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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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If it’s someone I don’t know from Adam, I look at the veris quite closely. And they help me decide whether I’m interested.
But if it’s someone I’ve chatted with, or I know from these here forums, I might not even look. Because I already know whether I’m interested or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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I really don’t care about a girls verifications. The only thing I’ll take from it is “she meets, so is maybe more reliable than someone without any”.
Timings of veris and the number of them is really not something I look at.
Although- if I’m perving and she has some great FF photos, a veri from a girl could mean someone else has some awesome amateur porn photos to perve on. Otherwise, “meh” to veris |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I used to look, to see what sort of person they were meeting. If I felt I didn’t match up with that, I would avoid that person.
I’m less inclined to do that now as I embrace what/who I am. And if they’re interested in me, then the people they’ve previously met have no bearing on that. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I read them but I prefer to go off my own judgement on how they come across to me and whether I'd personally want to meet them. I don't think I even pay attention to the date of the verification to be honest |
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Verifications are interesting to read for various reasons
What type of person you are attracted to.
What level of detail you are happy with in a veri.
But they don’t tell the rest of the story.
Whether it was a while ago or whether it was recent no one would know if you’ve met that person 20 times or just once.
Most people on here want sex, regular sex too so if you only have one veri up and it’s from a while ago then you could either be meeting up with the same guy or you could be meeting up with a number of guys and you aren’t wanting veris.
It’s your profile, your life, what others think doesn’t/shouldn’t matter.
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"Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up "
Basically this, minus the couldn't keep up bit. |
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"Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up "
My veris would confuse many.i totally don't have a type. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up
My veris would confuse many.i totally don't have a type. "
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For the start, I believe the principal of supply and demand take the luxury of verifications out for most of the males on site  ! But apart from that, I believe verifications are not a very good representation of anyone! They reduce the risk but in my view, that reduction is negligible! |
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Moth-eaten verifications and those gathering dust aren't an issue for me. When a woman contacts me and her verifications are from men with sizeable assets and adonis-like qualities then it may potentially impinge my engagement with her: I don't wish to waste her time unless her acquaintanceship is for a platonic afternoon tea
OP, don't concern yourself with placating others - just ask your friend to write the same verification again, verbatim. Display that new one and hide the old one.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up
My veris would confuse many.i totally don't have a type. "
I think that’ll put a lot of guys at ease
I arranged a meet with a couple then cancelled after viewing their verifications
They couldn’t understand why I was somewhat put off at most of the verifications coming from huge black guys |
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I read them out of interest. They are a mixed bag really. Some are happy to list conquests, others for socials, some in between. Others tend to block some or all.
Some can be quite amusing though but it wouldn't really change my thoughts on anyone.
Being North of the Wall and remote ish, it can be quite interesting looking at the connections. It can look a bit like a family tree in Norfolk. |
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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We treat verifications like eBay or Amazon reviews; have you ever seen a bad one on here - obviously everyone in Fabland is perfect? In this namby-pamby world we now live in, everyone is frightened to speak their minds for fear of ridicule. If folks think a review is the only criteria for contacting someone then they are either extremely sexually frustrated and or very shallow. Most of the folks we play with would not entertain a site such as this so hopefully, that keeps them a long way from us only having One fab meet The advice I gave my kids was ‘always ignore the morons’. Good luck… M&B xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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I’d be suspicious of a profile that is a year or so old, with only one verification but that verification was left at the inception of the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I don't pay much attention to them, as long as I can see they're genuine that's all that matters "
How do you 'see' they are genuine?
Genuine question.
Genuinely.
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"I don't pay much attention to them, as long as I can see they're genuine that's all that matters
How do you 'see' they are genuine?
Genuine question.
Genuinely.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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The fact that people are looking at verifications and seeing if they match up...do guys do this more than women? Or is it the same? Using previous me as a marker of if you'd go for a woman limits you doesn't it????? Why do that?
The message I'm getting here is that showing more veris showing more varied men would actually help a woman out more than the actual veris themselves.
