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Advice please! And thank you!
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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?
Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "
I believe so, instead of free reign call it, the art of being passionate and in sinc with our deepest desires!
Then you will know her truest self.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it not up to the woman to decide?
Her words though. "do not give me free reign"
So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes...  "
Sounds like passing responsibility onto someone else imo |
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
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"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?
Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "
Wise? Depends on your constitution.
Fun? A different matter entirely.
No good story starts with a salad.
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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago
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"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark. "
Okay, a little context
It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.
Okay, a little context
It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."
Shopping in Asda? |
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"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark. "
Beneath the full moon's gaze, follow the shadow's dance. Seek the forgotten whispers where the river meets the ancient oak. Embrace the echoes of time, and unveil the concealed truth within the mirror's reflection.
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
exeter |
"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.
Okay, a little context
It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."
Omg if we're not talking bunny boiler crazy, just stop being a baby and brace yourself.
What's the worst that can happen? |
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I read a short story today which was about exactly this. A woman being given permission to let her crazy out. It didn’t end well. There was a sword, and it was pushed all the way through her man’s leg and out the other side. Things escalated and she ended up shooting her long-lost father by accident. |
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
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"I read a short story today which was about exactly this. A woman being given permission to let her crazy out. It didn’t end well. There was a sword, and it was pushed all the way through her man’s leg and out the other side. Things escalated and she ended up shooting her long-lost father by accident."
This actually happened to me last Monday.  |
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"Is it not up to the woman to decide?
Her words though. "do not give me free reign"
So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes... "
Specify crazy please.
Bite your cock crazy?
Tie you up and fuck you from behind crazy?
Possibly break your bed or your boner crazy?
Several personalities with 1 body kind?
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"Um... How would you propose to keep it in?!Put a plug in it?!
Wait, is *that* what buttplugs are really for?
Yep. I keep the crazy in my butthole. "
Taylor Swift's Karma isn't quite how I remember it! 
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By *odevilWoman
over a year ago
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"I think we all know that women need the firm hand if a man to keep them on the straight and narrow… let her be herself and if she gets ideas above herself - take her to one side and say something calming like ‘ look here you batshit crazy fire breathing harpy… just get a grip and stop the nonsense or I shall suspend any smashing of your back doors until you do!!! ( remember and wave your finger in her face - they appreciate the dominance!!) 
** Todgermoore …. Shit stirring in every pot on fab since 2010 "
I can conclusively say that this will definitely work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stay behind just in case. You will touch the fire, maybe even burn. How long you'll stay, who you'll end up like after, and how you'll get out (if you ever want to)- these are the questions. Do it, let her flames out. |
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"Is it not up to the woman to decide?
Her words though. "do not give me free reign"
So if I say free reign is fine, and then the crazy comes... "
I can relate to this, I feel like there’s a feeling of safety in that |
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I'd have a few questions about the homonym, and who spelt it incorrectly - you or her?
"Free rein" - freedom to go crazy.
"Free reign" - giving all the power to a tyrant/dictator.
And if there's a combination of the two going on in someone's unconscious, I'd want to make sure they had the intelligence (emotional and traditional) to cope with the games they want to play.
Because they probably can't, which ends up being really boring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.
Okay, a little context
It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional."
If it is none of those things and you have a safe word or signal already, then go for it . |
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"Think we may need some context here OP!
No, can't do that. Vagueness is what I do best. Cryptic and riddles in the dark.
Okay, a little context
It's not about angry, temperament, or emotional.
If it is none of those things and you have a safe word or signal already, then go for it ."
Yup - context of the whole thing (you might just both be so horny you should do it anyway...sometimes a fuck is just needed), and safe word/signal as back-up if it drifts too far away from mutually beneficial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it wise to give a woman free reign to let her crazy out?
Unchained, no holds barred, full on crazy. "
If you're confident enough you can meet and exceed expectations, why not. Sounds like a wild ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's best to encourage everyone to be themselves, I reckon anyway "
Go and enjoy someone exactly as they are. And then watch them transform into the greatest, truest version of themselves.  |
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Coming back to this one, because I wanted to clarify my opinion.
Free reign to be crazy, what does that mean to me?
In my previous relationship I had to be the epitome of a stepford wife. Had to be a perfect wife at all costs, over 20 years I performed that task quite brilliantly.
But it was wasn't me, I started this relationship where I was given free reign to do all the crazy things I wasn't allowed to do before. I mean go out with my friends dancing all night, totally crazy right? Have the ability to talk and discuss doing things that the ex would deem as crazy is now allowed. Actually do some of that crazy kinky fuckery stuff is also, yay. Crazy, as all other things is subjective. I do crazy within our defined boundaries, luckily my idea of crazy aligns with the other half ideas too.
"Normal is an allusion. What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly" Charles Addams |
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I had a little uneasiness with the whole thread because of that hoary old ‘crazy women’ cliché. But as it turns out, nobody has taken it too seriously and it’s actually been kinda fun so far. Long may it continue.
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"I had a little uneasiness with the whole thread because of that hoary old ‘crazy women’ cliché. But as it turns out, nobody has taken it too seriously and it’s actually been kinda fun so far. Long may it continue.
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That was my first thought.
If you can make a woman feel safe enough, to completely let go, then do it. We're not often afforded that. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
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"I had a little uneasiness with the whole thread because of that hoary old ‘crazy women’ cliché. But as it turns out, nobody has taken it too seriously and it’s actually been kinda fun so far. Long may it continue.
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Bitches do be crazy though Rose.
Most people are to be fair but I am particularly laid back and not give a shit like. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"I do enjoy vagueness.
Seeing the assumptions and conclusions people jump to is not only fascinating but also entertaining and very telling. "
Add some detail then!
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By *aitonel OP Man 52 weeks ago
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"I do enjoy vagueness.
Seeing the assumptions and conclusions people jump to is not only fascinating but also entertaining and very telling.
Add some detail then!
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Why!? Then it's not vague and I don't get to witness the assumptions! That's the best part. |
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