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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We see a lot of posts about what not to message, what annoys us etc. So how about a positive spin on it to brighten up hump day?
What are your green fab flags?
In a first message?
On a bio?
On a first meet (social)?
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When a woman contacts me and I can quickly glean from her opening message that she bears all the hallmarks of being able to handle a conversation better than most people can handle a cock, that's a p+sitive green flag for me. |
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Decent spelling is nice.
And seeing that someone knows how to press return and separate paragraphs.
(I get quite out of breath trying to read some of the endless run-on sentences in my inbox that don’t have any breaks or anywhere to pause for a second or anything …) |
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The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online. |
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In a profile, consistency with text, pics and veries.
In a message, the ability to speak to me as an equal rather than a number.
In person, they wouldn't have reached that point without any of the above. |
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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago
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How attentive a person is. If they remember something you mentioned half a dozen messages ago, then that's a sure sign they are genuine and interested in you as a person. Not just a piece of meat to be dallied with. |
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Tasteful, varied and interesting pictures. A well written & informative profile bio. Bonus points for humour.
Messages wise. Make me laugh or find some common ground. Make an effort, use punctuation.
Leave me aching for more (this does not apply to subsequent meets  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online. "
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Jesus I'm a walking red flag after reading most of these 
Greens I'd say would be - give me something to think about. Whether that's from the profile, opening message or comment on a thread. If I'm spending my spare time thinking of you then that's not a bad start  |
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"A sense of humour, self aware, in possession of their own sexuality. Finding me funny.
The last one is a stretch"
Can I get a lil' foreplay before the stretch please thankyou mister Tea man, thanks.
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online.
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all. "
This is a tough one though. Is it not two sided? Do general questions need to be asked to find a common interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online.
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all.
This is a tough one though. Is it not two sided? Do general questions need to be asked to find a common interest?"
Ah have we not found our common interest yet? Is that problem?  |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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-They have a friendly, inviting well written profile 
-They can compose an interesting more than ‘one word message’
-They have recent & full length pictures (so you don’t feel catfished)
-Conversation flows naturally like you talking to a friend you’ve known for ages 
-They put in as much effort/ show enthusiasm as you do in chatting & planning a meet
-They happy to FaceTime/ meet for social 1st (us blokes like to feel safe too with who we meeting). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That she appears to have a pulse and doesn't look or give the impression that her name is really Dave who lives at home with his mum and wants to put a pringle can up his bum"
Any particular flavour? |
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"That she appears to have a pulse and doesn't look or give the impression that her name is really Dave who lives at home with his mum and wants to put a pringle can up his bum
Any particular flavour?"
If it's not BBQ, would it even count? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That she appears to have a pulse and doesn't look or give the impression that her name is really Dave who lives at home with his mum and wants to put a pringle can up his bum
Any particular flavour?
If it's not BBQ, would it even count?"
I'm more a sour cream person. |
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"That she appears to have a pulse and doesn't look or give the impression that her name is really Dave who lives at home with his mum and wants to put a pringle can up his bum
Any particular flavour?"
Paprika. That would be a roller coaster of emotions |
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online.
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all.
This is a tough one though. Is it not two sided? Do general questions need to be asked to find a common interest?
Ah have we not found our common interest yet? Is that problem? "
I thought it was my penis? |
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online.
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all.
This is a tough one though. Is it not two sided? Do general questions need to be asked to find a common interest?"
To me there is a big difference between generic and general questions? Generic to me feels as though they have a set list of questions they ask. General is good if it's a starting point to see if you have things in common. Which you then use to ask further questions. |
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"A sense of humour, self aware, in possession of their own sexuality. Finding me funny.
The last one is a stretch"
Pretty much this! I find myself hilarious, so if you don't, it's probably not gonna happen. I'll add talking to me like a person, not a fantasy made flesh. At least to start with
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A sense of humour, self aware, in possession of their own sexuality. Finding me funny.
The last one is a stretch
Pretty much this! I find myself hilarious, so if you don't, it's probably not gonna happen. I'll add talking to me like a person, not a fantasy made flesh. At least to start with
Mrs TMN x"
Absolutely! All of this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A nice message relating to our profile as proof it's been read.
Some nice verifications stating more than just "he hammered me like a tent peg".
A bit about themselves in their bio.
Some nice pictures
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The most important one for me is a profile picture that doesn't make me shudder. A close up of cock or flaps does not make me want to chat.
J"
I don't even open messages from disembodied penises. Some creative angles and a bit more flesh is appreciated for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are your green fab flags?
In a first message?
On a bio?
On a first meet (social)?
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I’m keeping these cards close to my chest…. 
If I posted here, it’s like giving them the password to my secret sexy box of goodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ability to have a conversation online. I find many either ask me generic questions or it's really one sided. I find I loose interest really easily. Think there is an art to getting to know someone online.
This definitely this.
So many people really don't seem to know how to converse online at all.
This is a tough one though. Is it not two sided? Do general questions need to be asked to find a common interest?"
Oh absolutely agree with that.
I think it is more when they merely respond and don't ask anything you know it is all very one sided. |
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An articulate message is always good, regardless of length. And a veri from someone we know personally immediately confirms them as genuine, which although not necessarily a green flag, it means its definitely not red! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Varies by the individual.. as a general rule
Looking for similar things,interests as denoted in their profile ..gets a green tick..
after that messaging more the words used in those can be a green tick
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"Mixing blue and yellow paint, then applying to a triangle piece of cloth
There's always one  "
Aren't triangular ones called 'pennants'?
..and I don't want any giving me an N sign for being a pedant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm.. To be opened it starts with the profile name, then picture and a hint of intriguing text. Then a thoughtful profile
To continue it has intelligent conversation
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"... Quiet dignity is a huge turn on.
Absolutely! "
Quiet dignity. So rare to hear these words on Fab, but oh so relevant to the subject of attraction. At least in our little corner of the interweb x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the message is interesting then that's probably going to be the biggest green flag I can think of. I would be happy never getting a message again if it means I get to miss out on the "meet now" and "you're so cute" messages. Getting complimented has never been more depressing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anybody that sends an actual sentence. Starting with a capital letter. Finishing with a full stop. Less than that and the conversation doesn’t go anywhere. "
This is a surprisingly high bar to set around here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If the message is interesting then that's probably going to be the biggest green flag I can think of. I would be happy never getting a message again if it means I get to miss out on the "meet now" and "you're so cute" messages. Getting complimented has never been more depressing."
If only there was a filter for that! |
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