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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all… I guess the question should be is it bi to like cock but not fancy men… it’s certainly not heterosexual!"
I look at some women and sort of fancy them. I can see a woman think she’s gorgeous. But I’m gay. Does this make me straight? |
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But do women do anything for you sexually? I can look at David Beckham and think he’s a fine specimen of a man but he doesn’t do anything for me sexually.
Looking at a nice cock, however, gets me hard lol |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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I think gay is being attracted to people of the same genitals as you. Unless you're also attracted to the opposite genitals too.. Which is bisexual..and there are more delightful names and identifications for the way we love, attract, sex and romance.
We live in a wonderful world where people can choose their own title/definition for their own sexuality.. or name how they identify according to what feels natural and right for them. Whether that be cellular and life long.. Or a moment in time.
Me.. Im female, she, her.. I tend to have my intimate/romantic relationships with men, I'm non monogamous, I fancy humans in general, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. Someone will have an up to date label for me.
Bipansexyhetromantic something.
I think it's up to the individual to define themselves if they want to.. And we can be with them all the way.
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over a year ago
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Being gay means liking men. Not cock, men. The muscle mass, the way they walk, their cologne, boyish humour, their energy, their demeanour, their masculinity. |
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Bipansexyhetromantic lol love it.
You’re absolutely right. We all like different things and it just makes us different. We can’t fit in boxes that say, I like cock therefore I must like men. Fact is I don’t like men.
But a beautifully shaped penis turns me on.
Go figure. |
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Finding some part ofr more of others is an aspect of sexual orientation. If you like all genders not just cock, you may be bi or pan.
We don't always like all parts of someone equally. Enjoy what you do like. Humans evolved before and without labels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, so gay!
But you do have an awesome cock!
Thanks. I'm definitely only commenting because the World needs to appreciate this beast"
It’s fab so it’ll more likely be guys appreciating |
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"Yes, so gay!
But you do have an awesome cock!
Thanks. I'm definitely only commenting because the World needs to appreciate this beast
It’s fab so it’ll more likely be guys appreciating "
If other guys are envious it can't be too terrible. But this penis is a one vagina (at a time) kinda guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, so gay!
But you do have an awesome cock!
Thanks. I'm definitely only commenting because the World needs to appreciate this beast
It’s fab so it’ll more likely be guys appreciating
If other guys are envious it can't be too terrible. But this penis is a one vagina (at a time) kinda guy "
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"I mean I get turned on at the sight of cock. Never had sex with a cock, never really wanted to.
But have sucked one and loved it. "
1. No it's not gay to be turned on at the sight of cock. You have a cock and seeing another one makes you think of yours in action , that's all. No more no less.
2. Now that's gay alright. You suck cock , there's no avoiding your gayness.
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There are variations of this thread daily with always similar responces. Yes it is gay or at least bi, not necessarily as sexuality is a long a varied spectrum and the one I personally like is to be who you are, enjoy what you do and there is not always a need for labels unless you like to give one yourself. I don't believe in telling others what they are even if I have my own opinion. Enjoy whatever feels good for you.  |
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"Big is beautiful, no?"
Thank you Steve  .
I think it is surprisingly common for men to be sexually bi (they like cock) but romantically straight (they’re not interested in the man behind the cock). I’m not sure why the stereotype is that women are more likely to be a bit bi when this blended sexual orientation seems to prevalent in men. |
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I was definitely of the view that women were more likely to be bi… until I got into my 30s and started to get turned on by penises.
Now I definitely think guys are more likely to be bi.
Oh how the tables have turned! |
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"Going to have to break this to my wife now lol"
Hi …If you press reply and quote people will know who your talking to .. ..Do you fancy men in general or do you just like sucking cock when your horny ? … |
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"Going to have to break this to my wife now lolHi …If you press reply and quote people will know who your talking to .. ..Do you fancy men in general or do you just like sucking cock when your horny ? …"
Oh so that’s what I’m missing lol. I don’t fancy men in general, just like sucking cock when I’m horny, which is always! |
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"My cock is awesome. Does that make me gay? I don't wish to touch anyone else's
I’m big. Just thought I’d take this opportunity to point that out. Everyone, please carry on as before! "
Trixie,
Your cock is big ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There should be a distinction made between being "emotionally attracted", "physically attracted", "still excited but must be in the presence of a woman", "unattracted" and the opposite spectrum: "repulsed".
