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By *rishb26 OP Man
over a year ago
kilkenny area |
I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone  |
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I can only speak for myself. I have a son in his thirties and a son in law in his mid thirties. It wouldn't feel right to me. Add to that I find it very hard to believe a man 40 years younger than me would genuinely find me attractive.
It's not personal  |
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I got told I need a cougar a few days ago, by a woman who was older than me.
She wasn't being persuasive either. I asked if she was being suggestive - she said no she'd tear me to shreds.
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"I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone "
Have you asked them? Everyone will have a different reason  |
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By *rishb26 OP Man
over a year ago
kilkenny area |
"I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone
Have you asked them? Everyone will have a different reason "
Well I can’t if they have messages blocked due to the preferences, and besides that’s why I have asked on here for people to share |
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"I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone "
Got to be older than my oldest kid for me otherwise it's too weird... Just my preference |
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By *rishb26 OP Man
over a year ago
kilkenny area |
"Because they usually don’t know the difference between cockiness and confidence IMO.
The first to get arsey and nasty when you say no"
Yeah this is what I assumed was the main reason for it, which is sad to hear. Good to hear all the different opinions on it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many reasons but mostly older men have more their shit together and don't wanna marry me."
Ok, I don't want to marry you and.....
I've yet to get my shit together..... but it's close, soooo close |
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By *rishb26 OP Man
over a year ago
kilkenny area |
"I just don't want to meet someone that is roughly the same age as my children. To me it just feels wrong sorry.
Xx"
No need to say sorry! I posted this to discuss it, but I am appreciating the discussion. Everyone has their preferences! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
Hmmmm a few reasons.. My son and his friends are young men. It's hard to remove myself from that. I feel like a mum figure.. It's not a sexy thought.
Young men who fancy older women are possibly fetishising them.. I don't want to be a bucket list tick off or a fetish. Attraction is more sexy when it's authentic rather than fantasy.
Connection.. I find experience, maturity, wisdom comes with age. Better communication.
I know some young men are wise beautiful souls. I would consider younger in an organic situation but on here I need to keep my filters tight. My inbox is full enough!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone "
Because it’s their preference they don’t need any more of a reason than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My oldest son is 21. To me he is a child. I therefore see all men in their 20s as 'children' to me....and to be fair many act it. I've always had a preference for older men but now I'm getting old I don't mind a slight bit younger but 30 is my cut off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For the same reason that younger people (myself included) will exclude old people. It just feels weird shagging someone the same age as my parents and even grandparents, I imagine its the same with the roles reversed. My parents are in their early 40s. It's why when people msg me or approach me in clubs and stuff, if they're late 30s/early 40s then I just tell them that they're older than my mum and it usually sends them away pretty quickly. I make sure to do it in a higher pitched tone aswell to reallllly set in the cringe factor. |
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"I’ve noticed quite a few people have their age preference to exclude “younger” men, is there any reason why? I’m curious but respect people’s personal preferences, I’m not trying to persuade anyone "
I don't want to play with anyone too close in age to my own children. |
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By *fdTMan
over a year ago
Bradford |
"I can only speak for myself. I have a son in his thirties and a son in law in his mid thirties. It wouldn't feel right to me. Add to that I find it very hard to believe a man 40 years younger than me would genuinely find me attractive.
It's not personal "
Its more common than you think, I find you very attractive, more so than some of the younger ladies on this site, I'm not saying there not pretty far from and just a mature woman has that ummmmph about her,
Stay beautiful ?? |
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I have an internal ick below a certain age. Like, that person is too child like, child is inappropriate category for that stuff, brain refuses to consider in that category.
So I set a hard lower limit because... I know that young adults are still adults, I know it's irrational, but my brain still goes ick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My age filters have quite a big gap.
I judge my choices on more than merely age.
I wouldn't want to meet someone my son's age etc though so I get why others would filter those ages out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the same reason that younger people (myself included) will exclude old people. It just feels weird shagging someone the same age as my parents and even grandparents, I imagine its the same with the roles reversed. My parents are in their early 40s. It's why when people msg me or approach me in clubs and stuff, if they're late 30s/early 40s then I just tell them that they're older than my mum and it usually sends them away pretty quickly. I make sure to do it in a higher pitched tone aswell to reallllly set in the cringe factor. "
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread. "
Hopefully not me! 
My children are still quite young, still teenagers, one not even there yet, so I don’t have the problem mentioned so much on this thread… dunno, ask me in 7-10 years?
I think it’s just a matter of preference. Older men do nothing for me…. |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Hopefully not me!
My children are still quite young, still teenagers, one not even there yet, so I don’t have the problem mentioned so much on this thread… dunno, ask me in 7-10 years?
I think it’s just a matter of preference. Older men do nothing for me…. "
No I like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a lot of people it's about maturity levels.
I don't find immaturity sexy.
I find older guys more immature than some younger guys on here. "
Hence my age range.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread. "
Wow, that did not sound like the affable Mr Pickle who used to be on the site.
Not sure any of the 'older women' made comments that would render them 'unattractive', most of the comments were honest answers about preferences based on how old their kids were. |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Wow, that did not sound like the affable Mr Pickle who used to be on the site.
Not sure any of the 'older women' made comments that would render them 'unattractive', most of the comments were honest answers about preferences based on how old their kids were."
Sorry for expressing my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it. "
The young uns are so polite and fuckable. |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable. "
Did you understand the reference  |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference "
Don’t worry if you didn’t. Most people on this website don’t get my meme reference. |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference "
old man shouts at cloud dot gif |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
Don’t worry if you didn’t. Most people on this website don’t get my meme reference. "
Was it from the 80's? If not... no. |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
Don’t worry if you didn’t. Most people on this website don’t get my meme reference.
Was it from the 80's? If not... no. "
Forever young *waves cigarette lighter, knees creak* |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
old man shouts at cloud dot gif"
I understood that reference |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
Don’t worry if you didn’t. Most people on this website don’t get my meme reference.
Was it from the 80's? If not... no. "
Older women become less and less attractive to me everyday on here. |
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"Any guys younger than my kids is just a no no
And the fact you might be even younger than you're claiming is also a worry"
Saying that tho, I did meet someone who blew me away , so I lowered my age preference. Sex was amazing |
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
old man shouts at cloud dot gif
I understood that reference "
oh god Simpsons is becoming an historical reference.
I quit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve never found some of the older women I like on here more unattractive than I have after after reading this thread.
Why?
Don’t worry about it, sweetheart. Don’t worry about it.
The young uns are so polite and fuckable.
Did you understand the reference
old man shouts at cloud dot gif
I understood that reference
oh god Simpsons is becoming an historical reference.
I quit."
I did not understand the reference. Sampsons were lost on me. Now Wile E. Coyote and the Road Runner, that's a different kettle of fish. |
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But specifically, if I'm old enough to be their mother it is a no to even flirty chat.