Is this where I'm going wrong just displaying the one?? 
Seriously though, I hate veris they seem to cause problems. I only display one so people could potentially see that I am the person in the profile...but that's an argument in itself. |
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By *addad99Man 52 weeks ago
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I do read verifications just to get a feel before I message or not some say one thing but veris show something else It doesn't put me off with the amount they may display but certainly helps me as to what type they are. |
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them 
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?  "
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am. "
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound! |
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am.
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound!"
Nah I don’t reckon. Would you really want to meet someone who’s that bothered about it? Besides yours isn’t that old x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am.
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound!
Nah I don’t reckon. Would you really want to meet someone who’s that bothered about it? Besides yours isn’t that old x "
Well I didn't think it was till I got questioned. But it intrigued me how much it was a subject.
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am.
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound!
Nah I don’t reckon. Would you really want to meet someone who’s that bothered about it? Besides yours isn’t that old x
Well I didn't think it was till I got questioned. But it intrigued me how much it was a subject.
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I think they’re important to some. I’ve never been a fan. Although I do nosey at everyone else’s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am.
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound!
Nah I don’t reckon. Would you really want to meet someone who’s that bothered about it? Besides yours isn’t that old x
Well I didn't think it was till I got questioned. But it intrigued me how much it was a subject.
I think they’re important to some. I’ve never been a fan. Although I do nosey at everyone else’s "
Why am I not surprised at that |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I don't have enough time or energy to second guess too much.
That said one veri make me think it's someone who has games the system. But depends who the veri is from as well.
Tbh, who cares. Send a dick pic. Say FAF. Get your dick wet. This sex site is easy. Why complicate it? |
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"Is this why nobody wants me coz i don’t show them
Haha I just typed the same thing just in different words.
Is it a thing?
It could be but that’s their problem. I’d still rather keep who I meet/have met to myself. I show social ones every now and then if I really want to meet someone new. Just to show what an absolute fucking delight I am.
Do I need a new veri to get a new guy? ....I can't believe I even typed that?! Just how mad does that sound!
Nah I don’t reckon. Would you really want to meet someone who’s that bothered about it? Besides yours isn’t that old x
Well I didn't think it was till I got questioned. But it intrigued me how much it was a subject.
I think they’re important to some. I’ve never been a fan. Although I do nosey at everyone else’s
Why am I not surprised at that "
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"So guys if you're checking out who a woman meets, what happens if she's verified by a woman??? Do you match up to that?  "
means she can put up with crazy. That's a good sign |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"I don't have enough time or energy to second guess too much.
That said one veri make me think it's someone who has games the system. But depends who the veri is from as well.
Tbh, who cares. Send a dick pic. Say FAF. Get your dick wet. This sex site is easy. Why complicate it? "
Games the system???
Do you want to get your dick wet Hovis? (The autocorrect to hobos was definitely worth correcting) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"So guys if you're checking out who a woman meets, what happens if she's verified by a woman??? Do you match up to that? means she can put up with crazy. That's a good sign "
Oooh shots fired!!!
Duck! |
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"The fact that people are looking at verifications and seeing if they match up...do guys do this more than women? Or is it the same? Using previous me as a marker of if you'd go for a woman limits you doesn't it????? Why do that?
The message I'm getting here is that showing more veris showing more varied men would actually help a woman out more than the actual veris themselves.
Is this where I'm going wrong just displaying the one??
Seriously though, I hate veris they seem to cause problems. I only display one so people could potentially see that I am the person in the profile...but that's an argument in itself."
I’m happy to speak to someone on camera to do our own veri that we are who we say we are. In fact I insist on that before meeting for my own safety and peace of mind. The written verifications aren’t my thing - if that puts a dude off me, it means we’re not compatible. |
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By *ddie1966Man 52 weeks ago
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IMHO
A single veri of a social meet (possibly not more than a year old I suppose) should be all that's really necessary.
I don't want to know if they're great in bed (or elsewhere). I don't want to know what their O levels are up to scratch.
I just want to know they're genuine.
