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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham

Ive been on here nearly a year now and am finding it reslly hard in finding people that want to meet , im from south yorkshire and just want to meet someone and have regular fun ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays.

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays."
is that so

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Writing a decent profile would help

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Writing a decent profile would help"

What defys a decent profile ?

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Make your bio interesting, browse others see what they've been doing for ideas only to spice up yours

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Hi op

Make your bio interesting, browse others see what they've been doing for ideas only to spice up yours "

Thanks for the advice

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi op

Make your bio interesting, browse others see what they've been doing for ideas only to spice up yours

Thanks for the advice "

Welcome

As any messages you send they'll view your profile and read your bio before any response

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By *udy3Man  over a year ago

Corby

Any advice for me also

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By *ucka39Man  over a year ago

Newcastle


"Any advice for me also "

As I've mentioned above pal

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman  over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so "

No, that’s not so.

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so. "

I thought so haha

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman  over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha "

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

Keep trying, and keep chatting in the forums or in the chatrooms do people can get a feel for what you’re like. Good luck!

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By *-jonMan  over a year ago

London

So true, it’s such a law of averages. Some wicked chats and meets then absolutely nothing on other occasions. Especially when you catch a hot list profile. I wanna see what the groups openers are here… what’s a cracking opener you see successful responses with… share away…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays."

Continued

And the straight simp men HATE the fact gay/bi males are getting loads of the cock fun and the straight simp man is getting no fanny fun whatsoever. They will even go as far as to change their status to 'I wish men would stop winking/messaging me' in the hope a woman will notice his status and she will come down with her golden, shiny vagina to rescue him from the supposed gay/bi stalker men who are winking at him even though in realty they are not.

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays.

Continued

And the straight simp men HATE the fact gay/bi males are getting loads of the cock fun and the straight simp man is getting no fanny fun whatsoever. They will even go as far as to change their status to 'I wish men would stop winking/messaging me' in the hope a woman will notice his status and she will come down with her golden, shiny vagina to rescue him from the supposed gay/bi stalker men who are winking at him even though in realty they are not."

Thats funny

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi OP.... Firstly I'd remove the very close up dick pic profile photo & replace it with a hot bod pic....

I never chat to close up zoomed in profile dick pics ever ....I just can't take someone seriously if they expect to continue conversing to his dick

Think of it....how many men would continue to chat to a vagina only photo in all honesty....

Saying that I know you have a face pic uploaded on your profile too....but defo replace the Dick

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Hi OP.... Firstly I'd remove the very close up dick pic profile photo & replace it with a hot bod pic....

I never chat to close up zoomed in profile dick pics ever ....I just can't take someone seriously if they expect to continue conversing to his dick

Thankyou

Think of it....how many men would continue to chat to a vagina only photo in all honesty....

Saying that I know you have a face pic uploaded on your profile too....but defo replace the Dick"

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

"

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman  over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

"

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

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By *udy3Man  over a year ago

Corby


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!"

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”"

Yawn

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman  over a year ago

London (She/Her)


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”"

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”"

Heres some genuine advice.

Reread what you just wrote there. Read it several times, and if you are smart enough, you’ll figure out the difference between people like you on here always moaning they can’t get anything, and people like me on here, who do extremely well. I’ll give you a clue it’s about attitude.

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By *udy3Man  over a year ago

Corby


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”

Heres some genuine advice.

Reread what you just wrote there. Read it several times, and if you are smart enough, you’ll figure out the difference between people like you on here always moaning they can’t get anything, and people like me on here, who do extremely well. I’ll give you a clue it’s about attitude."

Don’t give me all your secrets , I’m waiting for your autobiography to come out .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”

Heres some genuine advice.

Reread what you just wrote there. Read it several times, and if you are smart enough, you’ll figure out the difference between people like you on here always moaning they can’t get anything, and people like me on here, who do extremely well. I’ll give you a clue it’s about attitude."

Which is odd, because from the couple of messages you've posted in this thread, I'd have said your attitude was pretty appalling.

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By *ndtheswingersMan  over a year ago

colchester


"

Don’t give me all your secrets , I’m waiting for your autobiography to come out . "

Mate, you were the one asking for some advice, MrHN gave you some and you seem to be taking the piss out of it.

I don't know either of you but he has a lot of profile and 40 odd veris, you have not much of a profile and no veris.

It's almost like if your profile has stuff on there to give people a clue about you, they might be more willing to meet?

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By *uicyBBC8Man  over a year ago

Medway

The simple truth is ladies just go for who they are attracted to. You'll surely get one at the right time. Keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just go to a few clubs and socials, great way to meet people and then who knows what may come of it.

