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Not got away as such, it was a crazy long time ago and we both wanted/needed different things from each other. We recently reconnected but still want and need different things but ironically I think if today me met his yesteryear self or vice-versa, we’d be perfect together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe one. I didn't think he wanted to date and I didn't think he'd go for me as a girlfriend.
Then he got a girlfriend and I realised I probably came across not interested instead of not confident. Yet we had got naked with other beforehand.
But he came back again and again across decades in one way or another and still remembers every detail of our times spent together. He writes sexy stories using me and him as the characters, his fantasies, and sends them by email sometimes. They are well written.
Met him at 17, got naked with him at 18 and in my late 20's too. I'm now 45 and he still mails me. |
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over a year ago
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Yep, for someone i have feelings for and he returns them. But I was no good and caused drama for all involved. I was also thoroughly miserable, doubting myself, my worth and just felt shit (I only realised this after) so I walked away. I am working towards being happier in myself now and my worth, he will no doubt be happier to have that small weight he didn't realise was on his shoulder off. |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
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Had a few, most recent was the lass I dated after the ex, in reality it was too soon but we had fun and I was happy. Then I had my heart attack and it changed how I look dramatically physique wise and so much of how I felt was wrapped up in how I look that combined with coming off testosterone for a bit left me a depressed wreck and stoped caring about everything including her and she stuck it out for a bit but eventuslly got sick and left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah had one of those, great girl. Zero issues then out of the blue: her life was to busy for me.
Hard to accept, but have to respect her wishes.  "
*Update*
The one that got away just came round to see me...  |
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Oooohhh...good question.
I don't go for "forever" entwining - life is enjoyably changeable, as are people.
But there was one in 2016, not from here but she'd do well here, which I ended after a few months but probably had two, three, or four very good years in it.
Cute, little, funny, intelligent, witty, cheeky, great face and eyes, ballsy, soft, adventurous, pert boobs.
She ticked so many of my boxes.
I wouldn't want to be together again, because I like change.
But that change was forced too early by me, when it had a lot more still in it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things end for a reason
Yeah, but it’s okay to resent that reason.
For a little while, not forever.
How long?
5-10 business days"
Including bank holidays.. . It adds up. |
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