I'll make up my own mind.
But I would never tell.
A Gentleman never tells.
I am a gentleman. |
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"I don't have enough time or energy to second guess too much.
That said one veri make me think it's someone who has games the system. But depends who the veri is from as well.
Tbh, who cares. Send a dick pic. Say FAF. Get your dick wet. This sex site is easy. Why complicate it?
Games the system???
Do you want to get your dick wet Hovis? (The autocorrect to hobos was definitely worth correcting) "
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By *batMan 52 weeks ago
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I'm not that fussed on the content of veris. Quite a few of them seem poorly written, almost sycophantic.
The most gag producing stuff normally has something along the lines of "treat this one with respect." as if you shouldn't treat everyone with respect!!
I only post my veri summary as I previously had feedback that some won't entertain meeting unless you have a recent one.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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People will display what they think are the good ones from the "hot" people.
The idea of someone gushing (not literally!) About me and me proudly displaying it just seems a little egotistical to me.
Also, a grown adult that has to rely on strangers opinions of someone is not the type of adult I'd want to get naked with.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"The fact that people are looking at verifications and seeing if they match up...do guys do this more than women? Or is it the same? Using previous me as a marker of if you'd go for a woman limits you doesn't it????? Why do that?
The message I'm getting here is that showing more veris showing more varied men would actually help a woman out more than the actual veris themselves.
Is this where I'm going wrong just displaying the one??
Seriously though, I hate veris they seem to cause problems. I only display one so people could potentially see that I am the person in the profile...but that's an argument in itself."
You’ve caught the wrong end of the stick
We don’t need verifications showing you like a variety of guys
We just don’t want to see a bunch of verifications that definitely aren’t what we are
Like in my example, most verifications from huge black guys, I can only assume I’m not what you like (the most) and don’t want to meet
Despite what many tell you, guys get insecure too. Most guy want to feel wanted by their partner
I know fabs and many other places like to paint all men as mindless fuck machines that want to use women like holes. That’s just not reality. Most of us want our partner to want us and enjoy it with us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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"The fact that people are looking at verifications and seeing if they match up...do guys do this more than women? Or is it the same? Using previous me as a marker of if you'd go for a woman limits you doesn't it????? Why do that?
The message I'm getting here is that showing more veris showing more varied men would actually help a woman out more than the actual veris themselves.
Is this where I'm going wrong just displaying the one??
Seriously though, I hate veris they seem to cause problems. I only display one so people could potentially see that I am the person in the profile...but that's an argument in itself.
You’ve caught the wrong end of the stick
We don’t need verifications showing you like a variety of guys
We just don’t want to see a bunch of verifications that definitely aren’t what we are
Like in my example, most verifications from huge black guys, I can only assume I’m not what you like (the most) and don’t want to meet
Despite what many tell you, guys get insecure too. Most guy want to feel wanted by their partner
I know fabs and many other places like to paint all men as mindless fuck machines that want to use women like holes. That’s just not reality. Most of us want our partner to want us and enjoy it with us "
I think you misread my post or didn't get my point. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"The fact that people are looking at verifications and seeing if they match up...do guys do this more than women? Or is it the same? Using previous me as a marker of if you'd go for a woman limits you doesn't it????? Why do that?
The message I'm getting here is that showing more veris showing more varied men would actually help a woman out more than the actual veris themselves.
Is this where I'm going wrong just displaying the one??
Seriously though, I hate veris they seem to cause problems. I only display one so people could potentially see that I am the person in the profile...but that's an argument in itself.
You’ve caught the wrong end of the stick
We don’t need verifications showing you like a variety of guys
We just don’t want to see a bunch of verifications that definitely aren’t what we are
Like in my example, most verifications from huge black guys, I can only assume I’m not what you like (the most) and don’t want to meet
Despite what many tell you, guys get insecure too. Most guy want to feel wanted by their partner
I know fabs and many other places like to paint all men as mindless fuck machines that want to use women like holes. That’s just not reality. Most of us want our partner to want us and enjoy it with us
I think you misread my post or didn't get my point."
