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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago
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"The ratio has nothing to do with it
Once the effort has been put in and are connecting with those who fit your and their criteria  it's not a numbers game "
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(Mr)
I wasn't always with my partner and I'm not an oil painting.
Also old, dad bod, bald and on the odd day a grumpy bastard.
It never stopped me from going places, meeting people and getting fucked senseless.
One thing I didn't have was self pity. Get out to some clubs and have fun.
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"(Mr)
I wasn't always with my partner and I'm not an oil painting.
Also old, dad bod, bald and on the odd day a grumpy bastard.
It never stopped me from going places, meeting people and getting fucked senseless.
One thing I didn't have was self pity. Get out to some clubs and have fun.
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My first thought when people bring up this subject is why are they trying to attract everyone at once?
Ratios don't mean a thing if you are content to bide your time and speak to individuals as individuals and not worry about where you are in the pecking order.
The day I start seeing this place as a competition will be the day I pack it in.
There are many younger, fitter and more well endowed men on here but I'm not competing with any of them.
I'm not competing with all the 58 year olds either.
Or all the 58 year olds in my local area.
I'm just having a chat with someone and if they're not interested in me that has nothing to do with numbers or ratios. |
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"Everybody is always someone’s type. 
Not everyone...
Even a misery like you, yes.
God I hope not
Well yeah, that might mean there is another like you out there... "
Don't lie to her. Sometimes it's better to rip the bandaid off quickly. Give up or cheer up Ravie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being a dickhead puts you head and shoulders over a lot of people
Or a drama queen...
Yes. My "dickhead" is gender inclusive  "
M, F, Cpl, TV/TS … I give it a week before someone wants Dickhead as a category |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ratio of men to women is ridiculous us poor ugly men don’t stand a chance  "
Don't be silly.
From my point of view, chat with someone, chat on the forum get to know people maybe respond to comments, go to clubs and meet people. Your already starting threads, starting a conversation....
You'll have more success talking to the ladies/gents/your interested demographic if you do that.
Then see how it goes. Failing that for instant gratification as previously said ...have a good wank. Good luck!  |
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