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But hang on, if women aren't the problem...
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Then h'why is it so easy for men to meet men here, but alas, many bi women complain about NOT being able to meet other bi women?! Eh?!
(Note this is a serious thread written as a poor joke. It's actually something I have thought about but worded it like an ass because that's very much a me thing to do ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Then h'why is it so easy for men to meet men here, but alas, many bi women complain about NOT being able to meet other bi women?! Eh?!
(Note this is a serious thread written as a poor joke. It's actually something I have thought about but worded it like an ass because that's very much a me thing to do )"
Don’t ask the hard questions
Bi women need to learn to read the bio and send a well crafted respectful first message. |
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Bruce,if you've ever been to a restaurant with a woman you'll know exactly why. They never know what they want and when they do chose, it's always wrong and they wish they had what someone else has. |
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By *ary69321Man
over a year ago
Newcastle upon tyne |
I thought it was just me that is terrible at flirting, I'm 54 and I've dated 2 women, if a girl was flirting with me, I couldn't tell, even if she was to fall over in front of me, legs spread and said to me take me, I want you so much, I would still think she didn't like me. |
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I'd hazard a guess that many bi women are only bi when their partner is present. Not all by any means but enough to make it difficult for women to meet women alone.
I'd also guess that women will hesitate to meet a man alone because they're very, very wary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my own personal experience.
With women it can be harder to tell what's flirting and what's friendliness - girls generally are more open with other girls whether there's attraction or not.
With guys you can kinda tell.
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"I'd hazard a guess that many bi women are only bi when their partner is present. Not all by any means but enough to make it difficult for women to meet women alone.
I'd also guess that women will hesitate to meet a man alone because they're very, very wary. "
Also this, as a woman I need to feel safe, I wouldn't have a hope of defending myself if anything happened. Men on men are pretty equal in that situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my own personal experience.
With women it can be harder to tell what's flirting and what's friendliness - girls generally are more open with other girls whether there's attraction or not.
With guys you can kinda tell.
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Ye men will just out right tell you they want to fuck you, I have the messages to prove it haa |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why "
I did agree by saying yes and no to this.
1) For women there is the added level of vulnerability (what happens if I get attacked or get pregnant). For men this is not or less of a perceived problem.
2) The numbers have plays a part women can be more selective. Done been get desperate with the lack of women.
3) none the less not everyone one the motto 'any hole is a goal'. Or 'any dick does the trick'. Showing from my perspective there are some people I turned down simply because I am not sexually attracted to them. Even if I have enjoyed the conversation. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"In my own personal experience.
With women it can be harder to tell what's flirting and what's friendliness - girls generally are more open with other girls whether there's attraction or not.
With guys you can kinda tell.
Ye men will just out right tell you they want to fuck you, I have the messages to prove it haa"
Same, bless them it is so sweet |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
I did agree by saying yes and no to this.
1) For women there is the added level of vulnerability (what happens if I get attacked or get pregnant). For men this is not or less of a perceived problem.
2) The numbers have plays a part women can be more selective. Done been get desperate with the lack of women.
3) none the less not everyone one the motto 'any hole is a goal'. Or 'any dick does the trick'. Showing from my perspective there are some people I turned down simply because I am not sexually attracted to them. Even if I have enjoyed the conversation."
Women can get each other pregnant?
Well now I need to go back to school |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my own personal experience.
With women it can be harder to tell what's flirting and what's friendliness - girls generally are more open with other girls whether there's attraction or not.
With guys you can kinda tell.
Ye men will just out right tell you they want to fuck you, I have the messages to prove it haa
Same, bless them it is so sweet "
Little darlings aren't they  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal."
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.  |
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"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past. "
I’d climb your pole |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole"
See! Exactly what I mean, no standards or respect!  |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole"
Nora! |
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"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole
See! Exactly what I mean, no standards or respect! "
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"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole
Nora!"
And yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
I did agree by saying yes and no to this.
1) For women there is the added level of vulnerability (what happens if I get attacked or get pregnant). For men this is not or less of a perceived problem.
2) The numbers have plays a part women can be more selective. Done been get desperate with the lack of women.
3) none the less not everyone one the motto 'any hole is a goal'. Or 'any dick does the trick'. Showing from my perspective there are some people I turned down simply because I am not sexually attracted to them. Even if I have enjoyed the conversation.
Women can get each other pregnant?
Well now I need to go back to school "
This is exactly what they teach in school these days |
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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
Men really aren't that valuable in a society where there are no wars to fight and little heavy labour to be done, so in modern times we effectively queue up in a sexual breadline.
But in both war and peace, women's value remains the same. |
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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole
Nora!
And yours "
MFM Kai? We should really give more. |
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"Men aren't too fussy where they put their nob that's why
Yeah that, literally any hole is a goal.
Any pole is a goal exists for some women! Believe me, I've done my review... I mean verification research in the past.
I’d climb your pole
Nora!
And yours
MFM Kai? We should really give more."
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"Because I'm absolutely terrible at flirting with other women. I cringe at all of my attempts to flirt with them 
That's why.
K"
I (Luke) think that's got a lot to do with it. Hannah would meet women alone (and I would have no part in it) but she doesn't feel comfortable making the move. She grown up not having to do that so it feels really alien to her. It would be great if a woman chatted her up but it hasn't happened for a long time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I can never tell if a woman is flirting with me or not I have been completely oblivious to it before, when a girl in a club was flirting and I started talking to her about insurance.  |
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Being oblivious to flirtation seems to be a really common theme here. I’ve seen that come up time and time again on these here forums.
So maybe it’s time to propose a solution.
The men of the Lounge could offer wingman services. We’ll help you spot when you’re in with a chance. When another hottie is trying to give you those bedroom eyes.
It’s a selfless act on our part. Nothing in it for us except the sweet satisfaction of a sapphic job well done. Seeing you ladies happy. (And if you’re feeling really grateful, photos graciously accepted in our in_oxes.)  |
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"Being oblivious to flirtation seems to be a really common theme here. I’ve seen that come up time and time again on these here forums.
So maybe it’s time to propose a solution.
The men of the Lounge could offer wingman services. We’ll help you spot when you’re in with a chance. When another hottie is trying to give you those bedroom eyes.
It’s a selfless act on our part. Nothing in it for us except the sweet satisfaction of a sapphic job well done. Seeing you ladies happy. (And if you’re feeling really grateful, photos graciously accepted in our in_oxes.) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I'm absolutely terrible at flirting with other women. I cringe at all of my attempts to flirt with them
That's why.
K"
I share this pain!! I never feel like I’m doing it right  |
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Given a lot of women don't feel comfortable flirting, maybe I should set Hannah up with a lady. I can kind of encourage the two of them from the sidelines and facilitate communication and then step back when they have realised they are both into each other.
I'm guessing even if a lady wanted this she'd be worried it was a play for me to end up watching or joining in, which it absolutely wouldn't be. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I'd hazard a guess that many bi women are only bi when their partner is present. Not all by any means but enough to make it difficult for women to meet women alone.
I'd also guess that women will hesitate to meet a man alone because they're very, very wary. "
I agree I think there is an element of this.
So many threads are started by bi women who really want to meet other bi ladies on their own and they don't really get off the ground.
There seems to be a Bi curious women in so many couples and I've seen some say they do it to please their men and wouldn't meet a woman without him.
As you say, it's not all couples though. |
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