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By *oxesMan 52 weeks ago
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive "
I just take it as a matter of course that some works
Women has most likely lain with someine more attractive than me.
Yes I know it's subjective. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Wouldn't give two shits. Although I have thought someone was fit before and saw a veri that they had fucked a really dodgy looking 22 year old boy - that is a boy at that age - and thought ewwww"
He was hot!! |
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It wouldn't bother me how long it had been since their last verification. I don't pay much heed to them apart from confirming that they are consistent with the rest of their profile and to avoid the drama queens.
I much prefer to meet women who are on a similar journey to myself, taking their time to choose meets and maybe lacking in experience so if they hadn't met in a few years but our conversation went well it wouldn't be an issue. |
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"Wouldn't give two shits. Although I have thought someone was fit before and saw a veri that they had fucked a really dodgy looking 22 year old boy - that is a boy at that age - and thought ewwww
He was hot!!"
He had a huge cock for his skinny ass like bod to be fair. Did not look natural at all. It's like all the protein he eats just goes to his dick. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"For the start, I believe the principal of supply and demand take the luxury of verifications out for most of the males on site ! But apart from that, I believe verifications are not a very good representation of anyone! They reduce the risk but in my view, that reduction is negligible!"
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I always try to display the most recent ones, to show that I'm actively seeing people.
I often get asked if I meet for more than coffee, as they're mostly socials and not graphic.
I have however recently been asked to send a pic with a finger on my nose, to prove I'm genuine. From an unverified, 2 week old profile. You can guess my answer to that.
I often do the same thing as guys though, look at who other people have met to see if I match up.
And if a guy only had 1 verification from ages ago, I would question that too. |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
Oh I'm the opposite. I want to be the ugliest guy she's got with  "
C’mon then Brucey (pats seat) |
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I don’t want to put my sex veris up though. Which is a double edged sword. Some will think I’m just drinking a lot of coffee with a lot of men…
But if I make the others public - there’s an assumption that I’ll always behave in the same way….
Honestly I don’t know |
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By *ltmeeMan 52 weeks ago
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Any kind of contact from women on here would be a bonus. I get nothing, so don't even look how many Vera's they have or the age of them. It's like all the women are on Venus and all the men are on Mars. Well in my world anyway. Plenty of correspondence from guys though. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive "
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot” |
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By *TK421-Man 52 weeks ago
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My only verification is from well over a year ago so I would be a massive hypocrite to juge someone on theirs.
Besides which most verifications tell me bugger all other than 'Treat her with respect'..... like I was planning on being an arsehole  |
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"Wouldn't give two shits. Although I have thought someone was fit before and saw a veri that they had fucked a really dodgy looking 22 year old boy - that is a boy at that age - and thought ewwww
He was hot!!
He had a huge cock for his skinny ass like bod to be fair. Did not look natural at all. It's like all the protein he eats just goes to his dick."
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I definitely read them (and the veris they've left), but mainly as I'm nosy.
They've not yet changed my opinion of someone, but never say never! I might think twice if it was very obvious I was not her "type", but I like to think I'd know I was or wasn't without needing the veris... |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”"
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement? |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?"
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men "
Ah were slagging men off.
Gotcha.
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men "
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Ah were slagging men off.
Gotcha.
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies"
Ah the fan club. Again, no one said they’re not |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies
Ah the fan club. Again, no one said they’re not "
Chill Fluffy |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies
Ah the fan club. Again, no one said they’re not "
The guy (sorry I didn't see who posted it) said he can feel insecure. If a woman had posted that everyone would agree. But a guy, then it's him not thinking a woman knows her own mind.
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies
Ah the fan club. Again, no one said they’re not "
You can chill, they all hate me really! |
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"This is really eye opening how many men would be put off if the woman had met someone more attractive
There’s an element of insecurity about it. In my mind, I’d be thinking “why does she want me, when she’s had him…..he’s fuckin hot”
Is there an element of not believing the woman knows her own mind? Like, deciding she obviously doesnt want X because Y is better looking, is that not removing the choice from the woman because you don’t trust her to make her own judgement?