I definitely concur with changing your profile pic though…read quite a few profiles from the ladies of late and a most of them tend to say the same thing…’do not contact me if your profile pic is of your dick’

CHANGE IT..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays."

Lmao

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Just go to a few clubs and socials, great way to meet people and then who knows what may come of it.

I definitely concur with changing your profile pic though…read quite a few profiles from the ladies of late and a most of them tend to say the same thing…’do not contact me if your profile pic is of your dick’

CHANGE IT..!!!"

Cheers mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t "

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it ....

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By *ink vixenCouple  over a year ago

Medway

Cock as a profile picture = instant delete unread for us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it .... "

Happens all the time ha .

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By *ubcdverykinkyMan  over a year ago

Bourne lincs

The site is full of people with no pics or verification s. And loads have been on here for over a yr and still no pics or a meet. There is gen on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

It's almost like if your profile has stuff on there to give people a clue about you, they might be more willing to meet? "

I just can't get over him giving his "PEACE of mind." Was it intentional? I'm 100% not at piece with it. Now that I've said my peace, I'll be off to eat some pies.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it .... "

Yeah that’s a valid point. He won’t change it! I don’t even read the penis profiles, I wouldn’t want the association, sad but true! x

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it .... "

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it .... "

I will be sorting shortly haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it ....

I will be sorting shortly haha "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any advice for me also "

Your smiling pics are cool.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it ....

I will be sorting shortly haha "

Yay he’s done it

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By *alandNitaCouple  over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Ive been on here nearly a year now and am finding it reslly hard in finding people that want to meet , im from south yorkshire and just want to meet someone and have regular fun ??"

Many women are put off by profiles with multiple of cock pictures, and having your cock on your Profile Picture will stop many from even looking at your profile.

Beyond that, the first thing is to write a good profile. Whilst men generally look at photo's first whilst searching on here, women most often read the profile text first so it is crucial to use that to present yourself in the best possible way... positivity is always a bonus.

The next thing to consider is how you message. In general, sexual messages are not going to get you any where, even though there is a strong sexual element to everything FAB, success on here is much more to do with personality than looks or the size of your cock.

Finally, don't pay any attention to negative advice from empty, un-verified profiles, if they knew what they were talking about they would be getting meets themselves.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There you go

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"The pattern you are failing to notice for success is literally a Boaby in the face. Look at most men here with amazing success and lots of sex- a nice torso pic, a sexy suit, a cheeky towel, even a face pic. Change the profile pic honestly not many women want a verification from a penis profile, some do yeah but most really don’t

^^^^^^^^

This 1,000%....

Thread is a few hrs old & op still has the dick pic up.... something amiss eh....asking for advice & not taking it ....

I will be sorting shortly haha

Yay he’s done it "

Is that better ?

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"There you go "

Better than the cock pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From a quick check of your profile the instant things that would put me off are the anyone free tonight title. Conflicts against the happy to chat.

The Snapchat bit screams teenager but your in your 30s

And your likes /dislikes ie ass (again something I imagine my 21yr old and his friends would write) where as someone with sexual maturity would say what they mean by 'Ass' oh and the plain boring sex bit makes me think you would want whatever partner to constantly perform like a porn star so again screams sexual immaturity.

The positives are that you have a face pic and you have attempted to write a profile.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan  over a year ago

London


"Ive been on here nearly a year now and am finding it reslly hard in finding people that want to meet , im from south yorkshire and just want to meet someone and have regular fun ??"

Took me nearly 2years to get a meet on this site

Haven’t had one in 4. My advice? Be tactical...

*Only message women when they’re ONLINE. That way you won’t get buried in the mix next time they log back on.

*Work on your ice-breakers

*Stay local

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By *TG3Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Ive been on here nearly a year now and am finding it reslly hard in finding people that want to meet , im from south yorkshire and just want to meet someone and have regular fun ??"
well you can't surely you know that by now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get rid of the cock shots and switch up your photos.

You can always add then to private or friends only. The pic of you smiling is much more appealing.

I prefer to read about someones personality instead of a list of likes and dislikes. What do you look for in someone and value.

What do you mean by boring sex? What is your definition of that .

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By *2000ManMan  over a year ago

Worthing

More men than women on here. Join in with forum/cam room chat and get noticed. Good luck op!

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Mayfair


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays.

