Practice with toys until you're taking them easily.
Remember to relax your bum hole as much as possible.
Make sure you're in the mood, trying to stick a dildo up your bum when you don't really fancy it is just no fun.
Lube obviously |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x"
Be fussy who you do it with.
They need to be patient, gentle, communicative, and not hung like a blue whale. |
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"Hi guys I've been bi years I've topped always .I'd like to try taking but worried it will hurt .any tips would be welcome thank you x
Finger your own ass in the shower.
Didn't work for me."
Lol. I saw this thread title, thought instantly of your shower thread....and here you are with your confessions.
Comedy genius Brucey.
How do I do the animated laughing emoji - you've earned a load of those tonight  (gosh - hope the thumbs don't trigger nasty flashbacks for you  ) |
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Get with an understanding play partner. Take it slow with loads of lube. Be prepared that you may get a tare. Make sure extra strong condoms are used for safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some good advice in here.
I'd emphasize that learning how to douche is important to give you confidence and comfort knowing that you won't have an embarrassing accident.
. Use plenty of lube.
Have an understanding partner.
Be into it and try and relax.
Quality condom.
Practice on your own before hand. Not right before but practice over time until you find the right person |
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Would anyone mind sending me a message so I can ask them some questions and get some advice? I'm in the run up to this happening myself as well but have some questions that would be good to have answered beforehand. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"Would anyone mind sending me a message so I can ask them some questions and get some advice? I'm in the run up to this happening myself as well but have some questions that would be good to have answered beforehand. Thank you "
Just play with yourself you know your limits and keep testing them.. you might surprise yourself! |
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"Would anyone mind sending me a message so I can ask them some questions and get some advice? I'm in the run up to this happening myself as well but have some questions that would be good to have answered beforehand. Thank you
Just play with yourself you know your limits and keep testing them.. you might surprise yourself!"
I've been doing that for a while but I'm guessing there is a difference between how a dildo feels compared to an actual cock while someone is fucking you |
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By *TG3Man 35 weeks ago
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"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well "
exactly take the skin off the banana potassium is good for you  |
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Put a but plug in for about twenty minutes every few days. Use a doosh first.
When it comes to the main event relaxation is going to help. If not then your arsehole may want to reject so use your arse muscles to push down, we all know how to use those muscles.
HTH someone. |
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"Put a but plug in for about twenty minutes every few days. Use a doosh first.
When it comes to the main event relaxation is going to help. If not then your arsehole may want to reject so use your arse muscles to push down, we all know how to use those muscles.
HTH someone."
Hth? |
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"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well "
Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.
Corn on the cob hurts.
Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.
Make sure it’s not massively curved.
Cucumbers are good.
Make anal beads with little tomatoes.
Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.
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"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well
Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.
Corn on the cob hurts.
Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.
Make sure it’s not massively curved.
Cucumbers are good.
Make anal beads with little tomatoes.
Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.
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I'm guessing this is from experience? I have never even imagined tomatoes as anal beads lol |
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By (user no longer on site) 35 weeks ago
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"I don't think for even a second I could get up to a butternut squash lol... But fruit isn't a bad idea though. Might go to the shop tomorrow and pick up a banana, maybe even a cucumber as well
Here’s some fruit and vegetable advice that you didn’t ask for.
Corn on the cob hurts.
Plantains (smaller ones) are better than bananas.
Make sure it’s not massively curved.
Cucumbers are good.
Make anal beads with little tomatoes.
Thai aubergine if you must have aubergine tossing your salad as they’re long and thin not the bulbous massive ones.
I'm guessing this is from experience? I have never even imagined tomatoes as anal beads lol"
Pfft! Just things I’ve read or heard. |
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- Start small and work your way up
- practice makes perfect .. potentially helps just before .. helps you relax 
- relax and don’t tense up
- stop if it hurts!
- use plenty of lube … I have an anal syringe which helps here.
…. Enjoy
R xx |
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Assuming the same is true for both men and women as I have only had anal with a woman, the following is my thoughts:
Does the person want to… mutual desire is not only essential and important if is a qualifier.
Trust is vital. It is going to be very slow and may stop at any time. No pressure. There is always tomorrow.
Lube. More lube. And then more lube.
Relax… no rushing.
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By *ascaIMan 35 weeks ago
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"Start small….
Broom handle first
Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….
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"Start small….
Broom handle first
Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….
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This should be added to FAQ section of fab! |
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It's probably because you think it's going too hurt so you tense up and there by making it hurt.
You need to relax body and mind.
Get a butt starter kit and get use to have something in your arse both physically and mentally. Once you gotta over that then work up to dildos and then the real thing.
All ways use a good quality lube and plenty of it and a bit more. |
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"Start small….
Broom handle first
Then can of deodorant or Sky remote followed by a 2 litre bottle of Coke before moving on to a full sized rugby ball….
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I'm never going to pick up a client's Sky remote ever again. |
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