Because women don't do this?? Men are allowed to be insecure.
I’ve said men because the thread is about men
Men are allowed to be insecure. We're human too
Chill ladies
Ah the fan club. Again, no one said they’re not "
Let’s be honest, it’s not man bashing
But it is taking genuine insecurity many men face and turning it into a woman’s issue. As if men being affected by their mental health is an act of “removing the choice” for the woman.
You’re allowed to feel insecure guys. |
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By *rispyDuckMan 52 weeks ago
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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I’m a skeptical person both on & off fab . I go through verifications more to get an idea of the person being verified’s personality. The impression they left on their last meet and if I think we compatible. I’m aware some people have hundreds of veris & only display 1 & some ask not to be verified so it gives illusion of few meets lol. In general I’m not too bothered with number of veris due to points above, what would put me off would be multiple different meet veris a week
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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If someone have 300 verifications, then that's more likely put me off.
I don't judge them, but it's unlikely they want something semi regular.
Otherwise I don't care about age, height, boob size, gorgeous face or verifications. |
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Who reads into a nice verification and twists that into something negative? Talk about being bitter. Ooh she's only got one verification displayed... I must consult the runes to decipher this witchcraft.
Or maybe just ask politely at an appropriate juncture in the conversation and pay attention to her rationale?
Unless you are assuming everyone lies... Can't see how that would ever be a negative way to initiate human interaction. |
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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I would say that one should never question a lady about how she runs her life if you are not the spouse of that lady.
If you post every verification then you’d have some saying you sleep with all of fab. Lol
Your private business is your private business and it is not for others to question or dictate. |
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"Who reads into a nice verification and twists that into something negative? Talk about being bitter. Ooh she's only got one verification displayed... I must consult the runes to decipher this witchcraft.
Or maybe just ask politely at an appropriate juncture in the conversation and pay attention to her rationale?
Unless you are assuming everyone lies... Can't see how that would ever be a negative way to initiate human interaction. "
Lol, love the ‘consult the runes’ but, was howling, made me think of Barbarians on Netflix |
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I don't display any of mine, it's really noones business who I meet and what we do. I used to have a nice one from a social displayed but after a couple of messages along the lines of "[usernameofhotguyimet] WOW. I really don't stand a chance" I hid it.
As some other ladies have said I don't actually have a type like that and don't want to put someone off because one guy I met for a coffee happens to be ripped.
If a guy was funny with me about veris like that OP, he's not someone I would meet. What will he be telling you you're doing "wrong" next? |
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By *r_PinkMan 52 weeks ago
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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1st I ogle/perv the photos. Then I check if they meet single guys, smokers and what their interests are (in that order) age does not bother me if I fancy the person. Then I like to see a few verification which are meeting in person as opposed to web cams!
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"How much notice do take of a woman's verifications and the age of them?
I'm displaying one. And only one.
But it was put to me recently that the person in question couldn't work out if I was 'tricky' and had only slept with one person and hadn't been able to find anyone else. Or if I just hid them all. And a comment was made about the length of time that had elapsed since my verification.
So, guys, if a woman has a verification over a certain time frame, does it make you question her? and if she's only displaying one that is near the start of her fab profile creation does it put you off? Would you think she's involved still with that guy?
I'm curious.
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Being honest I'd fire the same question right back at you, I've met two great women in the 5 months I've been on here and I am friends with both of them. Unfortunately, neither them or me were verified so we were unable to verify meet but the other day I spoke ro q lady on here who verified me by cam after our call and now getting more response so makes me think is it just the green badge lol
Me I do not give a flying f**k about verified or not I'm chuffed to get a response lol |
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Doubt any guy really pays attention to those veris, especially not value. I mean they wouldn't meet a woman because the veri is too old? lmao. Guys don't have hundreds of options everyday to pick from. Put 2 and 2 together |
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If a woman only has 1 veri from the near the beginning, it does raise question whether she is real or a time waster.
