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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I look at the pics first, then look how much text the profile has... Then if it's too long either walk away if the pics did nothing for me, or if they did then I read it.
If it's a short profile I'll give it a read regardless, curiosity really. Never know when something might win you over - but if that profile looks like too much effort to read if I'm not interested to begin with... Enjoy your life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone messages me first, I look at the photos 
But if I'm messaging someone first, I read the profile so I know I'm not wasting my time if I'm not their type |
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"I look at the pics first, then look how much text the profile has... Then if it's too long either walk away if the pics did nothing for me, or if they did then I read it.
If it's a short profile I'll give it a read regardless, curiosity really. Never know when something might win you over - but if that profile looks like too much effort to read if I'm not interested to begin with... Enjoy your life! "
I get this. This is me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a lad but if it fits more than the size of my phone screen I get slightly disinterested in most cases. I like it succinctly put. Not a waffling fan.
Tones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Check pics/location
Then read.
Then ignore all comments that rule me out
No single m? BBC only? Not meeting? Gotcha
Send message.
Hi wanna meet?
No luck yet but I'm confident |
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Pics first, then have a quick neb at the profile. I’m not a heathen.
If it’s a long profile that could take 5-10 minutes reading then I’ll save myself some time and go back to the pictures, will then spend a good 20-30 minutes going through them, because why not?? |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Do you read profiles or just look at the pictures?"
I read its must of your messaging for a future meet. Plus side can be funny/arousing/interesting to read. And of course have a perv over the pictures can't go a miss either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait, there's words to go with the pretty pictures? "
But I would always read before messaging. The profile text is as important as the pictures and should not be ignored! |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Both. Though in truth, anything over four paragraphs has to be entertaining, not just a flat elongated warning to dickheads."
Yeah you know those profiles that are basically just a big, fat rulebook? Puts you right off. Especially when there are by far more don'ts than do's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you read profiles or just look at the pictures?"
Doesn't matter if they message or I go to the page. I'll always read the profile and look at the pictures. I'll often read it more than once just incase I've missed something. How else to you draft a meaningful message if you don't read the profile? |
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"Do you read profiles or just look at the pictures?
Doesn't matter if they message or I go to the page. I'll always read the profile and look at the pictures. I'll often read it more than once just incase I've missed something. How else to you draft a meaningful message if you don't read the profile? "
Do you not just copy and paste?  |
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I default to looking at their photos because more often than not they have little, if anything, to go by when it comes to narrative on their profiles. And this is usually the ones who are messaging me. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Do you read profiles or just look at the pictures?
Doesn't matter if they message or I go to the page. I'll always read the profile and look at the pictures. I'll often read it more than once just incase I've missed something. How else to you draft a meaningful message if you don't read the profile?
Do you not just copy and paste? "
That being said: You normally have nothing to go on even after reading the profiles lol. It's not like you suddenly have a meaning for your message after reading all the things you shouldn't be or do.
"Hey fair lady, let me assure you I am not under 5ft9, and I am not married or attached, and I do only play with rubber." wow. very meaning. such deep. much wow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at pics first....if I really like the pics... I'll read bio then.... normally I just scan bios quickly...I won't read very long boring Ones though.... |
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"Check pics/location
Then read.
Then ignore all comments that rule me out
No single m? BBC only? Not meeting? Gotcha
Send message.
Hi wanna meet?
No luck yet but I'm confident "
 you never know if you don’t try |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I’m just having a perv, often (but not exclusively) pics only.
If someone really catches my eye or if I want to message them, absolutely read their profile. |
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Nothing disappoints me as much as a profile without description or just the sydney University nonsense without any content. Lack of pictures, I can put up with if there is a promise that pictures will be shared before we meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo read the file , and then ya know to send a message or not , ok tuen I do look at pictures and might take the time to trow out a compliment or two.
It don’t hurt to be nice now and then does it ? |
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I read a profile if a comment made or status intrigues me. Then read carefully between the lines, like reading the small print, pics come last. I don't mind messages from anyone but is nice to receive them from compatible people, if the purpose of the message is about meets. If on the other hand is fab Thursday then fabs are based on pics and pics alone.  |
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If they have any photos, then yes.
If they don't have any public photos, then no, unless they are like within a mile.
Exception with profiles without public photo, when it says in the title:
" Not picky"
" No BBC, prefer average"
" Sorry, anal only"
" Don't want my pussy licked for hours, but I love to suck a cock for ages"
" Want to dominate men"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually really enjoy reading the profiles as some can be rather funny (in a good way).
Hiding sarcastic or nerdy jokes in between things as well as having conversation starters. |
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"Do you read profiles or just look at the pictures?
Doesn't matter if they message or I go to the page. I'll always read the profile and look at the pictures. I'll often read it more than once just incase I've missed something. How else to you draft a meaningful message if you don't read the profile?
Do you not just copy and paste?
That being said: You normally have nothing to go on even after reading the profiles lol. It's not like you suddenly have a meaning for your message after reading all the things you shouldn't be or do.
"Hey fair lady, let me assure you I am not under 5ft9, and I am not married or attached, and I do only play with rubber." wow. very meaning. such deep. much wow. "
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"If they have any photos, then yes.
If they don't have any public photos, then no, unless they are like within a mile.
Exception with profiles without public photo, when it says in the title:
" Not picky"
" No BBC, prefer average"
" Sorry, anal only"
" Don't want my pussy licked for hours, but I love to suck a cock for ages"
" Want to dominate men"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at the pics first, then look how much text the profile has... Then if it's too long either walk away if the pics did nothing for me, or if they did then I read it.
If it's a short profile I'll give it a read regardless, curiosity really. Never know when something might win you over - but if that profile looks like too much effort to read if I'm not interested to begin with... Enjoy your life! "
So do you class yours as long or short …just out of interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'What you reading for?!'
I just like to see if they look/sound interesting and fun to be around, I can't always tell. However when I am looking I think, it certainly helps eliminate the ones we definitely have no interest in getting to know a little quicker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's always a rush to msg people while they're still online - so often there isn't time for a proper read! 
I hope you don't rush your decisions at work lollipop man"
Every time, pal.
Sometimes I think I wasn't cut out to fly this airliner. |
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haha. 
