yes?
I’ve never been more attracted to you than I was reading that. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I think I am a nice person
Whether people think I’m attractive is another matter |
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Depends who you ask.
Some will say I am very nice, some will say I am a cunt.
For me perdonally, I am still on the fence. |
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Yes I do. I'm not the best looking ever or anything and I certainly don't fit the classic look of what most women seem to like these days but I am very happy with what I look like and I think I'm a good egg too!
I would say I'm sillier here than in real life which is half true. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Confident more than attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I do alright |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I know I’m not awful to look at but I also have days where I’m not very confident in the way I look.
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. |
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By *avexxMan 52 weeks ago
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ive been called handsome in my younger days many times,,, age as now caught up with me,, |
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By *host63Man 52 weeks ago
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I think I look OK and I have been told I scrub up well. |
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Nope , I do not feel "nice" or " attractive" ... more along the lines of I fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down... am I a nice person ? I like to think so... |
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive "
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that. |
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By *VineMan 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that. "
If anyone is nice it’s you! Or it’s false advertising |
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Yes not to everyone of course but to a fair number. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that. "
I reckon you’re nice. 
*sucking up to the mods. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that. "
You should do a face pic Friday or something |
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
If anyone is nice it’s you! Or it’s false advertising "
Nice is a place and a biscuit |
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
I reckon you’re nice.
*sucking up to the mods. "
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something"
Never going to happen |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 52 weeks ago
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I think I get away with being me |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I’m not attractive, and was quite frequently reminded about that fact since early childhood.
When you grow up with that mindset, you do everything to prove yourself your worth but I’m finding it difficult to believe *some* people might actually find me attractive.
Good to hear …
You have some very attractive qualities so lift up your heart and be confident.. don’t listen to negative reinforcement thoughts .. banish them
I am confident, just not attractive. That’s a fact."
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something
Never going to happen "
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something
Never going to happen
Well then I guess up just have to assume you’re attractive. I’m ok with that actually "
So am I. You won't be disappointed that way
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Nope. Never have been, but just got lucky to get this far! Hahaha |
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By *orny-DJMan 52 weeks ago
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How do you translate attractiveness to being nice?
I've known some very attractive people who have turned out to not be very nice at all and vice versa |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"How do you translate attractiveness to being nice?
I've known some very attractive people who have turned out to not be very nice at all and vice versa"
Haha it’s just the language I use. If I think someone is attractive I would describe them as nice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something
Never going to happen
Well then I guess up just have to assume you’re attractive. I’m ok with that actually
So am I. You won't be disappointed that way
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Exactly. Protect my heart. |
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I like to think I’m a nice person (with the odd blip when provoked) but not attractive and categorically not linked to being nice |
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something
Never going to happen
Well then I guess up just have to assume you’re attractive. I’m ok with that actually
So am I. You won't be disappointed that way
Exactly. Protect my heart. "
Off topic the Italian cafe was broken in to |
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Depeon what day you ask me, some days I think damn I'd do me others I think who the hell would want to, I've certainly been surprised by who has found me attractive over the years on here, I've met people I thought would not have looked twice at me given how attractive they are.
Tinder |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Personality wise...yes....Looks...no x"
Not true. You’re beautiful!! |
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To nice for my own good sometimes. |
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Sometimes I'm attractive, sometimes I'm not....
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Yes I do feel that I'm attractive. I make the best of what I have physically and personality wise. I'm too damn old for faux modesty and self deprecation of the serious kind.
I’ve not seen your face but I bet it is attractive
That would be for you to decide if you saw it.
I know other people have a different opinion of me than I have of myself, I'm realistic about that.
You should do a face pic Friday or something
Never going to happen
Well then I guess up just have to assume you’re attractive. I’m ok with that actually
So am I. You won't be disappointed that way
Exactly. Protect my heart.
Off topic the Italian cafe was broken in to "
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive?"