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"The Sexuality tick box should be removed from profiles. The Looking For tick box covers it.
In 2024 the word 'sexuality' should cease to exist. "
Great point. I don’t care what someone labels themselves as, just whether they’re into the same things as I am |
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"There should be a distinction made between being "emotionally attracted", "physically attracted", "still excited but must be in the presence of a woman", "unattracted" and the opposite spectrum: "repulsed".
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I’d definitely be in the physically attracted bracket for a penis but unattracted for the rest of the male anatomy… go figure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The world would be a happier place if more men just sucked cock.
In that case, I’ll make it my mission to make the world a better place lol. I didn’t know that’s all it took!"
So simple right!
Pictures are appreciated. |
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"The world would be a happier place if more men just sucked cock.
In that case, I’ll make it my mission to make the world a better place lol. I didn’t know that’s all it took!
So simple right!
Pictures are appreciated."
Yeah, line em up lol.
Sent to you privately. |
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"I've always beleived that a guy being attracted to the male form is gay and if you're attracted to the female form you're straight, whats between the legs is irrelevant"
But what if you’re only attract to a small (or big, as the case may be) part of a man?! |
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"I've always beleived that a guy being attracted to the male form is gay and if you're attracted to the female form you're straight, whats between the legs is irrelevant
But what if you’re only attract to a small (or big, as the case may be) part of a man?!"
can’t believe you’re still struggling with this one after all the comments made so far  |
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"I've always beleived that a guy being attracted to the male form is gay and if you're attracted to the female form you're straight, whats between the legs is irrelevant
But what if you’re only attract to a small (or big, as the case may be) part of a man?!
can’t believe you’re still struggling with this one after all the comments made so far "
Just prolonging the conversation lol. I am what I am I guess! |
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I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women..  |
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"I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women.. "
That’s an interesting one because it seems you’re physically attracted to certain women but not emotionally attracted to them.
For me, the sight of a penis turns me on but the sight of an otherwise naked man does nothing for me. Certainly no emotional attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women..
That’s an interesting one because it seems you’re physically attracted to certain women but not emotionally attracted to them.
For me, the sight of a penis turns me on but the sight of an otherwise naked man does nothing for me. Certainly no emotional attraction. "
Ask them to keep their clothes on. |
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"I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women..
That’s an interesting one because it seems you’re physically attracted to certain women but not emotionally attracted to them.
For me, the sight of a penis turns me on but the sight of an otherwise naked man does nothing for me. Certainly no emotional attraction.
Ask them to keep their clothes on. "
Lol… just your penis out please sir… |
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"I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women..
That’s an interesting one because it seems you’re physically attracted to certain women but not emotionally attracted to them.
For me, the sight of a penis turns me on but the sight of an otherwise naked man does nothing for me. Certainly no emotional attraction. "
I get that on here especially as there are so many dicks without the whole body being shown.. some are pretty impressive but then a lot of the time I'm disappointed when I see the whole body it's attached to as the attraction usually disappears.
You'd be in your eyeholes with a glory hole  |
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"I'm a 'straight female' never been with a women (I couldn't imagine kissing or doing sexual stuff) but have always been turned on by a woman's figure..(I blame the underwear section of the Kay's catalogue)
In real life I don't go around looking at females and fancying them. I'm attracted to men but visually turned on by women..
That’s an interesting one because it seems you’re physically attracted to certain women but not emotionally attracted to them.
For me, the sight of a penis turns me on but the sight of an otherwise naked man does nothing for me. Certainly no emotional attraction.
I get that on here especially as there are so many dicks without the whole body being shown.. some are pretty impressive but then a lot of the time I'm disappointed when I see the whole body it's attached to as the attraction usually disappears.
