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Presents FWB/Play partners?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Should you, would you give your FWB a present this festive season?
I’m trying to suss out what the done thing is. (Appreciate there’s no one fits all.)
Relative new FWB of a few months versus long term play partner? Is there a difference for who to give a pressie to or not?
Won’t see one another during Christmas but will week before and week after. Does that make any difference as well?
Next question, should it be a matter of chocolates and a bottle or a coupon for a blowjob that will bring in 2024 memorably be best? |
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Personally I think it depends if it’s a just sex thing or genuine friendship in the real world you do “normal” stuff with.
Id not be buying someone you’re friendly with who you have sex with on the quiet on a regular basis.
Id buy a really good friend who I spend lots of social time with and know my friends, family and real life stuff. |
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Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.
I'd go for the blow job coupon option. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.
I'd go for the blow job coupon option. "
My exact thought. The horror makes me think about what to do in anticipation and to plan. I’d be horrified if he bought me a present and I’m empty handed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it matters. FWB is a relationship out of the social construct but still very important. "
I don’t consider him a FWB more so a friend. We just happen to share real life, intimacy, and fancy fucking too.
I just feel he will give this thought and bring me a present. I don’t quite know what I’d give him. I feel shite at choosing pressies best when someone says exactly what they’d like. |
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"Personally I wouldn't but the horror of being given a gift and not having one to reciprocate with would make me keep something wrapped and ready in the car so I could rush out and get it.
I'd go for the blow job coupon option.
My exact thought. The horror makes me think about what to do in anticipation and to plan. I’d be horrified if he bought me a present and I’m empty handed. "
Wrapped and ready it is then. I have a friend who seems to know exactly what to buy people while I flounder about in shops changing my mind. I try and settle for the tried and tested, chocolate or alcohol now unless I know exactly what they want |
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We are a FWB couple, I N will be getting a little something for A but that's just me I won't expect anything back or be one bit disappointed if I don't receive anything, I just want to show a little appreciation of having her in my life, she makes a great friend as well as a great play partner so why not. N |
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Yeah I’d buy them a little gift or do something a bit sexy for them - a massage voucher - a BJ voucher - or just wearing something that you know they love you in - something that shows you’ve thought about them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to. However I wouldn't these days as I am not that close to anyone nor would I let anyone get that close to me. I guess only you know what the dynamic is between you both. |
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