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"I'd imagine it's boring as fuck to have the same thing parroted at me. Imagining that that's all they are capable of saying, instead of being messaged as if they want a conversation, makes me think they're dim."  | |||
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"Loads of reasons, but they all point to the same thing. They have no wish to enter into a conversation. It’s easier to move on than to waste time overthinking why it might have happened. " "Nice pictures" is nowhere near an invite to a conversation. It's a statement, first of all. | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " FFS not again | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " Is that cause they send lovely pictures? Women always know how to look great! | |||
"We love the compliments but the moment you reply with a "thank you" its often then taken as an invite to chat and then we feel that we are being rude if we dont reply again. "
And they usually assume 'thank you' means you want to fuck them senseless/ provide them with wank chat.  | |||
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"Thank you for all your comments much appreciated. It’s made me more understanding the reasons why" Lol liar | |||
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"I’m inclined to agree, with the above. As a male, I have received cold messages from a few Females and a Couple, who have feedback about my profile saying they don’t like it. Which I find bizarre? Not the fact they don’t like it, the fact they message telling me they don’t? They could skip by, like they would if it was a one sentence wonder, but with mine for some reason, they feel compelled to message? None of the feedback has been consistent, either, as that would be a key indicator of a problem. I have high EQ and I’m always open to radical candour, I’m willing and resilient enough to react, respond and to get in to dialogue where appropriate to ensure nothing is overly ambiguous or offensive. However, I have learnt, as the saying goes ‘you cannot please all of the people, all of the time’. Take it in your stride, prioritise the high value and be targeted to who you’re trying to build rapport with. Share why you addressed them, tell them a little about you, maybe ask a few questions that intrigue and spark further dialogue. Connection is key in many cases. No one wants to be a meat suit. My wife’s profile (we are stag & vixen couple who are open) is inundated with ‘hi - wanna chat’ or ‘hi - you free now’ or ‘Hi - I wanna fuck you’. For me it’s tiring, for her it’s exhausting. The level of entitlement and expectation from men is just frankly demoralising, discouraging and disrespectful. Best of luck out there, it is really not easy, and I personally have stopped sending first messages; if someone is interested, they’ll find you, I’m not desperate, I only want to attract the right people for the right reasons. So I have been patient and ready to get in to conversation; and it does happen. I’m having a whale of a time. {wink} Again, if you wish to converse privately, feel free to message me; but until then, much respect and best of luck. Stag" | |||
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"Thank you for all your comments much appreciated. It’s made me more understanding the reasons why Lol liar" I dunno. Some people don't read the FAQs and aren't familiar with some of the norms that have developed. I don't think it's necessarily a lying thing in all cases. | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " I'm guessing because they want to. There is no obligation on anyone to respond. They don't want to have a conversation with you, so they don't. | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... " Early on I replied to a few messages like "lovely pics". It was a mistake because they seemed to think that it was a compliment to fucking express lane. | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... Early on I replied to a few messages like "lovely pics". It was a mistake because they seemed to think that it was a compliment to fucking express lane." Well in their world........ | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Is that cause they send lovely pictures? Women always know how to look great!" OP, someone asked you a question here but you haven't answered it. You could respond to all the other comments too. | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " Whats the prize for the correct answer..? | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... Early on I replied to a few messages like "lovely pics". It was a mistake because they seemed to think that it was a compliment to fucking express lane. Well in their world........ " their world is about to slam into the brick world of reality. it might hurt | |||
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"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter." If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! | |||
"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter. If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! " I have none, but my filters are set to fuck off. I recommend  | |||
"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter. If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! I have none, but my filters are set to fuck off. I recommend "Now looking for this setting ! | |||
"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter. If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! I have none, but my filters are set to fuck off. I recommend "That's with filters on! I need to tighten  | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures " The last few messages I've sent out ! I just saw that they have been Deleted!! But as ive read & seen on here women get so much mail, that they cant be bothered to reply to everyone just choose the ones that they maybe interested in replying to ? | |||
"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter. If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! I have none, but my filters are set to fuck off. I recommend
Now looking for this setting ! "Message filters: Can't be single Female Can't be single Male Can't be Male, Female couple Can't be TV/TS/CD Can't be Female couple Can't be Male couple | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... " Was a great time. Thanks GC. Inspired me to ‘lovely pictures’ to everyone now and my cock I’d probably going to fall off from all the fucking. | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... Was a great time. Thanks GC. Inspired me to ‘lovely pictures’ to everyone now and my cock I’d probably going to fall off from all the fucking. " Hot damn! | |||
"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures The last few messages I've sent out ! I just saw that they have been Deleted!! But as ive read & seen on here women get so much mail, that they cant be bothered to reply to everyone just choose the ones that they maybe interested in replying to ? " If they don't delete, there are pages and pages to go through... That's if they are SS and can see past page 1! | |||
"I haven’t replied to all of your thoughts on this matter, but I did say that I understand and I’ve taken on board what you’re been telling me and it is opened my eyes to the situation, and I can understand people sign if they answer it’s like a freight train of messages. I didn’t really think of that possibility so once again thank you much appreciated for your thoughts on this matter. If you saw a females inbox you'd understand why... There's over 600 unread messages in my mail box and I've only been back 2.5 weeks! I have none, but my filters are set to fuck off. I recommend
That's with filters on! I need to tighten "Try keggal  | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... " You're making all the other women look bad.  | |||
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"Why do people read your messages and just delete? I can understand if I was rude but I normally say lovely pictures Someone said 'lovely pictures' to me once. It blew my mind. I went straight around to his with three mates and we fucked him into next week. All out of breath and sweaty smiley we were.... ahhhhh that phrase.... You're making all the other women look bad. "I know. I would have kept quiet about it but I thought if I shared..... well .... you know..... the bad women might make good. Always here to help. | |||
