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I like it when it went through a rough patch but got through with the help of sone uplifting memes and now supports other sex when the walls are closing in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all. |
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Depends on the mood and the situation and the dynamic.
My sadist wants to leave me black and purple and teary when the mood and location suits. Fantastic.
Some stranger trying to play rough can fuck the fuck off though  |
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"Michelle loves to be spanked to the extent where she’s asking me to do it harder, to the extent where I sometimes feel uncomfortable with how hard she’s asking for it. "
I have a chart for this you may find useful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all."
I'll wait for the scale. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"How rough... Depends on the mood and vibe in the moment
What sort of vibe and mood? Asking for a friend."
Kind of like Prey said. But not quite.
Sometimes I want the sex but my head space is not right for anything extreme. Angry sex yes please, but going in to the realms of bdsm, never a good idea when you are not level headed. Sometimes I want it a little more sensual, slower and about fully enjoying another person instead of that lust fueld need to just be rough and intense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale."
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 "
10 is basically sadomasochism which for a reactivity vanilla place like fab would be way beyond the realms of rough sex. |
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 "
Interesting question and they joy of a woman's minds
As to the pleasure she gets . |
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 "
TBH, your 10 is probably like our 3  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10
TBH, your 10 is probably like our 3 "
Love to know what your ten is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 "
I might be around a five ISH. Maybe more? hair pulled, boobs slapped, bitten, clawed, nails dug in, hand round my neck pinning me, or just pinning me but fucking me hard, especially from behind. I want to hear him swear and growl, I want the spanks to sting. But I'm also the type to goad and challenge when I'm in a certain mood and tell him to 'go harder' and 'fucking give it to me', and say things like 'is that all you've got?', or 'you can do better than that'. Or I can be no words if that's his instruction and not goad him at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10
I might be around a five ISH. Maybe more? hair pulled, boobs slapped, bitten, clawed, nails dug in, hand round my neck pinning me, or just pinning me but fucking me hard, especially from behind. I want to hear him swear and growl, I want the spanks to sting. But I'm also the type to goad and challenge when I'm in a certain mood and tell him to 'go harder' and 'fucking give it to me', and say things like 'is that all you've got?', or 'you can do better than that'. Or I can be no words if that's his instruction and not goad him at all."
That's sound perfect fun |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10
I might be around a five ISH. Maybe more? hair pulled, boobs slapped, bitten, clawed, nails dug in, hand round my neck pinning me, or just pinning me but fucking me hard, especially from behind. I want to hear him swear and growl, I want the spanks to sting. But I'm also the type to goad and challenge when I'm in a certain mood and tell him to 'go harder' and 'fucking give it to me', and say things like 'is that all you've got?', or 'you can do better than that'. Or I can be no words if that's his instruction and not goad him at all."
The fun rough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also surely doesn’t it depend on who you are with and the dynamic of the session.
A stranger doing anything “rough” would not give me the same mental stimulation as someone you know.
It starts and ends in the head for me, a long time before anything “rough” or not happens.
Trust and communication is paramount |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I think you should do a scale.
You know like a levels one to ten thing?
Just let us know what 1 would equate to and what ten would equate to.
And feel free to fill in the numbers in-between to make it easier for us all.
I'll wait for the scale.
1 being light spanking
5 being choking spanking hair pulling
10 being degraded with marks left form cains ect
10 "
What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks.
But like others have said, "it depends". The dynamic, the day, my mood. Anything from 1-8 on the S&M only scale. Both giving and receiving as I'm switch sado-mas, you can leave the degradation at 0 always. |
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"Depends on the mood and the situation and the dynamic.
My sadist wants to leave me black and purple and teary when the mood and location suits. Fantastic.
Some stranger trying to play rough can fuck the fuck off though "
I can imagine the scenes, when you batter them senseless. An angry 6ft Valkyrie warrior and a naked man. Fetch me the popcorn. |
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" What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks."
This too. Impact play I can be double figures. Humiliation and degradation are zero always |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.
Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.
Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people. |
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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago
London |
"I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.
Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.
Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people. "
Oh yeah fuck blood and stuff. That ain't the one for me.
It still has to be fun and playful, I would never fuck anyone that wanted me to INJURE the poor thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think when rough is used it needs to be stated if its vanilla rough, or bdsm rough. And then go from there.
Rough fucking is one thing, it's just rough vanilla with a few extras.
Bdsm rough is a whole other kind of rough that even the lower end will be too much for a lot of people. "
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I’m often surprised how rough women actually can take and keeps upping my version of normal, then occasionally you meet someone quite vanilla and have to almost reset! I’d say 7/10 compared to others here I’ve met & played with. I don’t like surprises either! Gradual build up |
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" What if marks are fun but degradation is always a no? Masochist does not automatically mean degradee, and vice versa, they are separate kinks.
This too. Impact play I can be double figures. Humiliation and degradation are zero always "
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Miss and I attend kink events, she gets to mark me, it can be really intense but the pain is alongside aftercare and no humiliation at all. Everyone gets what they need, a few bruises, whip marks, cane marks, scratches, but nothing permanent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to know your Limits how rough do you like sex to be"
It depends who I'm with and what type of rough you mean. One ex liked rough sex, was enthusiastic about the BDSM, but wary too. A fwb liked sex with a bit of spice and was willing to try a bit rougher but that didn't feel right with him. My ex partner liked BDSM and could be a proper arse, lulling me into a false sense of security then bam, it wasn't, the sex though was varied it could be softer, but also have BDSM carried through there was always lots of after care hugs. My current Fwb/partner/not sure how to class it again is into the BDSM, I'm really looking forward to exploring more of this with him. The sex is a brilliant mixture again. I know I've mentioned what this partner liked or that one, what I'm trying to say is I really enjoyed it all. Lots. So I can enjoy vanilla and the BDSM. But with the BDSM my tastes will vary with who I am with, what they can get out of me, what limits they can play around but even then, I don't know how I would compare to someone else, and to be fair, without realising I've been there, done that and felt shit. I am what I am. So I could count myself as liking it rough, but not sure how rough. |
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