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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Gooooood morning!
So, ever sit there and think, how did you get HERE. Be that a couple swinging, or single and looking here.
Is monogamy not for you? Just have a high sex drive and it's on your mind alot? Boredom to pass the time?
Do you ever wonder why the whole traditional normal settle down and have a monogamous relationship didn't work out for you personally?
And obviously this isn't a negative thread. Sexy people owning their sexuality?! Two thumbs up from Brucey! |
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I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol
So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples 
Good question Brucey! |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol
So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples
Good question Brucey! "
I love this reply
“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been married and it just never worked out for a multitude of reasons.
I love sex, all sorts of different types of sex. I like meeting new people and swinging works for me.
I have no interest in monogomy anymore.
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"I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol
So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples
Good question Brucey!
I love this reply
“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2”"
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol
So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples
Good question Brucey!
I love this reply
“Struggled getting one woman so thought fuck it I’ll just get 2”"
Me in the supermarket |
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6 years ago A concerned friend, after hearing of my 2 year dry spell, sent me the link for this site with the words “don’t judge me” in the heading so I blame her completely! lol
Tbh, it’s mostly boredom that keeps me coming back.. as yes I’m still single.
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I don’t really ponder it , feels normal.
I can comfortably do swinging, poly, mono, D/s type dynamics it all depends on the person and the adventure.
It’s not about boredom or sex , if I’m bored I’ll learn something new, and I can refrain from sex easily, it’s more about new adventures. |
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When I was at school I knew I was different to my friends. I thought I was weird.
In my early relationships I was never faithful and couldn't understand why. Then I met my ex husband and he was bi and a dirty bustard we involved others in our marriage (this is going back 35 years) when we split up I was having sex with multiple guys 3somesome and more. I'd already had a gang bang.
Then I got the Internet and found swingers sites they where people just like me I wasn't a weirdo after all.
I did some weird, wild and crazy things for the next 20 plus years then I just stopped. Think I burnt myself out. That was about three years ago. Then my partner died last year and I don't want another man near me.
So now I'm only here for the forums with some wonderful memories |
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"I'm not gifted in the looks department so girlfriends were few and far between. Relationships never lasted very long either as most of the women I met responded to my placid nature with craziness lol
So, I've lost interest in dating normally. I would much rather meet a likeminded woman or 2 who wants to quench the fire in their loins every now and then. Simples
Good question Brucey! "
"I'm not gifted in the looks department"
Share your secret please!
I'm struggling to find even 1 woman, let alone 2.
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We were both here as singles, as we both didn’t want a relationship, and enjoyed that side of things.
So when we got together we decided to see what it was like as a couple as we still had a lot of fantasies - so here we are completing them and adding to them and loving it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gooooood morning!
So, ever sit there and think, how did you get HERE. Be that a couple swinging, or single and looking here. "
Yes, I often think a proper dating site would be better. But I don’t trust anyone in there.
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Do you ever wonder why the whole traditional normal settle down and have a monogamous relationship didn't work out for you personally?
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No, I know exactly why that didn’t work out.
The funny thing is, I’d like a monogamous relationship, or at least to a point. (weird, I know. ) Because I can commit to one person, my soul, my heart, my love etc. but it’s the sexual fantasies and exploring together that doesnt work in that 1-1 traditional old fashioned monogamy relationship when you have a very open mind and someone’s isn’t. I dunno, I’ll figure it out one day. |
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