You'd be in your eyeholes with a glory hole "
That’s it! Genius! Fancy depositing your penis through a glory hole, anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not really into labels myself I hate all the pigeon holeing ha.
I love lots of different types of people their gender is pretty irrelevant to me.
I just like what I like if that makes me bi, pansexual or whatever then so be it. |
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"I enjoy sex with men and women but don’t see a guy and want him the way I see a woman and get aroused. Porn has to involve a man and a woman to turn me on."
Yeah I know what you mean, porn with no dick lacks penetration lol |
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"I am not really into labels myself I hate all the pigeon holeing ha.
I love lots of different types of people their gender is pretty irrelevant to me.
I just like what I like if that makes me bi, pansexual or whatever then so be it. "
I think it just makes you human. If we were all truly honest with ourselves, we’d like different things about different people and fast run out of labels! |
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"I enjoy sex with men and women but don’t see a guy and want him the way I see a woman and get aroused. Porn has to involve a man and a woman to turn me on.
Yeah I know what you mean, porn with no dick lacks penetration lol"
Gay porn is porn with a dick. So is trans porn. |
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"I'd say it was gay
If you weren’t such a fine specimen of a man, I’d be offended lol"
I'm not knocking anyone I just think if you like a man's penis it's definitely somewhat gay sorry if I offended you |
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"I enjoy sex with men and women but don’t see a guy and want him the way I see a woman and get aroused. Porn has to involve a man and a woman to turn me on.
Yeah I know what you mean, porn with no dick lacks penetration lol
Gay porn is porn with a dick. So is trans porn. "
I do like trans porn, although gay porn does nothing for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy sex with men and women but don’t see a guy and want him the way I see a woman and get aroused. Porn has to involve a man and a woman to turn me on.
Yeah I know what you mean, porn with no dick lacks penetration lol
Gay porn is porn with a dick. So is trans porn.
I do like trans porn, although gay porn does nothing for me!"
I like sone if it, but a lot of it no |
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"I'd say it was gay
If you weren’t such a fine specimen of a man, I’d be offended lolI'm not knocking anyone I just think if you like a man's penis it's definitely somewhat gay sorry if I offended you"
Not offended in the slightest, I was only joking. Nothing offensive about being or being called gay. |
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"I enjoy sex with men and women but don’t see a guy and want him the way I see a woman and get aroused. Porn has to involve a man and a woman to turn me on.
Yeah I know what you mean, porn with no dick lacks penetration lol
Gay porn is porn with a dick. So is trans porn.
I do like trans porn, although gay porn does nothing for me!
I like sone if it, but a lot of it no "
Do you have a favourite type of porn? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby is spaghetti straight as we call it. He is not attracted to men, they do not arouse him, however if he is already aroused, hot n horny then that spaghetti ain't straight no more.
I'd say Cock-curious, however if sticking to dictionary terms bi-curious covers it...it just does not seem the right descriptor to us.
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"I mean I get turned on at the sight of cock. Never had sex with a cock, never really wanted to.
But have sucked one and loved it. "
Fucking drum roll. Fireworks go off, a shitty grainy 1970's film footage of a rocket fires, a volcano erupts. The 1812 overture strikes up.
The OP is gay or bi. Jesus. That was hard work. |
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"Why does it matter? Don’t put yourself in a box
Because Fab asks whether I’m bisexual and I don’t know!
Perhaps put curious, whilst you're determining your fab label"
Doesn’t feel right to just say curious when I’m active in that area |
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"Hubby is spaghetti straight as we call it. He is not attracted to men, they do not arouse him, however if he is already aroused, hot n horny then that spaghetti ain't straight no more.
I'd say Cock-curious, however if sticking to dictionary terms bi-curious covers it...it just does not seem the right descriptor to us.
Mrs H x"
Cock-curious does sound like a better descriptor. Or even maybe cocksexual? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to wonder why I always tried to meet couples rather than just single women, then realised I liked seeing nice hard cocks. Eventually I found I liked to more than look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Labels are used far to much nowadays. Just be happy enjoying what you like.
I'm not attracted to men in any way shape or form,but i love playing with couples and verse with Trans |
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