Nothing wrong about being reserved or presellecting carefully. On a site like this however, people like to move faster.
Cold approach on here is dead though and it's better to meet in clubs |
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It really doesn’t mean anything to me,
I don’t read them and don’t see the point in them.
Someone could have a hundred veri”s saying how amazing they are. But might of met another hundred that do not think the same.
I don’t trust people when they recommend food because we all have different tastes and likes. So I’m not going to take someone’s word on sex .
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"It really doesn’t mean anything to me,
I don’t read them and don’t see the point in them.
Someone could have a hundred veri”s saying how amazing they are. But might of met another hundred that do not think the same.
I don’t trust people when they recommend food because we all have different tastes and likes. So I’m not going to take someone’s word on sex .
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"Makes no difference to me with regards those sort of things.
As long as we have a great time together thats all I need to know "
I don't want to see any veris on profiles. |
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"Makes no difference to me with regards those sort of things.
As long as we have a great time together thats all I need to know
I don't want to see any veris on profiles. "
Sorry. |
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"Makes no difference to me with regards those sort of things.
As long as we have a great time together thats all I need to know
I don't want to see any veris on profiles.
Sorry. "
I looked!
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Depends if there's something interesting I like about them.
The quantity. The quality. The physique. The quality of a veri's veries. The veri that was or wasn't reciprocated. Any other standout profile features on their profile. Etc etc
I'll build up a mental mindmap of dodgy what-ifs if they're particularly promiscuous or veried by a veri who was veried by someone promiscuous.
Yeah, I don't really pay attention to any of that. |
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"Makes no difference to me with regards those sort of things.
As long as we have a great time together thats all I need to know
I don't want to see any veris on profiles.
Sorry.
I looked!
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It’s not what people show or say. I’d worry about the stuff people don’t.
I prefer people who are open and truthful. |
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Actually, thinking about it, the only time I get suspicious is when women immediately have veris even if they're brand new on the site.
I know for a fact that women sometimes ask to get verified by you, and that some men also offer to verify you as a favour (if you got a female profile, at least it happened to two of my friends on here.) |
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"Actually, thinking about it, the only time I get suspicious is when women immediately have veris even if they're brand new on the site.
I know for a fact that women sometimes ask to get verified by you, and that some men also offer to verify you as a favour (if you got a female profile, at least it happened to two of my friends on here.)"
To be fair. If someones left and they come back then people may verify them. I’ve got about 10 in the space of one week on mine. But they were all from when I was previously on here |
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Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything. |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything. "
Hence I hide mine. 
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris.  |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris. "
Well that would be putting Craig David to shame |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris.
Well that would be putting Craig David to shame "
Shagged him. |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris. "
Seems to be single M who place the most emphasis on getting verified. |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris.
Well that would be putting Craig David to shame
Shagged him. "
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I do look at them as part of the information gathering process for making a decision.
If it's someone I've been chatting with then they are likely to play a smaller part in the process.
If it's someone I've had no contact with then yes it's necessary but mostly to decide if I want to even engage and how seriously to take them.
A profile with a veri from a long time ago might lead me to believe the person isn't meeting and I'd have to decide if they are interesting enough to just have as a chat friend only.
I've never really thought this much about it but a lot goes into the process now that I do think about it. |
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If I’m interested in someone and their last verification is from three years ago, then I’m going to wonder how frequently she meets, if ever. If it’s been that long, then what is the likelihood of actually getting face to face |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 52 weeks ago
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So if I had kept my single profile that I had before my two year relationship and then opened it up again after we split.....I'd have been written off by some men as they would have made the assumption I wasn't meeting or assumed I don't meet. Yet in that time I was sexually active and going to clubs with the partner I had.
Interesting isn't it.
So much weight on veris. And I bloody hate them. |
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Interesting isn't it.
So much weight on veris. And I bloody hate them."
