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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are they?
Am I here looking for unbuckled steam trains,and, why is everyone screaming is my carriage connected to your nuts and bolts. What is this connection fab swingers scream more about?
Do you really know what your connection is?
I know of connect 4.
My struggle with connection more than conversation. How can I connect with people, what is it am I needing to spot amongst needles in haystack.
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For me yes it's part conversation but it's also how much I can relax and enjoy the other person's company, if I can let myself be myself around them & not feel awkward which for me is tricky.
A good laugh, similar sense of humour, easy to be around that's my connection & what I look for.
I guess it's different for everyone.
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Mine is that I love to please others, it's an amazing feeling to make someone cum or to show them something they've been missing.
Also like that feeling of being wanted too!
Nothing quite like that feeling of when you can literally tell by the look in their face that they are dying to tear your clothes off. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you either connect or you don't. Its basically whether you get on with someone you find attractive. I don't think there's any more to it than that"
100% this
some under think it and alot over think it .. attraction is key as is getting on but its swinging not dating you just dont need to know the full ins n out that some seems to want to know rhat have you running for the hills.
sexual attraction is everything if its not there then we are deffo not meeting |
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"I think you either connect or you don't. Its basically whether you get on with someone you find attractive. I don't think there's any more to it than that
100% this
some under think it and alot over think it .. attraction is key as is getting on but its swinging not dating you just dont need to know the full ins n out that some seems to want to know rhat have you running for the hills.
sexual attraction is everything if its not there then we are deffo not meeting"
Some people seem to want far more from me than I'm prepared to give. Back in the late 70s when we were in our twenties we would meet someone in a bar or club, have a couple of drinks, a chat and a laugh and if we found each other attractive spend the night together. No fuss, no drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off. "
This works. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Vibe is a better word for it, connection is more relationship based. Someone who is basically your bro but also want to rip their clothes off. "
Somewhere between the two for me. I agree connection can feel a bit to much in a lot of cases. But for me vibe feels just a little less personal than I require too. |
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