Hmmm, can I say I like parts of myself. I wouldn't say im attractive, but I like my butt, I like my smile and I like my hair. I wouldn't like to say how others perceive me as I've found out there are MANY different tastes and who am I to say what other people think? I'm not up my own arse. Do I get inundated with msgs, especially after uploading a photo, yes of course I do, but so do pretty much every other lady here. There a million things I don't like, but then I can't really fix some of them or can't be bothered and I'm fine with that. That's my choice.
In regards to am I nice? I try to be kind to others but having said that I am fairly honest but I like to think I sprinkle that with a bit of diplomacy. I can be socially awkward and not be sure how to proceed or what type of response should be given or what I'm meant to do, but I give it a go.
That's me really. |
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"I know I’m not awful to look at but I also have days where I’m not very confident in the way I look.
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. "
Oh come on behave ... I wish I was 20 years younger and lived 400+ miles further north
As for my looks...well that's for others to judge |
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I'm happy to be attractive to the men who think I'm attractive. I don't need to be attractive to all as ye olde fanny flaps would be worn out |
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"Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive?"
God, no! Alice seems to think I am, but she has questionable taste |
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"Extremely.
Like a young Burt Reynolds."
Hahaha
STUNNING!!! |
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Not really. I'll let y'all decide. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Yes when i make the effort to those into the kind of woman i am. Not worrying about being attractive i think is what makes someone attractive. |
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By *ubyMoonWoman 52 weeks ago
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I'd call myself below average, at least in the face department. Fortunately if you've got boobs, most people can look past that, haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Yea, I think I am. |
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"I'd call myself below average, at least in the face department. Fortunately if you've got boobs, most people can look past that, haha."
Most definitely above average face I would say. |
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"Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive?"
Nice as in personality? Or nice to look at? I'm an acquired taste in both departments, I think. I don't feel massively attractive, especially not at all moment, though I scrub up okay if I make an effort. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive?
Nice as in personality? Or nice to look at? I'm an acquired taste in both departments, I think. I don't feel massively attractive, especially not at all moment, though I scrub up okay if I make an effort. "
I’m glad you think so. Because I agree. You’re nice  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Inspired kinda by another thread-
Do you think you’re an attractive person? I know we’re all attractive to someone but do YOU feel like you’re attractive?"
I'm attractive when I sleep |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Nah |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Nah "
Why? |
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No i don't think I'm attractive |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Don't need to be attractive to be nice and a lot of physically attractive people are not nice.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Sometimes I feel like a rockstar, other times I feel like turd warmed up in the microwave.
I only have one mirror in my place, in the hallway, and I rarely look at it. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I'm happy to be attractive to the men who think I'm attractive. I don't need to be attractive to all as ye olde fanny flaps would be worn out "
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I don’t, more a girl next door. Personality for the win x |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I don't think I'm a complete arsehole.
I can be a twat, I don't always get things right. But I see myself as placid type that loves happy places and people. Does that mean I'm attractive, I find it weird to call myself that, feels like I'm up my own arse if I say that. |
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Average looks, too nice though.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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That's a definite no from me. I don't rate myself at all but, apparently I have a nice smile.....I'll take that |
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Strangers say to me on a regular basis that I have a nice vibe, and that I am calming and nice to be around.
So I think I am nice - my friends are all female, and they range in age from my age to 23 years younger than me - so born in 1990. No idea how this happened but very grateful for this.
Think my wife pays them to get me out of the house |
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By *r_reusMan 52 weeks ago
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"No I'm horrible do one."
In all seriousness though, I'd rather be thought of as a good person rather than a 'nice' one, there are many things in this world which don't deserve to be met with a smile and good manners. |
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Head to toe direction.
Apparently I have nice lips, ears, eyelashes, chest, upper back, shoulders, fingers, head and legs.
Some was coming from women who didn't fancy me. |
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"Head to toe direction.
Apparently I have nice lips, ears, eyelashes, chest, upper back, shoulders, fingers, head and legs.
Some was coming from women who didn't fancy me."
If that's head to toe direction, you have one fucked-up body! |
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I find myself staggeringly unattractive. I struggle to see how anyone else would find me attractive and always assume anyone who fancies me does so in spite of my looks (I'm splendid in myriad other ways).
