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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Where do you draw the line on demands or requests that people make on here:
Send me a face pic or you’ll be blocked - but they have none
Send me code for membership
I had one ask me for money for a sofa as they were a hundred pounds short if I wanted to continue talking to them
I also had one recently telling me that I was not allowed to talk to anyone else as we were talking, we had not even met
How much more tolerant are we thinking it may get us a meet? Is it because people feel they can get away with it
For me everything is mutual. I treat people with respect and hope for the same back, hope not demand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I believe that people not only think they can get away with it but they also mostly feel there is nothing wrong with it. Heh.
You might as well pay for someone's trains and hotels to come and see you or meet others, but they can still spend that money to go elsewhere or simply carry on with their life. Just don't expect anything. Otherwise it would be more like an es*cort service/website right? Best to assume that they owe you nothing but thank you for your naivety/kindness.
It's a shocking world out there full of transactional 'friendships'.
T. |
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In seven years I've never once been asked for money or favours.
In regards to demands on profiles I just don't engage with them at all.
If you are continually getting demands from those you are chatting to maybe it's time you reviewed how you vet those you interact with.
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We aren’t here to jump through hoops.
The only request we ask is that if a couple message and there’s only pics of Mrs on the profile, that they send a couple of Mr.
Seems reasonable if they are both wanting to play but some times seems that we’ve asked for their bank details 
Everything on here is a filtering tool
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are continually getting demands from those you are chatting to maybe it's time you reviewed how you vet those you interact with.
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This. You don't need many friends/fwb. You just need a few loyal ones.
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If you are continually getting demands from those you are chatting to maybe it's time you reviewed how you vet those you interact with.
This. You don't need many friends/fwb. You just need a few loyal ones.
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That's very demanding of you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are continually getting demands from those you are chatting to maybe it's time you reviewed how you vet those you interact with.
This. You don't need many friends/fwb. You just need a few loyal ones.
That's very demanding of you "
Haha I meant - do not clutch at all the straws
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly if anyone asks for money or gifts report them.
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I used to do this. There’s far too much of it now, it’s impossible. it would be a full time job for a guy..
Joking aside, it’s ridiculous, I’ve had it at least three times since I’ve been back. I draw the line at this op.
Alf lots of others you mentioned in your opening post. The hypocrisy is high amongst a lot of profiles in here. |
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"Firstly if anyone asks for money or gifts report them.
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I used to do this. There’s far too much of it now, it’s impossible. it would be a full time job for a guy..
Joking aside, it’s ridiculous, I’ve had it at least three times since I’ve been back. I draw the line at this op.
Alf lots of others you mentioned in your opening post. The hypocrisy is high amongst a lot of profiles in here. "
Is this because I asked for a tenner to wank you off behind Aldi? |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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Money for a sofa lol that's original.
I see people asking for site support on status all the time.
Gotta ask yourself how gullible people are to pay thinking they will get something out of it |
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It's crazy that people would ask you to pay for their sofa because they were short. What a cheek!
We've seen a lot of the site supporter pass status updates which we find odd as well.
We treat people how we would want to be treated.
Like others have said, block and move on. You've probably dodged a bullet OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi OP, yes I've heard that before....women expecting men not to chat to anyone else if they are chatting & going berserk if they do....that's bunny boiler sh*t.... |
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"Yes, I believe that people not only think they can get away with it but they also mostly feel there is nothing wrong with it. Heh.
You might as well pay for someone's trains and hotels to come and see you or meet others, but they can still spend that money to go elsewhere or simply carry on with their life. Just don't expect anything. Otherwise it would be more like an es*cort service/website right? Best to assume that they owe you nothing but thank you for your naivety/kindness.
It's a shocking world out there full of transactional 'friendships'.
T. "
It seems to me that’s what a lot of site users think this is.  |
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"Firstly if anyone asks for money or gifts report them.
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I used to do this. There’s far too much of it now, it’s impossible. it would be a full time job for a guy..
Joking aside, it’s ridiculous, I’ve had it at least three times since I’ve been back. I draw the line at this op.
Alf lots of others you mentioned in your opening post. The hypocrisy is high amongst a lot of profiles in here.
Is this because I asked for a tenner to wank you off behind Aldi?"
*howls with laughter*
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I have no capacity for demands. I'm not very good with authority. Requests I can consider. Requests for pics from some people will be gladly met. Beyond that... i don't think anyone has ever requested anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve not received any demands. Now I feel like there’s some shadowy underworld of fab im not privy too and the whole thing is making me ambivalent in a way only a dfs sofa sake usually can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Firstly if anyone asks for money or gifts report them.
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I used to do this. There’s far too much of it now, it’s impossible. it would be a full time job for a guy..
Joking aside, it’s ridiculous, I’ve had it at least three times since I’ve been back. I draw the line at this op.
Alf lots of others you mentioned in your opening post. The hypocrisy is high amongst a lot of profiles in here.
Is this because I asked for a tenner to wank you off behind Aldi?"
Oh!!! Ffs, I thought you said behind Alfie!!! |
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"Someone asked for money for a sofa?! Wtf  .
Folk are weird. "
Especially when there is enough money down the back of a sofa to pay for a new one. Plus lids, the odd Malteser and other necessary things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone asked for money for a sofa?! Wtf .
Folk are weird.
Especially when there is enough money down the back of a sofa to pay for a new one. Plus lids, the odd Malteser and other necessary things."
I'd love some chocolate right now! Brb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been asked for money but I am a tad demand on face pics. But I can't agree to sex with someone without seeing their face so I'm screwed really aren't I, or not as the case may be. |
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"Demands? Nah. I don’t respond well to them.
Unless I know someone and it’s part of the fun. That’s different. "
Coffee , milk and one sugar, serve wearing nothing but a smile.
Have I cracked this “dom” malarkey then? Lol |
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"We aren’t here to jump through hoops.
The only request we ask is that if a couple message and there’s only pics of Mrs on the profile, that they send a couple of Mr.
Seems reasonable if they are both wanting to play but some times seems that we’ve asked for their bank details
Everything on here is a filtering tool
K"
 exactly this if they seem wrong they probably are. |
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