I always find it a bit weird that wife sharing is one sided. Men want the sex part of the relationship not the other sides like sharing the household duties and washing up? Just a thought. But I would happily share the moaning about not doing something side than the bit I really enjoy in a relationship |
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"Occasionally you get guys on here offering to be free cleaners.
I never found in relationships that I had to use a whip to get my partner to clean up. I tended to give up and do it myself." mmm I would do the washing up if you asked me with a whip in hand any day! |
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"Occasionally you get guys on here offering to be free cleaners.
I never found in relationships that I had to use a whip to get my partner to clean up. I tended to give up and do it myself. mmm I would do the washing up if you asked me with a whip in hand any day!"
I'd rather do it myself  |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
When I was with my ex and the kids were young, I worked nights.
I’d get them up for school when I got in, take them then sleep get up pick them up from school, make the dinner. Wife would get in eat dinner put a wash on, I’d go work she’d iron then go bed.
We both cleaned house as we went, it’s a partnership after all. |
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Are we supposed to do our swinging partners housework now .
My neighbour was telling me I needed to get 'my' washing in the other day. She was shocked when I told her I don't get involved in the laundry, Mr N does that. Yet another neighbour told me her husband does all 'her' ironing. She didn't understand me when I asked who did his.
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
"Are we supposed to do our swinging partners housework now .
My neighbour was telling me I needed to get 'my' washing in the other day. She was shocked when I told her I don't get involved in the laundry, Mr N does that. Yet another neighbour told me her husband does all 'her' ironing. She didn't understand me when I asked who did his.
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Hate ironing!!! |
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"Are we supposed to do our swinging partners housework now .
My neighbour was telling me I needed to get 'my' washing in the other day. She was shocked when I told her I don't get involved in the laundry, Mr N does that. Yet another neighbour told me her husband does all 'her' ironing. She didn't understand me when I asked who did his.
Hate ironing!!!"
Me too but I do it anyway |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"Are we supposed to do our swinging partners housework now .
My neighbour was telling me I needed to get 'my' washing in the other day. She was shocked when I told her I don't get involved in the laundry, Mr N does that. Yet another neighbour told me her husband does all 'her' ironing. She didn't understand me when I asked who did his.
Hate ironing!!!
Me too but I do it anyway "
Great! I got a few shirts you could iron for me, how would you like payment  |
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"Are we supposed to do our swinging partners housework now .
My neighbour was telling me I needed to get 'my' washing in the other day. She was shocked when I told her I don't get involved in the laundry, Mr N does that. Yet another neighbour told me her husband does all 'her' ironing. She didn't understand me when I asked who did his.
Hate ironing!!!
Me too but I do it anyway
Great! I got a few shirts you could iron for me, how would you like payment "
A couple of bottles of Krug should cover it with a pair of crystal champagne flutes.  |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
In our relationship, I always did the bulk of the domestic work, including the cooking (even though my wife was a better cook than me). One my wife's health and mobility deteriorated, I did it all. We never had "defined gender roles", it's just how things worked out. You'd think in this day and age that the assumption that certain tasks are "women's work" or "men's work" would be outdated; yet it persists.
Our daughter has grown up to know that there aren't "gender-specific" roles, just roles. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
I don't dislike the activity of ironing, just the inordinate amount of time it takes. When I was a kid, our maid used to spend her entire Thursday afternoon doing it, it's very time- intensive. |
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By *ee04Man
over a year ago
Essex |
"I don't dislike the activity of ironing, just the inordinate amount of time it takes. When I was a kid, our maid used to spend her entire Thursday afternoon doing it, it's very time- intensive. "
This is it and it’s not like you can do anything else while doing it. Doesn’t help I’m anal about it to the point of OCD |
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"I always find it a bit weird that wife sharing is one sided. Men want the sex part of the relationship not the other sides like sharing the household duties and washing up? Just a thought. But I would happily share the moaning about not doing something side than the bit I really enjoy in a relationship "
How are sharing a wife and keeping the house clean related?  |
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