I'm just not my type at all. |
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"Head to toe direction.
Apparently I have nice lips, ears, eyelashes, chest, upper back, shoulders, fingers, head and legs.
Some was coming from women who didn't fancy me.
If that's head to toe direction, you have one fucked-up body! "
The other head is kind of in the middle, if that's what you meant.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I don't know about my being nice but I'm certainly niche.
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By *rispyDuckMan 52 weeks ago
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I don’t think I’m attractive,
know I am |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I have zero self narcissistic thoughts.
Thank you and goodnight |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I’m quite confident and happy in my own skin, but know that my appeal won’t appeal to all |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Yes. And no. It depends who you ask. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Sometimes I feel more attractive than others generally when I've had more to drink |
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Historically have felt reasonably attractive. I had a job that meant to be successful you had to be until a year ago. Now in the worst shape of my life so definitely definitely not |
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I would like to be positive and say yes but i really dont feel like i am and it leads to low confidence. Am I attractive? |
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Most of the time yes but I can be quite nasty if people push all my wrong buttons... |
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Not always.
I upset someone yesterday because I was insensitive and thought I was doing the right thing.
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"Not always.
I upset someone yesterday because I was insensitive and thought I was doing the right thing.
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Ah but did you upset them intentionally?? If not then don't be hard on yourself xx |
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I don’t think so particularly , maybe 10 years ago I was a little , It’s not something I think about much. I think it saves me, wouldn’t being attractive be a curse? |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Wait attractive and nice are different things
Do I think I'm attractive - i have great hair, height +boobs
Do I think I'm nice? Sometimes I'm delightful, sometimes I'm frightful  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Some times I can look nice, some times I can look terrible.
I'm overall happy with how I look |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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And I know my friends would say I'm a nice person |
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I think I look pretty good for 47! |
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"Not always.
I upset someone yesterday because I was insensitive and thought I was doing the right thing.
Ah, but did you upset them intentionally?? If not, then don't be hard on yourself xx"
No, but in hindsight, I should have known what I told then would hurt.
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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"I would like to be positive and say yes but i really dont feel like i am and it leads to low confidence. Am I attractive? "
Yes you are an attractive man.
You won't be attractive to everyone. I don't fancy George Clooney but he's learning to live with it. |
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I think I’m very average but try to look after myself |
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"I would like to be positive and say yes but i really dont feel like i am and it leads to low confidence. Am I attractive?
Yes you are an attractive man.
You won't be attractive to everyone. I don't fancy George Clooney but he's learning to live with it. "
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By *ros40Man 48 weeks ago
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I'm easy on the eye
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Am I attractive, hmm in my head it varies with my mood/confidence levels. So some days I'm a rock star others a mushroom  |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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Right now, I feel pretty okay. |
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I dunno, I'm attractive to some people, not to others. How I personally feel about myself changes hour by hour (yay for health conditions and a body that's working against me).
Am I nice? At work, no, not at all. Socially, I try to be polite, decent and welcoming... alot of people have said I look intimidating as I hold myself confidently however once they get to know me a little, they realise I'm not so scary
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Fucking hell, my reading comprehension is worse than a 5 year old's today |
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By *an1978Woman 48 weeks ago
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Nice on the inside..bit wonky on the outside.
Like Roald Dahl said in the twits...
"A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely. "
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By *avexxMan 48 weeks ago
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im not to bad, i scrub up well |
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Yes I think I am for my age lol x |
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Thank you to my parents!
I am grateful for the attention I get.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 48 weeks ago
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"Yes I think I am for my age lol x"
You are objectively nice at any age |
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By *mf123Man 48 weeks ago
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I used to be but im so single minded in what i want iv purposely become off putting i think its my own doing as i cant handle failure its my biggest flaw |
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By (user no longer on site) 48 weeks ago
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No |
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By *avexxMan 48 weeks ago
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"No"
,,, nah your nice really,,
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By (user no longer on site) 47 weeks ago
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Am I nice?
Immediately after cumming on a girls face I am the nicest man on the planet. At most others times I’m “ok”
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