Continued

And the straight simp men HATE the fact gay/bi males are getting loads of the cock fun and the straight simp man is getting no fanny fun whatsoever. They will even go as far as to change their status to 'I wish men would stop winking/messaging me' in the hope a woman will notice his status and she will come down with her golden, shiny vagina to rescue him from the supposed gay/bi stalker men who are winking at him even though in realty they are not."

I genuinely look forward to reading your memoirs because there are times when such far-fetched and outlandish anecdotes are enough to keep the average sane person sufficiently entertained. †

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”

Heres some genuine advice.

Reread what you just wrote there. Read it several times, and if you are smart enough, you’ll figure out the difference between people like you on here always moaning they can’t get anything, and people like me on here, who do extremely well. I’ll give you a clue it’s about attitude.

Which is odd, because from the couple of messages you've posted in this thread, I'd have said your attitude was pretty appalling. "

It doesn’t matter though because you’re not my type and I don't find you attractive.

Not everyone has to like everyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ive been on here nearly a year now and am finding it reslly hard in finding people that want to meet , im from south yorkshire and just want to meet someone and have regular fun ??"

You might be doing nothing wrong, you might be doing a lot long

Fabs is 1 part numbers game, 1 part physical appearances, 1 part effort

The amount of effort you need ti put in will depend on how lucky you get in the other 2 departments

If your 6’2 shredded, tattoos and hung, you’ll probably have couples messaging you

If you aren’t those things, your probably gonna have to send a lot of first messages with a lot of effort being put into them to get a reply

You might have to attend socials and clubs too, they help your chances

And there’s plenty of guys on here that’ll never get a meet, no matter how hard they try. No nice way to say it, some people aren’t gonna make it happen

The trick of a figuring out if the juice is worth the squeeze on here for you. For some it is, for some it isn’t

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Get rid of the cock shots and switch up your photos.

You can always add then to private or friends only. The pic of you smiling is much more appealing.

I prefer to read about someones personality instead of a list of likes and dislikes. What do you look for in someone and value.

What do you mean by boring sex? What is your definition of that ."

Great advice thankyou

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan  over a year ago

A den in the Glen

You are never going to please everyone. Some women like dick pics some don't. Some like tattoos and beard some don't. Some like a humorous bio some don't.

Depends how you wish to come across.

I take myself very seriously and all my pictures and bio reflect this. I literally get hundreds of messages and have to beat them off with a shitty stick.

Good luck. Be yourself, take appropriate advice, listen to the women on here because that is your 'market'. Don't listen to bellends like me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s not wrong or right, it’s just things will work for you and other things that will work for others.

For everyone that says Don’t have a dick avatar, there’s a guy with a dick avatar getting laid.

Just be yourself I, and do your own thing.

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"It’s not wrong or right, it’s just things will work for you and other things that will work for others.

For everyone that says Don’t have a dick avatar, there’s a guy with a dick avatar getting laid.

Just be yourself I, and do your own thing. "

Wise man

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By *eyond PurityCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Your tag line ‘anyone free tonight?’ suggests you aren’t looking to build connections - you are just here for quick sex.

When you aren’t getting replies or able to build connections, it’ll be you and how you are coming across. You need to sell yourself on here the right way as you get one chance and then people will move on to the next profile, if something looks odd or amiss.

K

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By *nowwhatiwant85 OP   Man  over a year ago

rotherham


"Your tag line ‘anyone free tonight?’ suggests you aren’t looking to build connections - you are just here for quick sex.

When you aren’t getting replies or able to build connections, it’ll be you and how you are coming across. You need to sell yourself on here the right way as you get one chance and then people will move on to the next profile, if something looks odd or amiss.

K"

Thankyou for the advice

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere else


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"99% of straight men on here simp over women. Women ignore the straight simp men so the straight simp men take their anger out on gays. is that so

No, that’s not so.

I thought so haha

The truth is, it’s a numbers game on here. Women get 100s messages a day - can be over a 1000 - there’s no way she can even read through that many. The longer she spends reading and replying the more messages come in!

This just isn’t true. Women are not stupid then respond to messages they want to no matter now many they get and they even initiate contact with men.

But It makes men feel better to believe its numbers , it takes away any responsibility for the lack of success.

Thank goodness a man has arrived to correct me on what women do! Phew!

Thank god he said women aren’t stupid first tho.

Almost the same as “I’m not racist but…”

Heres some genuine advice.

Reread what you just wrote there. Read it several times, and if you are smart enough, you’ll figure out the difference between people like you on here always moaning they can’t get anything, and people like me on here, who do extremely well. I’ll give you a clue it’s about attitude.

Don’t give me all your secrets , I’m waiting for your autobiography to come out . "

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