We all judge, wether we want to or not. We all judge. (.even your hatred to veris)
Keep doing what you do op, you’ll be alright. |
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"So if I had kept my single profile that I had before my two year relationship and then opened it up again after we split.....I'd have been written off by some men as they would have made the assumption I wasn't meeting or assumed I don't meet. Yet in that time I was sexually active and going to clubs with the partner I had.
Interesting isn't it.
So much weight on veris. And I bloody hate them."
Well hopefully not all the weight would have been on your veris.
Profile write up etc would all count.
Choosing to display a veri from 2 years ago is communicating something. Just have to decide if it's doing what you want it to do. |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris. "
Oh! That’s what I did. Just this week alone. |
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I’m really new here but I do look at them. If someone has a number of them I know they are who they say they are and are probably reliable and won’t waste my time. From the content I can tell how rough or dominant they may be and I can make a decision safety-wise whether I feel comfortable to meet solo - might not want to meet someone where a veri mentions bareback or cnc. Lastly I do check who they’ve been sleeping with - and I judge you accordingly! I don’t want to sleep with someone who doesn’t have standards |
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By *hiversMan 52 weeks ago
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I really don’t care about a girls verifications. The only thing I’ll take from it is “she meets, so is maybe more reliable than someone without any”.
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This 100%. Beyond that it's a bit irrelevant as far as I'm concerned |
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Maybe ur a private person and u don't want people knowing how many or who uv met ...my verifications are old from wen I ad couples account. 4 me it's more 2 show ur real then who or how many iv met x |
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I really don’t care about a girls verifications. The only thing I’ll take from it is “she meets, so is maybe more reliable than someone without any”.
This 100%. Beyond that it's a bit irrelevant as far as I'm concerned "
At what point would you assume she doesn't meet? If her last veri is over 6 months old would that be considered too long and she's not meeting? 3 months? |
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By *hiversMan 52 weeks ago
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I really don’t care about a girls verifications. The only thing I’ll take from it is “she meets, so is maybe more reliable than someone without any”.
This 100%. Beyond that it's a bit irrelevant as far as I'm concerned
At what point would you assume she doesn't meet? If her last veri is over 6 months old would that be considered too long and she's not meeting? 3 months? "
No time limit really... anyone who has been on here for any length of time will likely have taken a break from it at some point. I certainly go through phases when I'm less active here and just hide my account. Between that, repeat meetings and people deleting their accounts it's not unusual to have sizeable gaps between verifications. |
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I really don’t care about a girls verifications. The only thing I’ll take from it is “she meets, so is maybe more reliable than someone without any”.
This 100%. Beyond that it's a bit irrelevant as far as I'm concerned
At what point would you assume she doesn't meet? If her last veri is over 6 months old would that be considered too long and she's not meeting? 3 months? "
Why would anyone assume that a person isn't meeting just because they don't have recent verifications? Anybody who's overthinking things this much isn't for me and I'd be glad they were put off! |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris.
Oh! That’s what I did. Just this week alone."
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"Personally the only thing I use a woman’s verifications for are seeing the type of guys she’d met in the past and if I could hold a candle to them
Pulled out of a few meets after checking the verifications and realising I couldn’t keep up "
I can see the logic in this,to a point. Where as Veri's can be a goid tool to confirm a person it can also be a duble edge sword and have the opposite effect, its a shame. My self personaly im of the mind as a lot of the guys here. If she talking to you then she must have liked what she read or saw sontheres no point comparing yourself to her other veris, just go with the flow and enjoy the connections and interactions, not everything works out how you wNt but dont let that stop youbfrom shooting your shot with anyone super model or no, |
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"Veris mean nothing. I’ve seen someone this morning with multiple veris. If people knew the truth about they person they’d run a mile (especially on here). So I don’t put much trust in them as telling me anything.
Hence I hide mine.
I could have 1 social veri from 1993 but also have had 7 bareback gangbangs this week off Fab. No veris.
Seems to be single M who place the most emphasis on getting verified. "
Yeah, mostly because some women won't even talk to you unless you are verified. It's quite common, too |
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